Im really a down-to-earth girl if you really get the chance to know me like that, although many people don't know me like that and like to judge what they see/hear. i dont blame em cuz i have to admit i dont really give some people the chance to get to know me cuz i dont really care what others think of me cuz it is really pointless to live your life up to everyone elses expectations & i dont really tell people about my whole life because only my closest friends know who i really am and i love my true friends with all my heart..."It's not the ones who stay true to your face, it's the ones who stay true behind you back" and trust me i know who they are. i really have no time for the people who try to fuck me over or play games and i can be a real bitch if you have no respect for others and the people around you, i dont have respect for you and if you fuck me over or just are mean for no apparent reason, i have no time for that bullshit, sorry i just don't take shit from people after all that ive been through i honestly dont see why i deserve it...if you really knew me you would know where im coming from. im kind, gentle, sweet, and nurturing. i love my home to look neat and tidy. when people are nice to me, im at my best; and the nicer they are, the nicer i am in return. but i do have those days where everyone just gets on my last fuckin nerves. i might be a bit flirtatious even though im not meaning to be...i dont know, people tell me that. my tendency is to be extrememly loyal...i try to relax my mind as much as possible and im getting better at not dwelling on the past so much. i am a comfort zone for my friends and family, but i dont know how to say no alot of times...a weakness of mine. i try to keep myself from getting worked up when it comes to love...i think thats why im getting over things thats pointless these days (just like peole who arent worth a breath). i use my sense of humor as much as i want, and then i use it some more. hahaha. also i love to have a good time and just break loose once in a while..
Website: MYSPACE
E-mail: psdancer_6@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: Milwaukee, Wisconsin
Occupation: Student
Age: 16
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im goin out with sumone right now and have been for 3 months he askes me if im ready to have sex but i have no clue what to say because im scared and at a young age (14) my body feels like its ready but i dont know if i am he says hes ok with whatever my choice is!i want to but i dont know if its the right moment sometimes?what should i do go on with it and deal with everything or forget about it???please i need some advice? (link)
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first how old is he?? becuase young relationships tend to not work out in the end...do you really love him? i mean you're only 14 and guys know that young girls are naieve and will do anything for love but you really have to think what kinda guy he is and if this will mess up your reputation you know??
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does anyone know how to lighten your eyebrows? (link)
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Well you can always die them..
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Ok, I'm trying to lose weight but I get bored often and I've found that I eat when I get bored, even if I'm not hungry at all. What are some things to do when I get bored?? I mean, I live in a place where you have to drive 15 minutes to the nearest mall or movie place so shopping isnt an option. And I'm only 13 so I can't drive...What are some fun, random things to do around the house? (link)
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ride your bike, go online and stay online but dont eat...for a while.
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this may get kinda long...well i have this boyfriend and weve been going out for about 2 months now, ive seen him mabe once in this time period. he always is with his friends and has time for them but never asks me what im doing or if i ever wanna do something. i can tell he likes me i mean he calls me everynight and if he cant call me, like if he gets in trouble or something, he will tell one of his friends to call me and tell me he cant call...i know this sounds bad and all but i had one of my friends that is a guy call him and casually ask him if he was cheating on me cause i figure mabe hes sick of me and he says that he hasnt been...so i dont know what to do, i really love him and i never stop thinking about him so its not so easy to say, just dump him, thats the advice ive been getting from all my friends...i know i should talk to him about it but im to shy to say it on the fone...i would really appreciate anyyy advice anyone can give me i rate 5's!!! thanksss (link)
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Hmm, this is bad. you need to be dominant. tell him that if he really wants to be in this relationship, he'd put more effort into it and have to sacrifice things, because thats how real relationships work.. its good that he calls you every night!:)
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A while back a girl toyed with my emotions for about three weeks. I realize now how stupid i was. But now I'm afraid that i will get cought up in the same thing with this new girl that i met HELP!!! 17/m (link)
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You have to make sure your personality doesnt come out to be the kinda guy that will take that bullshit. be dominant. let them know that you dont play games and you hate it. but you also have to know the girl well enough to ask yourself.. is this girl worth it? if she is, have a tlk about your emotions with her and ask how she truly feels about you.
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Ok well ive been dating this guy for almost 2 years. We really love each other and we live with each other. Hes been telling me latley that i dont act like i care about him. I really do and i tried telling him this and he says i dont act it and i dont show him that i care and love him..What do i do to show him that i really do wanna be in a relationship an i do love and care about him..ive tried talkin to him..an it doesnt seem to work..is there certain stuff that needs to be said? what i dont wanna loose him an i wanna be with him..but i need to know he knows i love him
i rate 5's (link)
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My boyfriend said the same thing to me. i know you do because otherwise you wouldnt be asking for advice on this site. well first off, tell him that you don't understand because he should already know you do without you having to tell him 24/7 that you love him. but also tell him you'll tell him that more often if he needs to hear it from you, he must love you a lot. becuase relationships are also sacrifices..
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is it ok to shave next to your belly and your lower back? (link)
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if there's a lot yea.. but sometimes under your belly hair *treasure trail* is sexy lol. but def. shave ur lower back.
