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E-mail: odgloeiv190@aol.com
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Location: DUNNELLON FLORIDA!
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Age: 14
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Member Since: June 9, 2005
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ok im a 13/f and im 160 somthin pounds and need some tips on losing ALOT of waight. Please help! And If it id a week by week plan that would allso be awsome, but any adv would rock! I rate 5's (link)
ok well it really depends on how tall you are.

but i used to weight around 170 and now i am 150 just by walking for 30 - 40 min everyday after school.

but when you walk, you have to walk fast and try to not snack way much. instead eat fruits and stuff

if you still need more help let me know


Ok so I've known this guy (we'll call him Jay) for about 3-4 months now and I reallllyy like him!! And one of his friends told me the other night that he liked me too and was wondering if I was feeling the same. And Jay asks for hugs from me alot and he really sqeezes me hard and he won't let go for a long time, you know? but I don't know if he's for real or if he's just doing this..and the other thing is his girlfriend from 3 years ago is around him alot..and he dosen't really talk to her but shes REALLy pretty..and he still might like her. maybe not. And today I was really mean to him because I didnt' know how to react to him liking me you know? no hugs, yelled and him, and yea i really regret it now. but i need help on what to do!! i rate 5's!! (link)
Ok you really need to tell him how you feel IN PERSON... because i had this boy who liked me according to my friend but he didnt make a move or anything before i told him in person. then a day after he asked me out... so you need to tell him like stuff like

"so how is things between you and your ex?"
and he will say oh we are through or just friends

then you tell him

" oh because i been liking you and didnt know what to do because she is always around you and someone told me that you guys were still together"

(that someone told me ...part would be a lie but still its a good line to find out without being awkward)

and you have to explain why you were being mean to him

and if you still need help let me know and i will answer ASAP


okay soo.. school pictures are comming up.. and i need to do something with my hair! i straighten it down and everything but it juss doesnt seem to say the same through out the day! like it doesnt go poofy.. it just kinda looks bad in my opoion!! ahh if anyone can help i will rate 5's!!! oh and by the way.. hair spray can make your hair look greasy soo im goina have to pass on that ... (link)
Omg i know i totally know what you are talking about... and i had the same problem well worse because i had P.E first thing in the morning...well you know every school has "cool" teachers.... ya know the one who cuts you slacks and stuff well ask them if you can skip lunch or something to come to their classroom to straighten your hair before picture. I asked and few of my friends did it and we had fun doing it ...even if we had to skip lunch

and oh ...there is this Tressemme (i dont think i spelled it right) Hair spray that is non stick and quick dry...and I MEAN QUICK dry... it seriously dries like almost right after you spray it so it wont look greasy at all

so try that and if it doesnt work out then ask me if you still need advice


I basically wear jeans and a tshirt every day. The only other type of pants i wear are cackis and one pair of camo pants.
How can i make a tshirt and jeans look cuter and more fashionable. Like, is there any cute/cheap jewelry or purses.. something to that extent THANKS! (link)
Well with jeans, you can kinda tear them, but not too much so it looks like you did it on purpose... you can get ideas from like American Eagle and Aeropostale...those are in right now and you can get belts that matches your shirt. and Flashy earings that matches and stuff... and cute purses... you can get them in flea market... well it depends on what flea market i guess...because one in around my town is like big one that is actually in the building so its more like a mall except its cheaper other than there are people who sells old stuff but mostly new stuff... so just go around town looking for like Outlet malls and stuff like BELLS and stuff...

and if you need more ideas let me know you can email me any time


I know some of you hate Brittney Spears..But if ya`ll can help me out i`ll really appriciate it. I was wonderin..if you guys have smelled her new perfume called fantasy..and the old one called Curious..i was wonderin which one smelled better?! If you can answer this i`ll love ya 4ever! But please no smart ass answers like they both smell like shit please.. (EASY 5) (link)
Well Curious is more of a night time perfume...so its good when you are going out or something...
and Fantasy...it is more of a sweet scent so its good for day time.

