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Well Hello everyone.My Name is Bridgette Martinez.i have not bee on this Website in a million years.But newayys.im 15 years old.living in a little town called c-town.im a freshmann at wnhs.i have a wonderfull boyfriend.his names is stephen.he is the most awesomestt boyfriend ever.i love him with my lifee.my familyy is the most awesome thing everr.i love my mom with my life.. : ).and then theres my hobbys.!i love to get on myspaceee. : )its addictingg.if you wanna add me on myspace my account is myspace.com/pinkroks
loveee you guyyysss.
try and ask me some questions if you want.ill get back to yuhh.loveee : )



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ok im 13/f, turning 14 this year and i really want to get a second hole in my ear. the problem is, my mom wont let me. how can i convince her to let me get one? and another thing, does it hurt? becuase i got my first hole when i was a baby and dont really remember it...thankss ♥dAnieLLe

hey..well my sisters 16 and she hasnt even got her hole done..and im 13 and i got my second hole when i was 11 years old..but i beggeed my mom an she said no..so then i went to my dad and he convinced my mom to say yea..so i got it done..but i dont know what to tell you on convincin your mom..GOOD LUCK!!
and no it doesnt hurt at all..it itched for like 2 minutes..and then it was fine..but you have to remeber to clean it..cuz if you dont youll get infeccted and then it WILL hurt!!i hope you coinvince your mom!!
*ilovepink101*>Bridgette

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Hi i'm kaytee and this is my story: well i got my boyfriend last summer and im seriously in love! ever sice school started things have changed...almost every boy at my school says im hot and sexy, how they wanty me and how they would die to do me..its because my breast size changed and all that....well when my bf finds out he gets furious and he blames it on me! sometimes he gets so mad that he'll hit me and sexually abuse me (even though i do have a sex life w/ him) anyway sometimes it gets really serious and i know that breaking up w/him is not an option. even thought he does this i would never break up w/ him because i love him to death and i know he loves me..he does this because he always wants me and wants me to keep me forever. and also i know that he has anger mangement but id still rather be w/ him than break up you could just suggest things i can say it would be a HUGE help..thank you!
xoxo
kate

well your boyfriendneeds major help..and you need to get away fom him..he dont love you if he hits you and sexually abuses you..you might think he does it because he wants to keep you..but hes doing becasue hes jeaouls..and jeaoulsy is not a good thing. you might think your boyfriend wants you and hes only doing so he can help you and make you stay with him..but he needs help and you need to get away from him..well what you need to tell him that he needs to stop hitting you and tell him how you feel i know he wont understand but you might wanna try.i dont know wht to tell you..you can report abuse and they might do something..but if your okay with him doing this then you had no right to write this..im here to help you.you need to tel your mom or your dad and you just need to get away from him./.and when your away form him call the cops..my gosh do something to get him help!!and you please stay away form him..
hope i helped..
ilovepink101

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Is it healthy for a short 14 year old to weigh 100pounds? and is there any way other than pills to get rid of a stomach? Specific exercises? foods? anything.

your totally fine..becasue you 100 puonds dont mean your fat..im 13 years old and i weigh 112..but i honestley dont lok it..and your to young to be on pills to be losing weight..dont worry about your weight im sure you look fine..and if you really wanted to loose weight go run or play sports..but dont take pills!!
*hope i helped.*
Love Always,
*ilovepink101>>Bridgette

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my friend wants me to get to know this guy that she knows through her boyfriend and i realy dont want to.. because he is totaly not my type
you dont have to read why but ill say any way

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i already know alot about this kid..
he was going out with a girl that i dont get along with for over a year and they would have sex like every day .. he also does drugs.. and besides those reasons he asked me to semi online and i dont even no him(never seen him or talked to him), and he was still going out with his girlfriend ..
he also IMs me all the time and talks to me like he wants to get to know me but guys that think they can get to know somebody online arent my type.. b.c the other day when i saw him it was realy awkward to be around someone i only talked online to..
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so my friend her boyfriend and the boy they are trying to hook me up with are all trying to make plans with me and him and trying to set us up but i dont no wat to say because i dont want to be with him like that and think i would be weird if i just hung out with them as friends... if you have ne opions on what i should do that would be great..

