hi.. okay well i like this guy ALOT! like i am in love with him and i would do anything for him and we r like good friends and we talk alot... but i no he would never like go out with me and he knows i like him and i really really like him so like wat should i do? thanks
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? icey0990 answered Tuesday June 7 2005, 10:57 pm: i have been in your spot too many times before..and unfortunately there is nothing to be done. its not like a potion that will make him like you can be made...a relationship can only be made when both people like each other. just keep it as good friends and talking..who knows he might see you in that way one day..be happy you guys are good friends and its not like he doesnt know you exist...enjoy being able to hang out and talk to the guy you like...be yourself...and one day he could see you in that way..
it sux that nothing can be done..but if i could make guys like me...hell, i would be with bradd pitt right now lol [ icey0990's advice column | Ask icey0990 A Question ]
bballink4s3y answered Monday June 6 2005, 11:16 pm: well i was in this same situation till 10:00pm 2day b/c i realy love this girl and i didnt think we could ever date but we did and it is workin just right i think that you should just keep tryin and dont give up b sweet and go from there if it is ment 2 be it will happen but just do what i said and dont give up... kasey [ bballink4s3y's advice column | Ask bballink4s3y A Question ]
JamesBaybiGurl answered Monday June 6 2005, 9:23 pm: Hey Sweetie,
Sorry to say this but if you EVER think in your right mind that if your going to go out with your best friend it wont work even if he give in and decides to make things work it wont. Believe me I felt sooo uncomfortable with my bets friend it was like almost impossible for us to talk. You should just tell em how you feel if that doesnt work just move on cause at least you kno he wasnt for you anyway!!Hope I helped!!
atlshortstopsbabii10 answered Monday June 6 2005, 9:05 pm: I know this isn't helping you much but If the guy dosent like you then he dosen't like you... But maybe he dosn't won't to rush into a relationship! Tell him how you feel even though he already knows probbly from just hearing things arond. I say look at it this way...you sound like you are a really great friend and I think that you and this guy have a really great friendship by the way you explaineed it so itf you ever do go out with the guy then there is probbly going to be a brake up! Maybe not but probbly so is it worth risking what you already have for something that may not last? I hope I halped and I hope that your relationship works out. Best a' wishes! [ atlshortstopsbabii10's advice column | Ask atlshortstopsbabii10 A Question ]
Bob_the_Sword_Test_Dummy answered Monday June 6 2005, 8:59 pm: Well if he knows you like him and hasn't responded to your feelings, doesn't it kinda give you the hint that he's not interested? I don't think you love him either, it's just puppy love. Just remain friends until you are sure that your friend has the same feelings as you do. [ Bob_the_Sword_Test_Dummy's advice column | Ask Bob_the_Sword_Test_Dummy A Question ]
luv2swim109 answered Monday June 6 2005, 8:52 pm: you can still go on liking him but dont do anything that you will regret because it will screww up your friendship. just try to stay good friends.
kooka-burra answered Monday June 6 2005, 8:21 pm: I really don't think you LOOOVE him. And my advice, don't push it.
Me and my life long friend went out once, he didn't like me at all compared to how I liked him. I thought I loved him too, but when we went out it was weird between us.
We ended up breaking up and even though we are still friends, we have never been the same with each other since. I hate how it ruined our friendship and I don't want this to ruin your friendship.
Please think about this even if this isn't what you want to hear. That is what giving out advice is all about.
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