but in my opinion i think Fantasy is better. since i like sweet candy ish scent better =)


im in need of a new screen name and i have no clue with ideas!i like the color pink..im in dance and poms..i have blonde hair and green eyes..im preppy and spoiled..i have a guy in my life im crazy about! well theres a few things about me! can you please help me!? thanks a bunches! (link)
ok i am not the most creative type but i will try

xoblondeprepxo
xodancequeenxo

prepchick(number... you can use your birthday)

blondieprep(and add few things)

spoiledprep

or iluv(your guy's name and add number if its taken)

hope i helped and if you still need idea then email me or question me anytime


this might be confusing for some of u....its even confusing for me....i have a boyfriend at least i think i do but im not sure....he lives in texas and im in maine his friends all tell me hes seeing this girl named ashley but when i say something to him he denies it he just says his friends are jealous and they dont want him happy and of course i believe him everytime....well one of his friends changed his password on msn and decided to read his emails and his friend told me everything his emails said....i told my boyfriend about it and he just said it was nothing then his friend told him i told her to change his password and look at his emails even tho i didnt well ever since then its been different between us everytime i ask him if we're still together he says he doesnt know so my question for you guys is when a guy says they dont know does that still mean u guys r still together??? i mean he hasnt broken up with me so does it mean we're still together??? PLEASE HELP!!

FROM
LOST AND CONFUSED (link)
Well it seems like that he might be seeing another girl...and i have this 2 friends guy and a girl ...they are both of my friend and they used to go out and was a cute couple but now they are living far away from each other, they just dont call each other and they seem they are broken up...

so you might want to consider that, i mean long distant work for some people and it doesnt for most people. so if you want to end it with him ,which will be for the best, then you should call him and talk to him about how it wont work out.

and if you have more question then ask away



Hello*

Well, here's my question...(this might sound like a dumb,slow,or whatever u wanna call it question.) But how can u figure out if your really in love with a person.(boy,in my case). I have this boyfriend and i think i'm falling in love with him (sorry if this sounds corny).He's so sweet.And i can't stop thinking about him.Please tell me.

Brenda*** (link)
Oh no not at all this is dumb in any way...

well first, you will be thinking of him a lot i mean real lot...

and you have that weird feeling whenever he smiles at you or look at you but the feeling isnt in any bad way... its called frission...

and you think he is perfect even though nobody is

and you think that he is just sooo handsome and good looking no matter what other people say

and you want to be with him and you Never get tired of hearing his voice.

your heart does one of those flippy thing (frission) when he calls you or wave hand or any gesture or anything at all to you.

and you can relate almost anything to him like
you see a blue shirt... and you might think...aww his fave color is blue or when you see someone eating an chocolate, you might think, aww his eyes are chocolity brown like that

you know what i am saying? like relate object to his feature or just himself...

and this is most important one of all

if YOU think you are in LOVE you are probably RIGHT... Trust your heart and go for it~~

hope i answered your question and if there is more question you want to ask then ask away...



18/M About 6 months ago i was burned bigtime by a girl that i liked. In retrospect i went overboard with planing out every miniscule detail. Now a new girl has found her way into my life. She likes the same things as me and shares the same musical interest, BUT the problem is that i am also good friends with her parents and im not sure if they would let her date yet. What would be a good way to get the parents approval. (The parents own a local coffee shop that I frequent) (link)
Ok i am only 14 and everything but my parents and my Aunt's parents are like that you know strict. so here is what you can do to get on good side..

1. refer to them as Sir, Mam.
for example, No mam, Yes Sir
2. always call them with Mr..., Mrs...

3. Talk about your future plan, so they know that you actually care about your future and you will have decent job or something, and throw in some good grade talk (like you got A or something but try not to sound like know it all)

4. Compliment about that girl's mom about her cooking (if she cooked it of course)

5. compliment about the house, like if they are chiristianity and there is like chiristianity decoration.

