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Question Posted Saturday June 18 2005, 3:45 pm

ok my boyfriend was recently caught making out with my best friend...well me and my bf wanted a private relationship to avoid other people knowing, he wanted it for some reason and now i know why! he's been cheating on me for my best friend! i am so hurt, you have NO IDEA! and i know it's not my friends fault but its so awkward being with her now..please what do i do! I'LL RATE A 5 FOR ANYONE WHO ANSWERS OK OR GOOD ANSWERS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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sweetcorn answered Monday June 20 2005, 4:32 pm:
Ok you need to not tell your friend because if she was going out with him and she finds out she might become mad with you even though its not your fault.she might not be your friend because you have hid it from her!!! maybe you should speek to your bf tell him he cheated on you and you know and tell him its your bestfriend and how can he do that? I think you should break up with him because he cheated on you once he can do it again.hope i helped lv sweetcorn

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DeeMocha answered Monday June 20 2005, 1:21 am:
well your friend is not that good of a friend because she agreed to make-out with your bf..and i also think you should dump your bf for whata he did

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LoveNJstyle answered Saturday June 18 2005, 11:11 pm:
wow he's an asshole. dump him, obviously and ask you friend why she did it..shes just as guilty as he is. it takes 2 to tango. <3

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vchicka15 answered Saturday June 18 2005, 7:30 pm:
hey guys are assholes.. and its hard getting over things like that.. just talk to her.. tell her how you feel.. go out tonight and have fun.. dont worry the awkwardness will go away

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atlshortstopsbabii10 answered Saturday June 18 2005, 7:04 pm:
Well unless you won't to talk to the guy then there is really nuthing that you can do except talk to your best friend and express your feelings for the guy and tell her that you feel awkard being around her now...I really have tred my best to tell you what to do but...Really what happened happened and it is NOT yours or your friends fault! You should try and loose the feelings for the guy because him cheeting on you just means that he has a big empty space in his life that he is yrying to feel up! You are to good for him! I hope that this makes you feel better! And good luck with the guys!

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HyperactiveMiss answered Saturday June 18 2005, 5:09 pm:
I hate it when I see these questions asking about their boyfriends cheating with their bestfriends. It shows how much you can trust anyone these days.

Are you sure it's not your friend's fault? How can your boyfriend makeout with her if she didn't makeout with him? It takes two to makeout. She could have refused him. Or do you mean, your bestfriend doesn't know about your relationship with the guy? If that's the case, it's going to get very complicated, but at least you know your bestfriend wasn't trying to make this happen.

You need to sit down with both of them at the same time. Tell your boyfriend exactly how you feel. Depending on your bestfriend's role in this (Whether she knew about you dating him too or not), tell her how you feel. And the bottom line is, break up with your boyfriend if you haven't already. If your bestfriend didn't know about any of this, don't let one trashbag ruin your friendship. Just know that you guys are going through the same things. If she did know about what's been going on, you need to dump her as well. Real friends would not do that to you.

Dating is all about bonding with someone, gaining new experiences, and finding out what you need and want. In this case, I think you definitely gained all of these things. So don't think this was just all a waste of time and a big heart break. It was important and you are now wiser, stronger, and more experienced. That's what dating is all about. If it doesn't work out, you move on and live life.

Of course you're hurt, so just let out any tears if you have any. But after you deal with this situation you need to move on.

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luv2swim109 answered Saturday June 18 2005, 5:05 pm:
first of all the blame also goes on your friend because she never stopped him from making out with him and she obviously wanted to. try talking to your friend. figure out why she went behind your back and also talk to your bf. personally i wouldnt trust your bf anymore. but maybe he'll come around.

~natt~

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busylizi answered Saturday June 18 2005, 4:26 pm:
well, for one thing, did your best friend want to make out with him, ..if so then you have a big problem. If she knows that you've been going out with him, and she was making out with him, (while she knew all this) then, you know what....you and your best friend have some talking to do....and a best friend wouldn't make out with your boy friend if they were your best friend..best friends look up for you, supporrt you, NOT make out with your boyfriend.....

And your boyfriend thats a whole different story..you should either dump him, if you don't like him anymore..
but if you still like him, you should still dump him, but then get him to be jelous, with you going out with another guy, so that , he will see how it feels.

Hope i helped.

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