my name is Nat .. ppl call me Noodalie =) um. and i can help you w. some problems your having =)havnt been through everything but i have experienced it through muah friends. im sure i can help in anything. most of my friends come to me anyways. =)
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Here's the story....
I went out with this guy named Jay for 4 months, we were really happy and any thing then i found out he was moving, so we decided it was better to break it off. So then i was single for a whole,( Still liking Jay) and met this other guy named Chirs. Chris is a really awesome guy, he is just like me, and we get along really well. But just a couple weeks ago, I found out that Jay wasnt moving any more. So we started haning out alot more. And then, Jay asked me back out again, and I said yes. And I am very happy with Jay, but I still can't stop thinking about chirs.It seems that every time i am with Jay, I wish i could be with chirs too.. What do I do.? (link)
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its hard. i no cuz ive gone through with the same thing. i would just stay with jay and wehn you dont think its working out take a break and a couple weeks later then i would start liking chris again. just do what you think is right. jay or chris?
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i have to go somewhere really important in about 4 days and my face doesnt look too good and i was wondering what is the fastest thing for my face that i can use so that my face can look clean and beatiful (or atleast better) before i go to the event? its an emergency please help! (link)
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im not really sure whats the matter with your skin. umm just try using a non-fragrant lotion or something that will really soften your skin. hope i helped.
~natt~
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Hey. I wrote this same question in oneandonly345, but I want to get all sorts of advice. I recently started my period. My friend doesn't have hers yet. She doesnt really have any boobs or any hair in the downstairs. Ik, sounds totally sick. But she's really upset. She cries to me all the time. What should I say to her to make her feel better? And what do you think about her situation? (link)
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she shouldnt want to get her perios because its really gross. i HATE it so0 much. its not like she needs it. it will come soon. she just needs to be patient. my friend was the same wway. shes gotten over it after we told her how gross it was. having your period is not a big deal. its not something to cry over. (not saying it in a mean way) yea oneandonly345 is my BESTEST friend. seriously. lub ya stine!
~natt~
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ok i turning 13 this year and i am really tall(5'5) I weigh about 20lbs over what i am so puppose to weigh...i have tried almost every diet (weight watchers jenny craig south beach ect.) and this year i want to look good. So what are some eating habbits or deits can i use to lose weight???
thanx (link)
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watch your calories. have self control. tell yourself when you can have calories and when you can't. cut down on junk and try and eat healthy most of the time. create a work out schedule too. go on walks every day at a certain time. or swim some laps. im on the swim team and off season i gain weight but once i get back in the pool i lose that weight. try something that works around your schedule and isnt to hard for you.
~natt~
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ok i turning 13 this year and i am really tall(5'5) I weigh about 20lbs over what i am so puppose to weigh...i have tried almost every diet (weight watchers jenny craig south beach ect.) and this year i want to look good. So what are some eating habbits or deits can i use to lose weight???
thanx (link)
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watch your calories. have self control. tell yourself when you can have calories and when you can't. cut down on junk and try and eat healthy most of the time. create a work out schedule too. go on walks every day at a certain time. or swim some laps. im on the swim team and off season i gain weight but once i get back in the pool i lose that weight. try something that works around your schedule and isnt to hard for you.
~natt~
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is that a good age to babysit? Because I have had like 2 years of experiance with my 2year old nephew! (link)
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yea! im 13 and i am a full time babysitter. little kids accually like younger babysitters because they are more their age and 13 year olds understand them more. and if you have experience thats even better.
~natt~
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hey im a 14 year old girl and im redecorating my room and i want it to be fun and cool my favorit colors are hot pink and blue im open to any fun colors thx (link)
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wel the colors: hot pick, blue (like on my advice column), kiwi green, and orange look s0 awsome together. you could do a hawaii theme and such. try it out. or you could do stripes of different colors and widths. on one wall and paint the other three one or two solid colors. hope i helped.
~natt~
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Okay, so I have this shirt that is just right lengthwise but the width of it is too wide. do you know any tricks that i can do to the shirt to make a smaller, without sewing. thanks in advance. (link)
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take one of the sides and fold it so the fold is on the inside. use some pins or a safety pin and it will stay. if its cotton then wa=sh it so it will shrink.
~natt~
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How do you tell if shortening is good or bad before you use it? (link)
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chekc the date and see if its good or not. if you dont think its good then just throw it out.
