A while back a girl toyed with my emotions for about three weeks. I realize now how stupid i was. But now I'm afraid that i will get cought up in the same thing with this new girl that i met HELP!!! 17/m
First, you can not let them see you get hurt, because if they see that you are hurting then they have gotten what they wanted to do in the first place. So do NOT let them have the satisfaction.!!! they are not worth a cent!
second, I can not promise anything with how your relationship is going to end up, but you can not let a one bad relationship ruin your future relationship that might turn out great. so you have to take a risk, and there might be some more dullheads who will be mean, and break your heart, and you might break some girls hearts (not in a mean way but you know you breakin up with them because its not working out) but you will never find out if they are great for you until you take a chance.
third, If you do get in that same situation again, then just simply say Ok. then just walk away, dont let her see what she wanted to see, which brings back to my first point
and Most Importantly, if they can not see that you are a great person and playing with you, they are not worth it at all! and if you move on faster you will meet a girl who likes you for who you are faster~~~ =)
Phoebe2215 answered Wednesday August 3 2005, 10:51 pm: You have to make sure your personality doesnt come out to be the kinda guy that will take that bullshit. be dominant. let them know that you dont play games and you hate it. but you also have to know the girl well enough to ask yourself.. is this girl worth it? if she is, have a tlk about your emotions with her and ask how she truly feels about you. [ Phoebe2215's advice column | Ask Phoebe2215 A Question ]
Sweetheart10 answered Wednesday August 3 2005, 12:00 pm: Well not every girl is the same.If this new girl and the other girl awhile back are kinda the same then it maybe could happen but every girl is different.GOod luck [ Sweetheart10's advice column | Ask Sweetheart10 A Question ]
PhilIvey answered Wednesday August 3 2005, 2:28 am: Well if the two are similar then that could possibly happen again. I suppose you could try to be more aggressive this time around so you could gauge how she feels. Maybe the first girl just wasn't feelin you. [ PhilIvey's advice column | Ask PhilIvey A Question ]
xRoOxiSxBlOnDex answered Wednesday August 3 2005, 1:40 am: Don't compare the two girls! You could lose a chance with somebody really special just because you're afraid. Just proceed cautiously, and if you're seeing the same signs, back off or slow down a little. Just let the new girl know that you've had a bad experiance and don't want to move too fast. Good luck! ;]
<b>♥</b> Melissa [ xRoOxiSxBlOnDex's advice column | Ask xRoOxiSxBlOnDex A Question ]
Pressing_On answered Wednesday August 3 2005, 1:39 am: All I can say is.. well it happens. But there are things you can do to try and prevent it from happening. You can always just take things really slow, and reallly get to know the girl before getting too close to her. Not all girls are evil, just some of them. =P I'm not trying to be sexist or anything though, theres a l ot of guys that are evil too.
But I think you should just get to know her before letting her in too close to you.
Any more questions or comments feel free to inbox me. [ Pressing_On's advice column | Ask Pressing_On A Question ]
ncblondie answered Wednesday August 3 2005, 1:30 am: First you need to realize that not all girls are like this. The next time you meet a new girl, take the time to get to know her a little before jumping into a relationship or even asking her out. After a couple weeks of friendship, you should probably be able to tell if she's serious about you. [ ncblondie's advice column | Ask ncblondie A Question ]
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