6. Talk about what was on the News. for dad.

7. and DONT EVER EVER LIE!(i know you can make a little white lie if you are in panic but it may backfire trust me)

and if you need more to impress them, then ask me anytime


im 15, blonde, athletic, skinny and about 5'11 and i don't think im ugly..but idk if guys are like intimidated by my height or what..i have alot of friends..but not that guy friends that i hang out with..so any suggestions on how to be more outgoing around guys w/ out being self concious about my height..or just any general advice would be great! (link)
MEN! they complain too much, when girl's too tall they feel awkward, when girl's too short they feel awkward, when girl's to skinny they feel awkward, when girl's heavy they feel awkward...but i guess we cant live with them cant live without them

and truthfully, i wish i was you. because i want to be taller (not that im short) and skinnier and more atheletic. but you can change for a guy.
i mean they might only want to be your friend or anything, but if you change, they guys will like you for the wrong reason and here are some thnigs you can do to talk to them or something

1. talk about music. ask them what kinds of music do they listen to and stuff

2. school work, ask them if they know the answer to number 5 in your math assignment.

3. just be your self, and joke around.

and if you still have more question then just email me or ask me anytime



Now everyone is dating really young and having boyfriends when their 13. i'm 13 and have had a couple of boyfriends but guys are just plain jerks sometimes at that age. most girls are crazy about dating young but older girls that have waited say that it is worth it to wait to date until your older. does anyone have any opinions on the topic?
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well it all depends on what your heart says i think. because if you listen to your heart and if your heart says you are ready, then you might take chance, but yes i know i am 14 and i think guys are Jerks and sometimes not worth a time. so yes in my opinion i want to wait until they have MATURED! and take some responisibilty and actually talk about something meaningful other then his sports or his whatever.

but its all dif in person


A while back a girl toyed with my emotions for about three weeks. I realize now how stupid i was. But now I'm afraid that i will get cought up in the same thing with this new girl that i met HELP!!! 17/m (link)
ohh i am so sorry that happened and i want to help you but i am not sure if you want to what 14 yrs old girl have to say about this ...but i will try it anyways...

First, you can not let them see you get hurt, because if they see that you are hurting then they have gotten what they wanted to do in the first place. So do NOT let them have the satisfaction.!!! they are not worth a cent!

second, I can not promise anything with how your relationship is going to end up, but you can not let a one bad relationship ruin your future relationship that might turn out great. so you have to take a risk, and there might be some more dullheads who will be mean, and break your heart, and you might break some girls hearts (not in a mean way but you know you breakin up with them because its not working out) but you will never find out if they are great for you until you take a chance.

third, If you do get in that same situation again, then just simply say Ok. then just walk away, dont let her see what she wanted to see, which brings back to my first point

and Most Importantly, if they can not see that you are a great person and playing with you, they are not worth it at all! and if you move on faster you will meet a girl who likes you for who you are faster~~~ =)

so i hope i helped and hope things works out good for you


AHHH I start high school tomorrow and I haven't been to public school since fourth grade. i'm really nervous :-/. 1stly, because i don't know ANYONE, and i'm afraid i'm not gonna make any friends. 2ndly, i'm gonna be terrible with finding classes, and with all the different teachers! so... HELP? thanks! i'll rate ya 5's:-)
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Oh i kinda had same problem with you, except that i moved to US from dif country and i didnt speak English very much...so i didnt know anyone and stuff...so i know how you feel so feel free to email me about ANYTHING! from make up to clothing to boys to cliques anything.

and dont worry about class, because i've been in Middle school and trust me, every body gets lost.

and especially in High School, the freshmen always get lost, so dont make that much of a big deal out of it, there are probably people standing there to help you out, and talk to people around you asking do you have this class? and if they do and if they seem nice, then ask for their help. thats how i made friends.

and bring a magzine with you during lunch or free time(not during class when you can get in trouble) and take out your magz and thats how you can get people to talk to you. it works!

so if there are anything you want to know then ask away and i will answer your question ASAP


hey this is the girl that has been talking about her bf with the bracelet..please IM me at devysbabyxo when u can..thanks! (link)
Ok cool if i see you i will IM you ASAP
and hope its going ok with you


alright, i like this kid, and we've hung out and stuff, and i've liked him since i first met him, then when i started to get to know him more i liked him more and more as we went along, we stopped talking for a while [ we both had a lot going on ] and then the other night he IMed me and we went for a walk, i started liking him allll over again. i'm not sure if i should tell him i like him or not, because i don't want things to be really weird, & because if he doesnt like me back i dont want to deal with his friends [who are semi- my friends too ] knowing about it because it'll make them weird around me too.

sorry its so long, i tried to give a lot of info :\ (link)
Well you can choose between 2 things.