~natt~
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i like this guy and i think he might like me too, but i dont want to make the first move. The reason i dont want to make the move is b/c he's my friends bro and if he doesnt like me then it would be wierd and uncomfortable. What should i do, wait till he makes the first move?
signed,
lauren (link)
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my advice is to just wait. wait for the right moment because you really dont want to make anything weird or uncomfortable like you said. wait for him to make the first move. be patient.
~natt~
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I want to go on a low carb diet. What foods should I avoid eating and what foods are good for me to eat on my diet? Thanks to anyone who answers. (link)
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eat lots of fruits and vegetables. no pasta, bread, rice, etc. some fruits have a lot of carbs though. like apples, oranges, and bananas.
potatoes are no good! they have lots of carbs. good luck
~natt~
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ok, so im a guy and im just curious that like, during the summertime, girls will wear clothes that are "revealing" and slutty, but then they will get mad when guys look at them. Why are they wearing the clothes if its not to get guys to look at them? (link)
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because they feel they are being too revealed. like someone is looking at something that they cant see and are embarrised. mostly its about being embarrised.
~natt~
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I've always used a note to break up with someone because I'm shy and when I break up with my boyfriends, I wouldn't be able to look them in their face or be able to talk because I'd be so nervous. So my question is: What's the best way to break up with a guy? You know, like note, phone, in person, online? (link)
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probobly on the phone is the best choice if you you are too nervous to do it in person. online and in a note arnt the best choices at all.
~natt~
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ok my boyfriend was recently caught making out with my best friend...well me and my bf wanted a private relationship to avoid other people knowing, he wanted it for some reason and now i know why! he's been cheating on me for my best friend! i am so hurt, you have NO IDEA! and i know it's not my friends fault but its so awkward being with her now..please what do i do! I'LL RATE A 5 FOR ANYONE WHO ANSWERS OK OR GOOD ANSWERS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
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first of all the blame also goes on your friend because she never stopped him from making out with him and she obviously wanted to. try talking to your friend. figure out why she went behind your back and also talk to your bf. personally i wouldnt trust your bf anymore. but maybe he'll come around.
~natt~
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Does anybody know any good work outs to help tone you thighs to make them look nice and not flabby? (link)
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the "flab" you think it is.is accually muscle. if you want try havcing a daily run each day for about 15 minutes. or try swimming some laps. im a swimmer and it really makes a difference once i do another season.
~natt~
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how can a girl not get pregant when having sex? (link)
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using a condom....
~natt~
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Ok I can't decide if I should go to the movies with strangers tonight. My friend knows this girl from another school and they are going to the movies, and their supposedly bringing a bunch of hot guys. My friend wants me to come, but I don't know if I should. I'm just shy. These people are all the same age as me. I don't have a boyfriend, and I do kind of want to meet guys, but I'm nervous. I don't know, should I just go out with my normal group of friends tonight? (link)
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meet some new people and go with your friend and these other people. be safe though! who nos? .....maybe you could hook up with one of those really hott guyys?!?!
~natt~
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my boyfriend is the type of guy to cheat on his girlfriend. so me and him both have myspace accounts.. we both know the passwords to eachothers and everything. today, i was curious to see who he's been talking to because i don't really trust him. i saw him saying stuff to a couple girls and i'm really pissed. i don't know what to say to him, because i know if he found out i went on his account, he'll be mad at me. so what do i do? i can't just keep this in, and i know that i shouldn't of went on his name but i want to know if he's doing stuff behind my back.. help! (link)
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you could say you heard from someone else but your not going to name any names. that would work. thats really rude and he should be punished
~natt~
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i want to kis the person i like but i cant put my self to doing it i am to shy what should i do
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start talking with the guyy and be flirty. if he makes the first move then great! if he doesnt but you feel you are both ready then give it a try.
~natt~
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ok see im 16/f and my mom hates my boyfriend. like when we first started talkin she was ok then out of no where she hated him. then she changed her mind and let me go to his moms wedding reception. so we were ok. then he called me a fag on the answering machine(just playing around)she got upset he apologized and we were ok now she hates him and wont let him call my house, so he calls my cell. i love this kid and he loves me but shes messing things up. what should i do? (link)
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tell your mom the whole story and tell her that he is a nice guy. dont say you guyys love each other because like most moms they will give you a lecture about how you can love someone when you are your age. tell her the truth about the phone call and that he was just kidding.
~natt~
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