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well i was just wondering what do you do when you really have no one to turn to? when you grandmother don't care, your father is never their, you mom dosen't seem to understand and you sister just critizes you and you don't really have anyone to turn to? i just need some advice please help..
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listen to your inner soul then.do what you think is rite.thatll make you more independent and stronger than most people.try to make your mom understand in anyway possible.good luck
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Hi Hunny,
I know how you feel. The best people to go to are your friends. They shouldn't ever critize you. They should always be there to just listen to you. The best thing to do, is to get everything out and talk to people who you think would make you feel better. If you ever need to talk to anyone about anything you could im me anytime you'd like. I'll always listen and try to help you anyway I can.
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Well i can relate to your situation no in my family seems to care when i need them but lets not go intomy life story i would go to someone close to you like one of your close friends or if you want you can talk to me my email is: shortie1590@yahoo.com
screenname:
shortie1590
please fell free to im me or email me if need anyhelp
*HoPeD i HeLpEd*
*LiNdSaY*
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God. He will listen to anything you have to say.
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you turn to your friends. They'll always be there for you and there there for you whenever you need help or comfort. That's who I turn to whenever I need help or anything.
Love,
MELii
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i am basically going through the same thing. even though people in your family dont understand or listen to you that doesnt mean you cant go to friends or anything. friends are usually always there for you. dont talk about it inless your close to them because u never know if they will tell other people. there are alot of places you can go to talk to people they even have coucelors in school
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Well, you should probably turn to yourself even though it feels like you can't be your own best friend. There are a lot of people out there who are in the same position as you, and sometimes if you take that time to let it out to yourself or a counselor, or a friend, it could work out. And, if you don't really have a true friend at the moment, be your own, because sooner later, theres a time when you'll find someone to turn to. Whether it be a lover, a new friend, or a parent figure. It's really hard to not have someone, but you're the only one who knows you the best, and understands you the best. Confiding in yourself is like finding yourself and your deeper thoughts and feelings into life. And it's a pretty powerful thing to get to know that part of you, because a lot of people think they know, but theres always another part hiding. So when you have a moment where you need someone, ask yourself how you can make this better, and how you think you should be reacting on it.
-TheTeenGirl
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start a journal and write down everything, or call a teen help line.
x0x Laura
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well you can always come to adviceantors..thats whyw were here..to help you at you service!!well if you need advice about something then just ask me and ill try to answer as soon as possible..but if you wont spmeont to talk 2 t home then maybe you can turn to a close friend from school.but make sure it is someone you trust..well if that doesnt work then you can Always e-mail me at bridgettelovesyou5000@yahoo.com
and when i read your e-mail i will try to get back to you as soon as possible...im sorry your familys so negative bout you.i know what your going through..and it really does usuck..thats why im always on advicenators,because of people like you need people to talk to..and im there for you and those people!
hope i helped..
~Love Always~
*ilovepink101*.Bridgette
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All you have to do is tell me your problem and I will be quick to help you with anything. Im going through that too. I cant talk to my sister because she also critizes me, my mom brings me down or just goes syco, who knows where my dad is. You should write poetry, I promise it will work. it always works for me. I feel relieved after I write. Just writing my feelins. Or you can talk to godd, maybe write him or speak out loud. Its hard when you have no one to talk to, if you have friends maybe you can talk to them. I know its hard to talk to friends, because they dont really listen or you cant trust them, but I promise, I will be your friend and I will be here if you need me.
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You always have to find yourself. You have to be your own hero sometimes. Because no matter what YOU can always guarantee that YOU will be there for yourself. When you don't have anyone to turn to, search inside yourself.
Good luck!
<3 ems
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im in the same position as you hun. and i feel like my best friend dont want anymore hassel, my mum and dad give me alot of grieve and stress me out so badly. when things got really rough i went to a counsellor at school then my best mate did really notie something was up and took me to the school counsellor there i went through to a professional, they listen to you if you just want to be heard they try give you as much advice as they can. it is completly confidentual and no one knows your there not your mum dad sister they dont need to tell them you can keep going back if you like or just once or twice whatever you need.. also there are some websites that can help you with teen advice, phone numbers, if you call a teenage/child line they do put you through to a counsellor if you would like to tlk to them. hope you find someone to help you soon hun! **hugs** xXx
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aww im really sorry.. if you have friends maybe or like an aunt uncle or cousin. i really bet they do care and if they really dont.. you will find someone that cares.
i really hope i helped.. good luck!!
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I always turn to my best freind. I tell her everything. SHe knows averyone problem in my life and my insecurites. She's always there. I know if your a guy it may feel weird... but it could always help. Friends are meant to be there for you... so take advantage of it and talk to them.
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This has happened to me. You gotta turn to a friend..friends are important when this kind of stuff happens. And if you dont really have a close friend..you gotta rely on yourself. Sometimes ppl dont have friends or family to turn to and they rely on theirselves. Its kinda like survival..you gotta survive off yourself if no one is there to pick you up.But i am here for you even if you dont know me..ive been in this situation soo i kno how you feel.
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Dear What do you do,
I am sorry to hear that you feel you have no one to turn to, but you are wrong! You have turned to this site. We are here anytime you need someone to talk to. Also try talking to a school counselor. Or friends from school. This may be a small world but it has some big hearts in it. Maybe a neighbor down the street needs someone to talk to just like you. Get out and make friends. Then you will have more options of who you can turn to. What ever you do remember that we are always here. GOOD LUCK
Sincerely,
Honestymatters
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Hey,
I know how you feel, and have asked similar questions myself. I always get answers like 'I'm sure they care deep down', which is something I'm NOT going to tell you because I know how annoying that is.
The thing is, with me, my mother wishes I hadn't been born, my father is married to psycho who hates me so I don't see them, my grandparents critise me and the other set of grandparents just have no idea. What I'm trying to say here is that I understand exactly what you're going through, and it sucks. If you want someone to turn to, please come to me :) Leave some questions in my inbox whenever or email/add me at mitzirox1986@hotmail.com
*Hugs* It's never as bad as you think...you'll have good days and bad. Just keep on hanging in there for the good :)
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