I am such a person to stress over anything you can ask any of my friends and they will tell you that I have been through about everything that you can imigne! Please don't be imbarresed about the way you look or the way that god made you. I have a friend who is obssed with her ears..She says that they are too big?!?! She dosen't even like to go swimming becasue her ears are too big!! I told her to be herself and that is all that she needs to do to fit in!
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ok my boyfriend was recently caught making out with my best friend...well me and my bf wanted a private relationship to avoid other people knowing, he wanted it for some reason and now i know why! he's been cheating on me for my best friend! i am so hurt, you have NO IDEA! and i know it's not my friends fault but its so awkward being with her now..please what do i do! I'LL RATE A 5 FOR ANYONE WHO ANSWERS OK OR GOOD ANSWERS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
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Well unless you won't to talk to the guy then there is really nuthing that you can do except talk to your best friend and express your feelings for the guy and tell her that you feel awkard being around her now...I really have tred my best to tell you what to do but...Really what happened happened and it is NOT yours or your friends fault! You should try and loose the feelings for the guy because him cheeting on you just means that he has a big empty space in his life that he is yrying to feel up! You are to good for him! I hope that this makes you feel better! And good luck with the guys!
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I want to go on a low carb diet. What foods should I avoid eating and what foods are good for me to eat on my diet? Thanks to anyone who answers. (link)
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Things to avoid:
Bread
fruit
rice
patatoes
Dressings
suger foods: Candy bars/suckers/ect.
PATOTOE CHIPS!
milk
Drinks: Anything carbaated/gateraid/coolaid/ect.
OO..and Tea
mayonase
ketchup
stake sauce
Butter
Sourcreme
Yougert
and anything else that has alot of carbs
Things to eat:
Chicken
stake
porkchops
salad with viniger and oil dressing (really good!)
Carrots
Water loaded with lemon juice (drink it constantly!)
ANY KIND OF MEAT!
Green Beans
Look on the internet for more things that you can eat and go to south beach diet on the internet and look for recipes for really great things! Some of them are really good!
Helpful hint: Try and not eat MORE than 20 carbs a day! It is hard I KNOW Trust me! But but that helps it come off faster!
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ok.........my friend Casey, wanted to bring her boyfriend, me and my boyfriend to the movies on Friday...but im soooo dissappointed with myself but i truley feel my boyfriend will be like "GEEZE! WHY IS SHE HANGING AROUND THAT UGLY THING?" And im really really really nervous about it. Like if he'll talk about her behind her back to me or one of his friends. How do i prevent this?? (link)
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well she is your frind and yoiu HAVE to stand up for her! Let her come nd if he talks about her then please say something to him. I mean tell him that you are her friend and that you love her for her actions not her apperence!! OO and By the way My name is casey!lol! Good luck and I hope that I helped!
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when i was younger, i was a bit chubby and i was really self conscious about it...it sucked being too big for dress up clothes. i was one of the first to wear a bra and get teased by the boys. i had a lower voice than most kids in my grade and i would feel akward singing with the class. well now, i finally took controll over my weight and im known for my singing ability as a strong alto. sounds great, but i still feel out of place. for me its a blessing to wear a size 5, when its fat-pants for someone else. i feel kind of not-as-good because im a young alto. am i making too much of this or can anyone relate? thanks in advanced and you deserve a 5 for readin this. (link)
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You SOOO shoulden't feel oput of place!! You sould be the proudest persion in the world for takeing controll and loseing wait!! And A five is not fat pants!! You probbly lookk great and Please have confidence in the placement where you sing!! It dosen't matter if you have to Sing alto at such a young age.Everyone has there own voice!!Congrats for takeing controll!
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I am going to be a model and i wanted to know if any of you have any suggestions on how i can lose 5lbs fast (link)
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I so hate to tell you but you are going to have to do the old fashin no fats/carbs diet! Excersize and if you can get the dance or excersize dvd/vidio's and it makes it so much funner and you don't have to stress with crunces or what ever that are not really great in the first place! If you really buckle down on thease things then the waight will come off really fast.
Oh and drinking water with lemon juice will make pounds just FALL off! Drink it wll the time if you can...It works just as good as slimfast or any other diet drink and maybe even faster! So I hope I helped and I hope that you lose your wait!
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What should you talk about when your on a date or movies etc?? Im always scared its going to be uncomfterable and its going to be silent! please help! i give EASY 5s! (link)
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You can talk about ANYTHING!! lol! Talk about what your next date is going to be. If you are at the movies ask him about the movie. Pretend that you don't know anythng about it...say if you think that it is going to be good or bad..If you start talking then it will lead to more convo!!
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All around my breasts and on them its all red and REALLY itchy they're little rash lumps aswell. It has just happened when i wore my new white bra but the thing is I have the same bra but in black and it didnt do this?!!? The bra is 100% cottonn and it dont itch with anything else. Why am i itching and how can i make it stop and go away! I tried Eurax fast itching cream but it didnt work please help thanks x (link)
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That isn't a rash that you have it is just lumps and every girl gets them. It is nuthing unuesual and the bra is ok. Nuthing it wrong with it. The itching will stop but the bumps will stay!
