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my girlfriend is on this game literally 24/7 LITTERALLY she`ll stay up all night playing that game.. or she`ll go to bed at like fuckin 2 3 in the moring.. get up at what 11 12.. then play it.. then stop at 6 for a hour then start playing it till like 2 3 in the moring... sometimes she`ll stay up all night till like 8 9 then go to sleep till 2 then get up and play it again. im really worried bout her. (were bi im a girl too) and i dunno how to explain what shes doing.. i mean i dont even talk to her anymore.. and when i do its alway a "kk" every 10 mins or somehting. its really bugging me... i dont wanan sound all mean and tell her not to play it and talk to me. errr *hits head* i dunno what the fucking im writing this for...
My sister is the same with the GTA series. Since you are both in a relationship, you have to have time for eachother. Maybe you two can come to a compromise if she really cares about you then she will. One of you can't just be the only one putting effort into the relationship and if she doesn't get her act straighten up then she'll lose someone she cares for.
my father has alway been picking on me ever since i was small.. he denys he hits me. but aftr he does he says ssorry. i mean.. if he`s really that sorry why`d he do it. My friend is coming down from the states into canada for 2 weeks. She knows about him and stuff. just hopefully he doesnt do anyhting stupid. i ant her to have a good time here. any advise on how i can just calm down and think positive. i took walks. but im still paranoid. maybe this is just a fear right? o well thanks anywayz
Is it like abusive hits? Cuz if it is then you should call a hotline, no matter if he says sorry or not he needs help so that you'll be nice. There are many many reasons why people hit other people and I pity them. I think it would have been better if you moved your friend to a motel/hotel instead if you don't want her to get hit.
okay, so ever since i came to my school, in second grade, this girl, we'll call her "teresa" has been my best friend. we could like write a book about eachother. sometimes i think she noes me better than i noe myself. haha! but, the thing is that ther were a whole bunch of new kids this year. one of them we'll call "melanie" and the other we'll call "claire". when melanie came into school, teresita was being her friendly self and started greeting all of the new kids and introducing herself etc, etc. so her and melanie supposedly become really close. oh, she can have a friend! but i couldnt make friends w/ another one of the new kids, which is claire. so, teresa, knowing that melanie calls me a bitch and kinda bullies me around. i mean, my gosh, she's a real bitch! but i mean, gosh, sumtimes i dont think i realize how much shit i take in from a lot people. im too nice to those those people. but thats just the way i am. the only way i can really blow my top is by writing here. i hardly ever get this way w/ people cuz im too shy to tell them off. but i put my foot down. im not taking crap from those people anymore! so, i tell teresa, right? i tell her that i'm sorry. but i cant be friends w/ sum1 thats friends w/ her b/c she is a serious bully. i mean, we've even had to talk 2 the principal about it b/c the girl is out of control! she thinks that she's hot stuff, and shes not even close to it! and its silly, at my age, it really is. im 14 yrs old and i just think that its really silly that i hav 2 talk 2 the principal @ this stage! but, the thing is that the school has its own network and its like my school e-mail. and she's sending horrible e-mails during school hours! so... yeah. it had to "be brought to the attention of authority" haha! anyways. and she IM's me such mean things, that i had to block her! and teresa is like nothing. hanging out w/ her, laughing. and everyone is accusing me of ditching her and hanging out w/ claire. just b/c teresa decides to go w/ a girl that cant stand my guts. i dont know how to explain this to her! people even told me that i had to choose between them and claire b/c they dont like claire. but u noe, its really stupid. b/c sum1 that i thot was a true friend, look wat she did to me, and this girl is just sum1 to hang out w/ since my friend ditched me! its like she's on her side. thats so unfair! i've always been ther for her! why duz she like melanie so much if she's that way w/ me? its really just annoying. please let me know what you think. i rate high!
Well honey, it's called growing up and when people grow up they lose old friends and gain new friends. Now you may not see what Teresa sees in Melanie but she likes her. I don't think it was really right for you to not be friends with her anymore cuz of Melanie, you can't let one person affect your relationships with others. I think you need to get a restraining order from this Melanie if she really is harrassing you that badly. Peer pressure sucks hard ass and what other kids are saying about what's going between you, Claire, Teresa, and Melanie are just stupid so I would just ignore the comments. They have no right to tell you who you should be friends with, if they can't accept the friend you got then find others who do. Maybe it's time to let old friends go.