well you dont need a guy that does drugs and he is practally cheating on his girlfriend hes with now..well im sure you deserve much better..but maybe you and him can be friends..when you see him you shouild tell him that you dont want to be nothing more of friends..becasue you dont want a horn dog that wants to screw you everyday..and this sounds really weird becasue he doesnt even know you..its jsut sad that some boys just want girls because they sound really hot..because you said that he never meant you and he trys to talk to you on the internet..wel he sounds like a jerk..so you just try to stay friends with him..and you sound like a way better person then that!!you deserve alot better..
hope i helped..
love always,
ilovepink101>Bridgette

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lately my best friend and i haven't been having the most fun. she's much more outgoing than me, and i often get left out in the dust. also, even though several people don't like her because of her loud, bossy style, she's convinced she's better than me. i really want to make the friendship work, because from grades 3-6 we've been the best of friends, but i've been working hard to keep it together for almost 2 years now, and she hardly ever talks to me anymore. i don't know what to do anymore. should i try to work more at the friendship, because sometimes we do have a lot of fun, or should i give up, or should i just spend less time with her but still keep her as a friend? i'm sorry this question is so long, but please answer anyways. thanks=D

well yopu guys sound like you can ork this little thing out..maybe you shouild trying talking to her..i know that you amy not change to be just like her..but just loosen up a little..you said that she was leaving you out in the dust..then get out of t he dust and go hang out with her..i know you may not be having the best time with her but atleats you guys are together..and maybe you shouild point out to he r that you knda sometimes feel left out..because what your telling me you shiuild tell her..because she wont know until you tell her..so try talking to her and putting your self hanging out with her..and see what happens...
hope i helped..
love always,
ilovepink101>Bridgette

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Hey,
I need some help with flirting! I am a shy girl but I tend to over-act and get silly when I like someone. How can I flirt subtley and not just look like a prat?
To the guys: what do you like a girl to do when she flirts with you?

well you need to act like your self when your flirting with somebody..because if you like somebody you want them to like you for who you are..not the girl that flirts with the guys and acts weird..well when you flirt with somebody y ou wanna them to know that you like them but with out saying it in words you know what i mean..and you want to get that same vibe from them..and im sure the guys want t he girls to be them selves all the way..just just be your self and go out there and flirt..and that shy thing!!dont be shy in front of boys..there just boys..dont worry..like i said before be your self..
hope i helped..
love always,
ilovepink101>Bridgette

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is there any ways i can get motivated to write? i don't know.. my boyfriend told me..that my writing would get graded an F. umm yea. that really hurt..and now it's bothering me. i know my grammer sucks...but that really messed me up..now my authors block is lasting longer than usual.

well you if you know that your doing bad then that shouild motivate you..if you know that you can do better then why dont you?well im good in writing and i love to write..but all you need to do is just a pencil and paper and brain storm of what yuor gonna write about..and im sure when you start writing that alot more ideas will start coming to yuor head..well dont let it bother you that your boyfriend said something like you wouild get an F in writing..because that its self should motivate you if you know what i mean..write something really good..worth an A and show him and proove him wrong..
hope i helped..
GET TO WRITING..
love always,
*ilovepink101*>Bridgette

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If you're just getting your period for the first time is their always going to be discharge?

yeah..theres always going to be discharge in your crotch no matter what..when i ahve my period i always get discharge..but most girls do..because its kinda a warnoing to me..but if your getting it for the first time then i dont knmow..because when i had it the first time i was in school..and you will always have discharde dwn there if you no what i mean!!!
hope i helped..
love always,
*ilovepink101*>Bridgette

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I was wondering if anyone can help me make a plan of when to change "supplies" during my school schedule. I'm only in middle school, so no one uses purses yet. There's also this one girl who ALWAYS searches my pencil case to find gum and whatnot so I can't use my pencil case! I go to my locker before lunch time, and in past situations I have picked up a purse in which I put a pad in. But, I hate using purses because its SO obvious that when you carry a purse to the bathroom, you have your period!! I don't know any other ways! I don't want to buy anything at school because the dispncers have the worst brands. My tampon can not last ALL day and I'm a little scared to use jumbo because im sure they're hard to insert and other stuff. If anyone wants to contradict this idea please do so! I need some ideas!