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I am a homeschooled girl, I'm turning 15 in about two months. I am doing this program for middle schoolers, where I go and pick up tons of work each month. Apparently, theres so much, that its hard cramming it all in a month, but I manage to get it done the very beggining of the next month, meaning I turn it in late. This happens, because either I didn't have parents take me because they were gone, or I wasn't done. Most of the time it was just not going on time. I expected a lot from myself when I was in public school, my grades were always in a high range. But now, I am failing three classes. Ever since I saw my grades, I have been feeling guilty for eating, sleeping, or doing anything I want because I shouldn't deserve to do what I want. I am so full of stress, I think that maybe another reason. I see a therapist that takes both of my parents sides, and my parents are divorced, but they still fight. But, I'm not going to drown myself in excuses because I've managed to do well in the past. There are lots of other stressful things going on, but I am just really scared that I'm going to get held back. I havn't finished the month of May, I tried to last night, but those thoughts of being a failure took over and kept me from concentrating. I have no idea what to do with the present work, but I do have goals for high school, I might be staying home again. Could anyone share some advice that could help me get my stress out and my future thoughts in?
I'll definetly rate because of the length of this question. It will be more than just thank you. (link)
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I am such a person to stress out about anything and I kinda know how you feel.First you need to concider...Are my grades falling because I am so stressed out or is it because I am home schooled? If it is because of stress then you need to tell which ever parrent that you live with or a theropest. They can help you with this. I got help from a doctor and now I fell so much relif. I have always made straight A's until this year and this year there was just too much and I started haveing panic attacks whic really scard me. So I got medcation which helped so verry much! Maybe that will help with the stress of haveing to get it all done.About the home school part...Maybe you are not tryiing your best anymore because so many things are on your mind and because unlike public school you don't have other perople there to encourage you or friends to be there everyday. If you think that being homeschooled is the problem then you should really talk to a parrent about this. All you have to do is tell them that you would like to go back to public schools becuase it would relieve alott of stress and that it would help your grades out alott! I really hope I helped and please don't feel guilty for have a life!!Eating, Sleeping, Watching t.v, or talking on the phone or internet are all the parts of liveing a normal life and they shouldent intrupt with your school work but they should me done!
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me ((gurl))nd mii cousin ((boy))r really close but i think i mite have some feelingz 4 him in some way ... wat should i do ???
signed,
feelingz for family (link)
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Ok....that one is really hard and I may know where you are comeing from. See it is not exzactly right to date or have a relationship with family other than the one that is already made genitcly.But, It depends on what cusin he is, If he is your firdt, or second then you have something to worry about. But third and p is really considerd distant and if you have fellings for him that are really strong maybe you should consider telling him. If he was your first or second cousin I would really try to keep inside how I felt although you like him so verry much! I really hope tha i have helped and I hope that you work things out!
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hey can someone help me think of a screen name? i have brown hair and brown eyes and i like gymnastics and shopping and i'm short and i like shopping at abercrombie and hollister. i want a screen name like: lemondrop or drinksprite or pinkpolkadot or soursugar or angl*n*paradise or thinkpink or godslilangel or bahamaramamama or something like that. something that rhymes, or just anything that's really cute or cool or funny like bahamaramamama lol. (link)
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browneyedx3shortie05
XoTwistx3nx3TwirloX
PiiNkParaDiiSe05
HoLLiiStEr_BabiiXoO
ShortXlilxShopper05
MiisPinkPuRsieXo
MEoMYoIII05
Hope thease help out! IM me at L3vAtlL95 if you are wonting this for AOL when you deside on a s/n!
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I had a dream that my guy friend & I were "doing things" & I know I'm really starting to like him. Should I trust this dream as like a sign that we should start a relationship? (link)
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People say that dreams are supposed to mean things that are going to happen in the future and that they are supposed to tell you the bad things to look for in life but I just don't believe it! I think that you may have feelings for this guy by the way that you talk and they way that you wrote. Do you have emotnial fellings or just fellings for the way that he looks? If you know for sure that you have emotnial feelings maybe you should talk to this guy about starting a relation ship and also what he thinks should happen becasue you wouldn't won't to rush him into anything! I hope that I helped you and I hope that the relation ship works out becasue it sounds like you really won't it to work!
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Don't be embarrassed, but you spelled embarrassed wrong in your profile. As well as Imagine, Obsessed, because, and even doesn’t. (link)
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Suck it up life isn't perferct and neather are you or any one else in this world!
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i'm going to florida in 2 weeks and i'm staying there for awhile. when i wake up early in the morning to go to the parks and stuff, after i get out of the shower i don't really have all that much time to do my hair. i don't like blowdrying it down there because it is really hot! does anyone have any cute & easy hairstyle that i could do while my hair is wet without making it frizzy? thanks! i rate high! (link)
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If you know how to french brade or if some one knows how to frinch brade that you are with that is what I recomend that you do because it can with hold to what ever you coem across. You can do it in frinch braded pigtales which is much cuter. Or you could just do a pony tail with a brightly colored ribon!
