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Ok I have these 2 friends. I know them both really well. We are so close. Well today they played a trick on me. They made up a screenname and pretended they were this girl that I hate with a passion. They talked a bunch of shit. Well it got to the point that when the convo was over that I sent the convo to 2 of my other friends e-mail and told them to read it. Well i go to tell my friend about it and turns out it was her and my other friend..The thing that made me mad and pissed off at them is the fact that they said it was that girl and they know i hate her. They completly don't know what happened between me and her and shouldn't have done it. But my ? is .....What should I do about it? I mean it might of been funny to them but they don't know the whole story and it completly pissed me off...Should I tell them it made me mad and that I am still mad at them....But please tell me what I should do....
Signed ,,,,TrueHope10
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ok first of all, if they are your really good friend you should tell them what happen to you and that girl you hate, i mean if they dont know the whole story, then how are they suppose to know about it?
and i know its their fault for doing that but people play tricks on people because they know you will forgive them because you guys are good friends.
and if you are still mad about it, then play a trick on them too! so you are even
and say its all a joke
and hope i helped
and remember! talk to them about it...
say it how you really feels. how you were hurt and about the story...
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Tell themm the whole story, and why it wasn't funny. Tell them your sorry (if you yelled at them), but you thought they'd know better. Tell them you'll know they're sorry if they never do it again.
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You shouldn't tell them.
They don't like you.
They aren't your friends.
Kill them.
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tell them that u are pissed at them or they might never catch the hint that you are pissed at them
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That is messed up.
tell them that was a bitchy thing to do and it wasnt funny and you would def. like an apoligy. OR give them a taste of their own medicine and do it back to them with someone THEY hate =D
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Well,
even though it was a joke to them, it made you mad and if you keep this inside, you're going to bust sooner or later. You need to talk to BOTH of them at the same time and see how they react when you tell thay you don't appreciate them playing a mean joke like that on you, especially since they KNEW you hated that girl and they completelt used that to get you. That's not right. Don't be rude to them. Just tell them that you don't appreciate that and if they really want to talk and joke like that, they can do it to someone else but not you. You don't need that right now and you would appreciate it if they would stop. Tell them that and if they react immaturely, tell them that if they can't tke the truth and how you feel, they're not good friends anyway. If you want to talk about something totally off topic or need more advice, ask a question in my inbox OR email me at kitty_kats123@yahoo.com O.K?
Best of luck!
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~~~Kayla~~~
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ok my friends did sort of the same thing they changed my grade on my report card!!! they put an F and "im so sorry" lol. well i stared crying!!! when i got home my mom called the teacher and asked her why. and she said she would never do that! so i was trying to figure who did it. and finally i called my friend and asked her if she did it and she said o ya i forgot to tell you. but dont tell the teacher it was me...But i was sooo mad that i called the teacher and told her it was my two friends.
but the after all that i felt horrible for dojn that.
But neways...your question is uh kinda comfusing...so ill just tell you to forgive them like i did. and everything will hopefully be all good...
kayla
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Let them know how you felt about it and ask them nicely not to do it again, because if you don't they might just play a similiar trick and you will be paranoid about it.
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They must not respect you alot to do such a thing to you. You should tell them how you feel cuz if you don't more of this will happen cuz they thing it's okay. Be willing to forgive as well but if they do more hurtful things to you, it's time for new friends.
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dear TrueHope10
tell them the joke hurt you and that you dont want it to happen again but dont say your mad at them if you did than they might get mad at you it is all right to say how you feel but you souldnt tell them your anger is still with you
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I would tell them how you feel if I where you I would be mad to because even though it was a joke that was still mean.About the "still be mad at them part"that should be your desion.To me it deepends on the way they act when they tell you sory.Some people would just say sorry to get it over with and some people would say sorry cause they mean it.If I where you they would have to promiss me they would never do it agin.And to know they are not lying they would have to put it on the most valubale thing of your friendship.Hope I helped.
*Good luck*Dont forget to rate:)
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what i would do is get ur friends together and be like hey you guys you dont understand my relateionship with tthis person and i really think that what you did wasnt cool,but as longs as you guys wont pull this shyt on me again its all good....okay well hope i helped u!.>>>>>tt<<<<<
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I would suggest you should probably lighten up and learn to take a joke.
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i would tell them the truth, tell them you are kinda mad, and you will have to tell them why, if you aren't willing to tell them why then you can't really be mad at them because they dont think it's that big of a deal, i'm sure they didnt really mean any harm, but just talk to them
good luck
<3 donny
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