well i carry arond a purse..and so what if people know if you on yuor period..ITS NORMAL..every girl has it..so they cant say anything..somegirls have it before others ..but you need to carry a purse..becasue its so much easier..i have 6 classes in one day..i wear a pad when i leave the house...i change it in 3rd period then i change it in 6th period..if your wearing a tampoon then you shouild also wear panty liner jut incase..but my opinin..you shouild bring a purse..look at all the girls in the mall..they all cary purses..and dont worry about the girls who dont worry abut purses..you worry about you..and nobody else but you..why shouild you care what the people say!!
Hope I Helped
love always
ilovepink101

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Is it normal to completely lose your appetite when you have the flu? Food makes me feel sick right now.

yes...its totally normal..all you need is plenty of rest..and when i had the flu i didnt even want to thnk about food..but it will help you to reat..and you need to drink lke alot of juice..and when you do eat drink soup or something like that..
*hope i helped*
Love Always
*ilovepink101*Bridgette

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I have a boyfriend who is really awesome. He is a year younger than me. His name is *Michael.* My freind always flirts with him and he flirts back. What should i do?

well you ned to talk to this boy..and if that girl is supost to be your so called "Friend" then shes doing a terrible job at being a friend..firends dont flirt with each others boy friends..and thats jubt not right..so you need tot ell her something like to cool it off with her flirting with your boyfriend..and tell her that he is taken now so she needs to realize that!!and you hsouild talk to yuor boyfriend.... and make him realize that what your feelings for him are true..and that you want to be wiht him..and if he doesnt want the same out of you then hes not worth it!! but you and that so called firnd of yours, yall need to get yall prioreties straight!!
*hope i helped*
Love Always,
ilovepink101>bridgette

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how can i tell if a guy like me?

gosh havent you ever read these questions on the web..EVERYBODY asks this question..
well you know if a guy likes you if he is flirting with you...does he move his hands and like touches you when you guyz talk..???do you guyz even talk??well dont think he likes you because he stares at you..because theres a boy at my schol who stares at everybody like an idiot..you need to ask this guy if he liked you??!!!because you wont know until you ask him..and hopefully he will say yes if you like him!!
*hope i helepd*
Love Always*
ilovepink101>Bridgette

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On sunda is my boyfriends little sisters birthday party. It will be the first time I have ever met his parents! I want them to know I am a really nice girl and that I love there son alot. What kind of things can I do to show them that I am really nice and that I will treat there son well. I love him and I want to be with him for ever!

wel just be your self.. you always halft to ahve manners..and kinda ask them questions..make them like you..and the only way you can do that is by you acting your self..and always reambear first impressions..so dont be all like you know..all over him..have respect for his parents..and i hope that you are a decent enough girl to have manners and all that good..stuff..so you just be you!!
*Hope I Helped*

~Love Always~
ilovepink101>bridgette

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well i was just wondering what do you do when you really have no one to turn to? when you grandmother don't care, your father is never their, you mom dosen't seem to understand and you sister just critizes you and you don't really have anyone to turn to? i just need some advice please help..

well you can always come to adviceantors..thats whyw were here..to help you at you service!!well if you need advice about something then just ask me and ill try to answer as soon as possible..but if you wont spmeont to talk 2 t home then maybe you can turn to a close friend from school.but make sure it is someone you trust..well if that doesnt work then you can Always e-mail me at bridgettelovesyou5000@yahoo.com
and when i read your e-mail i will try to get back to you as soon as possible...im sorry your familys so negative bout you.i know what your going through..and it really does usuck..thats why im always on advicenators,because of people like you need people to talk to..and im there for you and those people!
hope i helped..
~Love Always~
*ilovepink101*.Bridgette

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So it's come to the point where I'm tired of shaving my legs every 2 or 3 days. I know that waxing in high on the pain scale but I was wondering if there were any good at home waxing kits. Or hair removal. I've never tried Nair before and I'm not excatly sure how well the resualts are.