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hi everytime im on my period i kinda get itchy down there. does anyone no what this means? is it serious? and is it normal?
thanxz (link)
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it is normal! Don't worry about it because everyone gets that sometimes! It does not come every time and you will probbly grow out of it! Good luck!
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I have a few pimples and alot of open pores and my skin is very oily. I want to get rid of the open pores and my oily skin (I really dont care about the pimples I dont have many). My question is does anyone know a product that will take away the excess oil in my skin and close my pores. It can be 2 products. I dont think there's a product that will do both. (link)
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Just plain acholle will do the trick! You can also use skin sensitive sea breeze that works too!
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I feel so idk any more. Every boy i been with has used me for sex but they never got it so they dumped me. I ment this really sweet boy and at his party last weekend we fucked. Were not going out but we tell each other we love one another. I care bout him so much. His house cought on firer and i feel really bad. I care about him so much and i dont think he noes. This last week ive been trying to be with him as much as i can cause he moving this weekend really far. Im gonna miss him and ive been crying so much. Im so scared i might do something that i dont wanna do. What should i do? (link)
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Let this boy know how you feel in some way and tell him that you need to get together sometime. Make phones calles at least three times a week and try to see each other once wvery mother for like a weekend! That is what my friend and her boyfriend do becasue she lives at the bech and we live like really far away from that like five hours! But they always make some sort of plain!
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Okay,so me and this guy have been together for about 10 months, and he is completely faithful to me, like he doesn't even talk to other girls hardly ever, and he never hangs out with any other girls but me. But the other night he went to a party last minute and was completely wasted, and girls showed up and one locked him into a bedroom with her and started coming onto him, they ended up having sex. I found out about this a few days later, and he completely regrets it and he siad he had really no clue what was really going on that it went fast. we broke up, but we sitll talks and he says he wants nothing more than to be with me.. and like hes not even that kind of guy.he's not forceful, aggressive, or anything in that naturee if u know what i mean? and i mean we really had something speciall and i dont know what to do.. just let him go or try and makes thigns work? what do u think
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I completly understand what you are going through! And it is partly this guys fault for getting wasted in the first place!But the girl also caused most of the damage by knowing the he didn't know what was going on! So I would talk to this boy and tell him that it really hurt you and you don't apricate what happened and that you still love him too but you don't know what to do. If you won't to be back with him and still have feelings for him then say it and tell him that you do. Maybe you should say yes if you think that he was that devoted to the relationship. Maybe he really didn't know what was going on and needed help in making disions! I really hope that this relationship works out and that you all get back together becasue it sounds like you had someonething really wounderful! Give feedback and let me know if I helped I hope that i did!
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I was in art class when my "friend" came up to me and tugged my braid 'affectionately', but it hurt me and I ended up screaming almost at the top of my lungs "JESUS!" I felt bad after that because almost the whole class was staring at me, and my friend was ticked that I had screamed because she had done that to me before, but I think it's childish now and I refuse to let her. I feel really bad because you really shouldn't scream that in ANY class for that matter, because it might offend some people. I think I might have offended some people, but I was really embarrassed because I screamed so loud and I was dead quiet and my face was red. I don't know what to do. What should I do? (link)
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first of all the past is in the past and that can not be canged...:(! So...really the only thing that you can do about it is to not say anything to the people in class about it! But I would tell my friend that i think she shoulden't do it any more because it really embarresed me and that I tghought it was childish! I really hope that I helped and good luck with you'r situation!
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hi.. okay well i like this guy ALOT! like i am in love with him and i would do anything for him and we r like good friends and we talk alot... but i no he would never like go out with me and he knows i like him and i really really like him so like wat should i do? thanks (link)
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I know this isn't helping you much but If the guy dosent like you then he dosen't like you... But maybe he dosn't won't to rush into a relationship! Tell him how you feel even though he already knows probbly from just hearing things arond. I say look at it this way...you sound like you are a really great friend and I think that you and this guy have a really great friendship by the way you explaineed it so itf you ever do go out with the guy then there is probbly going to be a brake up! Maybe not but probbly so is it worth risking what you already have for something that may not last? I hope I halped and I hope that your relationship works out. Best a' wishes!
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ok i have medium-long blonde hair
naturally its wave-ish .... but i blow dry it straight
what are some styles that maybe i could use? thanx! (link)
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A style that I think looks great on long blond hair is when it is wavy...when you say naturally wavy I mean like more wavy than that. When you blow dry it try flipping your head over and scrunching your hair with your hand while drying...if this dosent work try some gel in your wet hair and do it that way. The jel dosen't make your hair stiff if you get the right kind..I wish that I knew what kind to tell you to get but maybe you can ask a butician! I hope I helped you!
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