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hey...well i have a friend, well i should say bestfriend because i've known her since kindergarden and now we're going to be in 10th grade...we're totally drifing apart she seems to be getting newer friends to replace me and i dont know, i kinda miss her but sometimes she acts like shes better than me, it may be just me but thats how i feel so i think that shes just trying to make me jealous with all her new friends and she cant like, hang out with me anymore. we're totally different and we hang out with completly different groups so, its kinda hard since she doesnt really know my friends and i dont really know hers. i havent talked to her in forever and everytime we do like on the phone for example, its like really quiet and theres nothin much to talk about...what should i do? should i just move on and forget that we were ever friends?...it'll be really weird and hard because we still go to the same school and our parents and friends will be all confused why we dont really talk anymore...thanx and sry this was long...i rate... (link)
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This exact thing happened to me recently. i honestly think you should forget about it, i dont think shes replacing you.. i put this quote in my AIM info when this happened to me.. "i've learned to forget those who forgot about me."
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Hey.
Alrighty my boyfriend and I are constantly fighting over the stupidest things such as whos right and whos wrong. He hates Green Day but i LOVE them and when i got my ticket for the concert he got pissed at me. But i KNOW he loves me and i love him so much i dont wanna lose this. Our 3 month "anniversary" is in 11 days and im so happy with the relationship. But i think his trust issue is getting in the way. And i dont mean for that to sound mean cuz im not TRYING to be. But i NEED him to know he can trust me. Hes accused me of cheating on him with my ex who now lives in germany then felt SOO bad for doing it. He has had a rough time growing up and feels like he cant trust many people. What can i do to help him know he can trust me...with ANYTHING?
Thanks for any and ALL advice!!
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-*-Hanny-*-
P.S. SOrry its so long.=/ (link)
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Sit down and tlk with him about everything. let him know that you love him with all your heart and you will always be there for him like you said you would and tell him that you know he had a rough childhood, but you can prove that you're worth it. and that you will be there for him no matter what because you're commited
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ok, so me and this guy have been dating on and off for 8 months. He's always the one who breaks up with me and I'm always heart-broken when he does. Then he says he loves me and wants me to go back out with him. I know what your thinking, why doesnt she just leave him behind? The thing is, i cant. Im pretty sure I'm in love with him, but i dont know what to do. He told me he loves me, but he isnt IN love with me. Any guys know what this means? And what do you think i should do?
Thanks Bundles,
Jessy (link)
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I went out with a guy for 4 months strong and then all of a sudden he dumped me and treated me like shit. i was really heart-broken and i caused a lot of drama for his which i really regret and he told me the SAME thing, that he wasnt in love with me. i think he loves you, but being IN love with someone means that it's like head-over-heels. he says he loves you...anyone can love anyone...do you get what i mean? being in love is way different because it's more than just love, it's a sacrifice and it's just like when you LOVE your best friend, but he says it with more 'meaning' becuase he's your boyfriend of course. and i don't really know about your whole relationship and how strong it is from the on and off thing. but IF you know the you guys will ALWAYS get back together in the end...hey, maybe there's a chance...because if he REALLY breaks up with you one day and doesn't wanna get back, it wasn't meant to be because TRUE love NEVER ends.. trust me i've been through ALOT.. and i think i should know be now lol well i REALLY hope i helped you!
*Phoebe*
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my boyfriends goin away for baseball tomorrow.. hes sleepin at his teammates house tonite.. and his teammates sister likes him alot n wants to get with him.. she wants him to go swimming with her tonight at their house.. theyre staying at the same hotel [ w/ a pool ] im gettin really jealous and worries.. he says hed never cheat and i believe him but temptation is hard to say no to for guys.. and he thinks shes 'hott'. should i be upset or get over it? (link)
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Psh i would be upset too! if he has a cell phone tell him to call you before he goes to bed or something.. you'll know if something is wrong when he starts actin' weird.
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My boyfriend and I have been having sex since late June. Last night he asked me if i got it yet ( i got it june 30th, after we first started to) and i said no but im not worried about it im going to wait a few days because my comes so randomly. and it never comes on the same date. he is yelling at me about he knows he asked girls, but i think i know mmy fuckin period and a bunch of girls periods come different times and late. he is really stressing me out, should i go to a clinic to see or buy a test now? (link)
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i would say yes go to a clinic just to be on the safe side but i doubt your pregnant because that happens to me too but like if you were pregnant, trust me, girls know when theyre pregnant even if they arent "big" like you will have this gut feeling and you dont seem like you think so so i know how that goes
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16/f
i have lived in my current house for almost two years. the place that i moved from i had lived there for 8 years. i have just recently gone back to where i came from and i visited my friends and met some new ones.
the question i have is: is it possible to fall for someone that you have just met and are almost completely alike in every way (we have the same interest, tastes, etc.)?
i like him and he seems to like me, if we pursue this possoble relationship, would it be smart to do it at long distance? (i live in montana, he lives in kansas).
thanks in advance. (link)
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i dont think so. i mean even though you guys have like everything in common, you don't know the person that well like his personality in a way because you dont know how he acts when hes angry, acts about love, ect. plus you cant ever see him. a relationship has to consist of being there for one another, not only by phone but by having the feeling of actually being there feels SO much better. trust me hunnie.
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