Also.. read no further if you have problems about your kitty being hairless.

I want to know if there are any waxing kits or hair removal that will also work good in that area without really irratating the skin or anything.

Thanks all, I'll rate 5's.

well nair does work good.. but it stinks like really good..and i love using nair when im feeling lazy..all you halft to do is rub it on yuor legs,wait 8 minutes ,then get a wash cloth and wipe it off with warm water..and about your kitty cat hair..i really dont know any kits about waxing about that..
hope i helped..
~Love Always~
*ilovepink101*>Bridgette

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My friend played a joke on me and I know she was kidding..but I took it too seriously.I yelled at her in class..and then she was trying to talk to me after school but I ignored her and got in my car..I feel so horrible but I'm still mad..What should I do?

well if you know she was kidding then why did you get mad at her??did you ask your self that..and if was just a joke dont take it seriously..i think you shouild call your friend up and tell her that you and her cool..and you didnt mean to take it so serious..just loosen up a little..dont be so mad at a joke..and if she was your firend then im sure she didnt mean for you take it serious..im sure she didnt know..come on call her up and tell her that you and her are cool..and you didnt mean to take it so serious!!
hope in helped..
~Love Always*
*ilovepink101

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When you are makeing out with a guy or kissing him where should you out your hands. Or guys where do you prefer for girls to put there hands?
(I'm a girl)

well when i as making out with a guy i wouild put my hands on there side...it depends where you guys are kissing..becasue you can put your hands over his shouilders..but my x liked it when i put it on his side..and its just cool if you put it on the side..o what ever you feels right.
hope i helepd.
~Love Always~
*ilovepink101*>Bridgette

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my cat is getting really sick i took my cat to the vet and everything what should i do to stop her from suffering please help...
i will rate high just somebody help...

well if y uo look at my page and rad my questions..you will see that my cat got very sick at one point..then she got better..then she just shut down and we had to put her down so she wont suffer any more..i know that i went through hell when my cat was getting really sick..because i had that cat sine i was 4 years old..so she got really skinny and she wasnt eating and she lost like half of her body weight..so we took her to the vet and come to say it she had the begging stage of kidney cancer!!so we tryed to fight it..and she was foing good for a bout 2 weeks ..then it all wrnt down hill..well im very sorry to hear about your cat..but all i can tell you to do is spend as much time as you can..and try to be very sweet and try to do the best you can with the cat..i hope your cat gets cured..and just have a great life with your cat while it last..
hope i helepd..
~Love Always~
*ilovepink101*>Bridgette

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I recently asked a question about my ex boyfriend but ne'wayz. He likes this girl and i dont really want him to go out with her because i still have feelings for him! i dumped him tho so i shouldnt care but i do! I can't go back out with him cuz I need to obey my parents (at least for awhile) how can I stop loving him???
Thanks,
Missing him to death!

well like you said you dumped him..so theres nothing you can do..and you cant really control the people he goes out with..only because your going to have boyfriends here and there and they will dump you and you will dump them and t hen you move on with your life..and you wouildnt of dumped him if you still cared for him..and what do you mean you halft to obey your parents..??Did they tell you not to date him???well if you still have feelings for him maybe its really serious..then you shouild tell him..but if your just straight up jealous then just let him go on with his life..sorry the truth hurts!!
hope i helped..
*Love Always*
~ilovepink101~>Bridgette

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ok so i got a gf right anyways its like we see each other each day at school in th e biggening we hug then she kisses me and walkes away and thats liek 3 times aday but tlike thats are whole realashon ship is hug kiss walk away. so i need stuff to talk about not those stupid interveiws that u look really retarted going hey whats ur faveriot color? thats just stupid so i need better stuff to talk about. any ideas?

well you should ask her if she wants to go somewhere with you..and if she says yes..then you take her somewhere where yall can talk..and ask her about her parents..and what does she want to be when she grows up..and kinda act like you know a little bit about her if you dont..then i guess yakll can kiss and hug at the end then go home..lol..no im kidding..well im sorry..but you need to ask her on a date..maybe she thins the same about yalls realtionship..trying to talk to her!
hope i helped..
*love always*
~ilovepink101~>Bridgette

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