Ok I have these 2 friends. I know them both really well. We are so close. Well today they played a trick on me. They made up a screenname and pretended they were this girl that I hate with a passion. They talked a bunch of shit. Well it got to the point that when the convo was over that I sent the convo to 2 of my other friends e-mail and told them to read it. Well i go to tell my friend about it and turns out it was her and my other friend..The thing that made me mad and pissed off at them is the fact that they said it was that girl and they know i hate her. They completly don't know what happened between me and her and shouldn't have done it. But my ? is .....What should I do about it? I mean it might of been funny to them but they don't know the whole story and it completly pissed me off...Should I tell them it made me mad and that I am still mad at them....But please tell me what I should do....
Signed ,,,,TrueHope10
They must not respect you alot to do such a thing to you. You should tell them how you feel cuz if you don't more of this will happen cuz they thing it's okay. Be willing to forgive as well but if they do more hurtful things to you, it's time for new friends.
There is this boy I really like..He is 2 years older than me...this guy has been known for doing things with other girls .....but I don't think some of it is true....Lately he has talked to me and acted like he liked me so i guess you can say he has flirted with me........but there are 2 people standin in the way ....1)his girlfriend Chrystal 2) His ex-gf and my best friend Bethany......i don't think his relationship with Crystal will last long so ......If they break up should I try to go with him or should I wait on him to ask me??
Signed,,, TrueHope10
Well if you trust in the guy and you're not in a relationship just to have some "benefits" I say you should totally go for it but you should check how he behaves around other women since has been known for doing "things" with other girls. Make sure you don't try to pick him up too quickly after he breaks up if he breaks up.
Okay- so my boyfriend is going to Florida for 14 days and he's flying. He's really scared and I wanted to write him a letter for the airplane ride up there. I don't know what to put in it! Please give me just a few ideas. Thanks --- I rate HIGH! And give feedback if you want it!
I would suggest that you the letter be funny so he can have a few laughs here and there but also be very caring and romantic. Tell him how you'll miss him alot too. Love knows no distance.
hi.. okay well i like this guy ALOT! like i am in love with him and i would do anything for him and we r like good friends and we talk alot... but i no he would never like go out with me and he knows i like him and i really really like him so like wat should i do? thanks
Well if he knows you like him and hasn't responded to your feelings, doesn't it kinda give you the hint that he's not interested? I don't think you love him either, it's just puppy love. Just remain friends until you are sure that your friend has the same feelings as you do.
Okw well tonight i went to the movies with my boyfiend and lets say ive never had a kiss and tonight i got it but it was a little bit more than a kiss. it was a french kiss! i just kinda of went along with the flow but.. like the whole movie he was trying to kiss me and i dont like want to ask him to slow down its just he was kinda acting like a dogg!
plz help
Sarah
You HAVE to tell him to slow it down or else he will never get it through his thick man skull. I've seen too many relationships end becuz things like this always happen.
my friend and are are currently in a fight, you see she is an awesome friend and its a lot of fun hanging out with her and stuff. Lately she has been into this guy and she not being herself, she is ignoring me when he is around but yet she is always asking me to come chill with them. we had a huge fight on the phone and i told her i don't like her when she is hanging out with him and then she said fine then don't hang out with me and she hung up. what should i do??
You don't know for sure if she is being herself or not, maybe she's just being someone you are not familiar with. And if you're with someone you're totally into, I don't think people realize that their are others around. She was kind enough to invite you to hang out with someone she likes and you just say you don't like her cuz she's hanging out with him? I think that's pretty harsh, it's like basically saying "I don't want you to be with him" to a girl. If you don't want to ruin the friendship, just tell her how you feel and maybe she'll understand.
Okay so i have this friend who i have been best friends with for 8 years. Just this year she made a new friend which I'm totally cool with but lately I've been pushed aside. She is always with this other girl and never is with me anymore. I don't know how to talk to my friend anymore. Also, she told my other friend Valerie that this other girl is more so her best friend then I am. I don't want to be jealous but i can't help being it. I've been best friends with her for 8 years and out of no where I am being replaced! What should I do
Well as you and your friends grow, so will your relationship with others which causes you to leave your other ones behind. This is all a part of growing up. You're not being replaced, it's just that you guys aren't as close anymore. You guys should still remain friends but not best friends. You should tell her how you feel and tell her you still want to be friends, just not best friends.