1. tell him and you might get answer you want and you might not

2. never tell him and never know...he might've liked you but you will never know


so i will help you decide..but in the end its you who makes the choice...

i know its really difficult when there is friendship involved. but you have to let him know or he will never know how you feel. so here is best way to tell him. invite him over for a walk or something then tell, or just write him a letter. and if he says no, then dont let your bruised ego ruin your confidence and your friendship with him. and you both want to move on so just act normal and dont make a big deal, just say hi and wats up and move on, and i know you will hurt a lot if he dont like you, but there is one guy who wont be able to resist you and he is around somewhere.

and hope i helped and if there is more question ask away ~


i wanna look better im fat i wieght 170 punds and im 13 i wan to loose weight i hoping 70 pounds before school is that even possible i want to make this boy jelouse because i asked him out when i was in school because i was fat and if i come back hell now what a conplette dummy he was to not go out with me but if i loose weight and people start asking me out its only for the way i look and i dont want that i want someont that likes me for just who i am and not the way i look but to make me feel good would be so much better so im ganna loose weight but im not astrong anfe i want to but i need money to do that and im broke so how can i loose weight in only a month with no money or am i ganna loose weight for only all the wrong reasons but if i am i wanna look like the rest of the girls pretty so how can i loose weight in i month with no money (link)
oh i was same weight as you about 2 months ago, and i even though i only lost 10 pounds in 2 months, you can not lose 70 pounds, or you will have those like really saggy skin. well what i did was i worked out about 30 min per every other day. so i worked out on mondy wednesday and friday. and sometimes on sunday because i was bored.

and if you work out while listening to music, the time goes faster...

and what i did was , lift 3 pounds dumbell on each hand and used mini-stepper.

so i suggest you should get that because that is very affective.

or treamills but mini stepper is better

or get a work out video...

but whatever you do, you just have to stick to it and control the food portion you eat.

so i hope you lose weight and mee too because i need to lose 23 pounds more ... ugh...

so if you need encouraging or more question about how to...then free to email me at

odgloeiv190@190.com

or AIM me at odgloeiv190



Hi i am Britney an im 14 i was wondering if my boyfriend fingered me and he had cum on his finger can i get pregnet from that? (link)
Yes you can, it is not likely but it is possible. so you have to take the Preg. Test to be sure.


Hello. Look i've went to the jym like 5 months ago.but i stopped going because i got bored of going everyday. And my question is-If u work out,and then stop;would u like gain fat,or some pounds. I sometimes go for a 15-20 min. walk outside.But that's pretty much it. Thanks for the help.

Brenda! (link)
Yes you can gain back the weight, but if you control your eating habit it is most unlikely. so you have to eat the right portion and dont eat snack to often, i mean once in a while wont make you fat right away but it is good to work out at home for 20 min or so. with treadmill or just walking too.



people say running is a way to lose wieght but can i just walk instead? if not, why cant i? (link)
Yes you can lose weight by walking. but you have to move your arms and do a rather fast walk. other than slouching off walk.

so i hope i helped and no matter what you do for exercise, you have to stick to it to lose weight.


what are some signs of depression? (link)
1. start blaming your self with everything
even though its not your fault
2. not doing anything you used to do. like just
sitting instead of doing your hobbies.
3. cutting
4. self injuring
5. stop hanging out with friends
6. wearing long sleeves(trying to cover up the
scars from cutting or burning)
7. feel like world hates you
8. feel like not doing anything
9. talking about demons and suicide

i hope i helped and depression must be stopped as soon as possible because it can lead to suicide




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