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long distance


Question Posted Monday June 13 2005, 12:50 am

16/f
i have lived in my current house for almost two years. the place that i moved from i had lived there for 8 years. i have just recently gone back to where i came from and i visited my friends and met some new ones.
the question i have is: is it possible to fall for someone that you have just met and are almost completely alike in every way (we have the same interest, tastes, etc.)?
i like him and he seems to like me, if we pursue this possoble relationship, would it be smart to do it at long distance? (i live in montana, he lives in kansas).
thanks in advance.


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Phoebe2215 answered Wednesday August 3 2005, 3:17 pm:
i dont think so. i mean even though you guys have like everything in common, you don't know the person that well like his personality in a way because you dont know how he acts when hes angry, acts about love, ect. plus you cant ever see him. a relationship has to consist of being there for one another, not only by phone but by having the feeling of actually being there feels SO much better. trust me hunnie.

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ilovepink101 answered Wednesday June 15 2005, 1:47 pm:
well sure..it might not be love but you no that you like him..well why dont you go for it and give it a try..if he likes you and you like him it sounds like a perfect couple..so make it happen...but the whole long distance thing!!well there is such thing as internet..but you do what you feel is right for you ok..and have fun at it..and i hope you get the boy you want !!!
hope i helped

love always,
ilovepink101

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sunshinexdancer answered Tuesday June 14 2005, 11:45 am:
i think it's possible for sure. i don't think it should matter how long you know him, just keep talking to him and get to know him even better, and there may be a great relationship!

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DangerNerd answered Monday June 13 2005, 7:40 am:
Hello there,

All I can tell you about long-distance relationships would be this:

When we met online my wife and I were living on opposite coasts. We had a very short courtship, and have been married for over eight years now.

We have almost everything in common. We got along in the beginning, had big fights before we even met (e-mail fights) and then got married so fast it made our parents head spin.

It can work.

DangerNerd.

PS: We just moved from central Montana not too long ago, so howdy neighbor.

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karenR answered Monday June 13 2005, 7:35 am:
Well almost anything is possible. It might be best for you to be friends for awhile first. I mean write each other and email etc.. I don't think you have to be real serious about it for awhile. You would have to give up all the school dances etc. if you were exclusive to a long distance guy at your age. If you BOTH are serious enough to do that then you can, but that is missing a lot that you might regret later. You can always get serious about a long distance relationship with him later on. You'll be excellent friends by then if you keep up the communication. :)

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lilly_pads79 answered Monday June 13 2005, 2:19 am:
Well yes it is possible.It might work but it might not. So do what you think is right, and pray for the best!!! Hope I helped

~*Brianna*~

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