ohk so im sick of people in school calling me a whore + hoe. i mean im 13 im 7th and still a virgin. yeah i've gone out with some people but that is no reason for people talkin shit about me! ohk well everyone in school (the ghetto ppl whi used to all be my "friends") want to beat me up because im a "whore". the preppy's say that im one of the prettiest girls in school and that i can get any guy i want, so thats why they call me a whore because there jelous of me and they see me as competition. when a guy grabs my ass i turn arround and slap them or kick them and tell them off and to respect me! well they wrote stuff about me in my locker "______" sux ass and in the bathroom they wrote "_____" is a bitch and slut ... this gets me so upset especially the people who say that act all big and bad but they cant say it to my face ... and i get so upest i dont eat at all, and i've been cutting lately and i know its not worth it! so what can i do ?? please help me
Omigod that's awful! Have you told the school adminstrators about what they did with your locker? You should tell your family and school that you are being harassed even if it does not seem cool and will make people hate you more. They have no right whatsoever to do that you, you can file for some serious lawsuits. Even when people tell you to just ignore them, it's not going to stop them and sometimes it makes it worse becuz then they think your vulnerable and will harass you more. You have to take a stand for yourself. Being 13 really sucks in this world of today.
how can i get someone to like me?? i have liked him for a while he notices me but not enough 2 like me wat do i do????? how can i be more friendly, how can i get him to notice me more!!!!
~desperate
There's your problem, you're desperate. People can sense desperation and it's a turn off, at least for me anyway. To attract his attention start out with simple stuffs like "Hey, what's up? Tell funny stories and jokes." Be playful with a little bit of tease, but not too much or else you'll seem like a ..well you know.
Yeh i asked, if a doctor could kno that you were "playing with ur self" But..what if they make u pee in a cup?
I don't understand your question..but a doctor cannot tell if you play with yourself and peeing in a cup isn't hard, they require you to to check to make sure you're healthy and drug free.
ok so, my moms phone is broken and my dad said if i can convince her to take my phone, i can have a better one. I was wondering how i could convince her..
Well just say you are concerned that she will miss important calls, so she should take your phone as soon as possible.
what are some cute baby girl names?
I love the name Bonisha or Shenainai, but those probably aren't names you would pick. I think the name Madison and Jullian(or Jillian) is good too.
I have a friend and he's gay. Or maybe he's bi im not sure but he seems more towards gay but anyways. I love this kid more then anything and sumtimes i wonder if maybe i have a crush on him. At times i feel that i dont but other times i kinda want his attention when he's around other people too. I like it when he hugs me or lays his head on my shoulder or chest but i dunno if i have a crush on him. Obvously i dont really have an option or going out w/ him or not and i dont wanna tell him about my confusion, but do you think i may like him or it just might b a close friendship? and if you think i do what can i do to maybe stop myself
Well you're not even sure of his sexuality, even if a man is gay, he will still flirt with girls. I say that you just love him like a best friend, someone very close to you. I don't sense any sort of romantic/sexual attraction so I say just stay friends.
ok im j/w is constantly biting your lips until they bleed then biting them more or always pickiking at scabs until they;re completley off a bad habbit like cutting? i know itz a bad habbit, but is it ANYTHING likr cutting!
Thanks a bunch! :D
~*jemmy*~ ((ps i DO NOT cut))
It's not like cutting but it's still a bad habit that causes damage on your lips.
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At like the middle of the school year, I noticed this guy who would always stare at me. I've totally fallen for him. He stares at me every day, and sometimes when I look back he has like a weird smile on his face. When ever I stand by him I can see him blushing. It's almost the end of school and I want to let him know that I like him. I'm really shy so if I could get my friends to help that would work out better. Any suggestions?
..Do you even know him that well? But anyway, why not just give him your phone number or email/aim screenname to the guy and talk a little to make yourself more confident on telling him your feelings.
quick..i need a new way of masturbating..i usually just use like a big marker and rub my clit..but i want a new way (better way)..
any ideas? (btw i dont have a vibrator)
thanks!
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Well why not just your own finger? Or just plain old household items that look like a penis.
theres this girl that i was close friends with named amanda so i asked her out and she rejected me. we werent that close for a while after that, but now were friends again and i cant stop thinkin about her but i dont have the guts to ask her out. plus, i heard she liked me not too long ago during a time when i was messing around with one of her friends. i need some advice on how i should go about this before i go crazy about this girl
Well it's kinda obvious why she rejected, you flirt too much. But you can always keep trying but don't try to push yourself onto her. And if she rejects you again, move on.