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Ok i am a little upset right now, this is regards to my question before. The guy i like who i work with. well we spoke and laughed and i thought things were going reat. then we had a christmas party and i heard he was going so i went, but when i got there he glanced at me slightly and never spoke to me the whole night (mind you i never did either)I could feel him look at me sometimes when i danced but thats bout it, (hes such a proud guy never looks at when he passes by) then when we were dancing to a a rap song he came up and started grinding with a (ugly) girl near me, i am upset, are things getting worse between us, and what should i do? (link)
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toughen your self up woman! give him a taste of his own medicine!!when you feel that hes staring at you go flirt with a guy or something.hes probably doin this either to see if you like him and if youd get jelous (dont let him suceed in gettin u mad) or because you made it too obvious that you like him when he only took you as a friend
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hey im anonymous!my dad is died my mom is rasingme and my 2 sisters.my mom faced some problems becuz of my dad's inheritance but my mom made it threw.that's not the problem.my mom is always screaming.and im not satisfiedwith my life.i need help.im just annoyed for no certain reason.plz help me. (link)
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everyone faces death in life and you have to get over it and move on in your life cuz if you dont forget about the past you will NEVER get to a good future.you need to talk to your mom face to face and tell her to totally stop but not all the times i mean my mom yells at me for god sake i had a big ass fight with her today and she yelled at me (a lot)your life aint that bad when you come to think of it it could be better but could be 10 times worse.imajine you were created a poor helpless begger on the street and was like totally ignorant and had no chance of getting a job...now THAT would suck.when you think that youre gonna start feeling annoyed just compare your self with people worse than you and be happy with what you have and one day it will be better.on a peice of paper write down the negative and positive things in your life,about your personality and other stuff.the bad stuff about your personality, start training yourself to change it and start doing better in school and your life is kinda in your hands(if your a good student)and in gods
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This morning my dad got angry at me. The reason isn't really important. He threw the waffle that was eating at my shirt and got butter all over me. I was upset because he had the nerve to throw a waffle at me, and also because I was excited to wear the outfit that I had picked out to school. I started crying and I couldn't stop. Keep in mind that I have my period now. I was still crying when I got out of the car, and still crying when I was in homeroom. Of course, everyone was staring at me and wondering why my eyes were all puffy. My teacher suggested I go to the nurse, so I did and stayed there for half of first period. I was really happy by the time I was surrounded by my friends. First of all, I felt like an idiot because the people in my homeroom knew how upset I was in the morning, and then saw me laughing my head off with my friends two periods later. I just feel so stupid and I can't for the life of me understand why I was crying so much!! I know I have my perios, but I've never got PMS this severe before!! HELP PLEASE!! Has anyone beed throuhg an awkward situation like this? (link)
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everyone has a time like dat its totally normal you were crying a lot cuz you arent used to your dad doing that and cuz you got your PMS dont take it sensitivley tell your dad that it bothered you.take it the funny way cmon...a waffel?!LOL its ok that you cried a lot, your just not used to it and tell him how you feel, better out than in yknow
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Ok, my gramma has cancer and shes dying. We dont think she will make it until Christmas. I have a big family, and we are all very close, so it's a sad thing. But for some reason, i just dont feel sad. I feel guilty, it feels like i dont care. I know i do care, but i dont feel sad. It seems like everyone else is sad except me. Am i like a bad person? Is this normal? Please help! (link)
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no youre not a bad person you are just mentally strong, thats good you can cope with death.i think its better than normal
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well i was just wondering what do you do when you really have no one to turn to? when you grandmother don't care, your father is never their, you mom dosen't seem to understand and you sister just critizes you and you don't really have anyone to turn to? i just need some advice please help.. (link)
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listen to your inner soul then.do what you think is rite.thatll make you more independent and stronger than most people.try to make your mom understand in anyway possible.good luck
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okay... so my brother always swears at me and calls me fat and ugly and stuff... and he hits, punches, kicks, etc. me all the time. not enough to leave a bruise or anything (occasionally) but i'm not sure if this is considered abuse? also, my mom (my mom doesn't do it a LOT) and my sister both always tell me i'm stupid, ugly, fat, (same as my brother) but they don't hit me unless they're really mad... do you consider this abuse? (link)
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yep sure is.tell them yes i am fat but at least i CAN loose weight if i wanted you will never loose your pathetic personality itll just get worse as you get older...thats if telling them how you feel and consulting your parents doesnt work
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Hey guys. I'm sorry if this is kind of long, but I have something on my mind that is REALLY bothering me, and I really need help on it ASAP! I rate high, so PLEASE help me.
Ever since eighth grade, my mom has been impossible at times. I remember the summer that I was going into eighth grade. It was the first time that I ever really started to communicate with guys because i go to an all girls school. so, i was about twelve or thirteen when I first started meeting guys, going to parties, and all that stuff. well, i really really liked this guy named JC. I was like in love with him. And he liked me too. But, my mother was so overprotective, that that whenever I was talking to him, she would sit next to me on AIM and told me everything I had to tell him. And she would sit next to me while I was on the phone and she had to hear everything that was going on. She never let me tell him that I liked him. And guess what? the boy lost interest and to this day I cry myself to sleep because that was my first love and my mother never let me even talk to him. Therefore, him and his best friend say that I talk like an old lady all thanks to her.
Time passed by and my heart was healed my new love, Rafael. Rafael healed me and I healed him. He has been like a blessing to me. I love him so much. but, now i am in high school. my mother should be giving me more priveledges and space and privacy. But, she sits by me even when I talk to Rafael. So, Rafael sends me a music video and he told me just to listen to the words of the song. So, I did. and the words were very sweet. But, the video had some material in it that my mother did not like. It had like contrivercial things in our society. and it wasnt evey like sex or anything like that. It was like weird people. so, anyways, she took it very personally and made me tell Rafael that I did not want to have anything to do with that. And now, when I told her that she should let me make my own decisions and that I want to be with Rafael and she should just let me do what I want, she says that I am crazy and that I have no dignity and self respect. I told Rafael that I didn't like the video and he said that he was sorry for it, but my mom is so overprotective of me!
And another thing that she does is that whenever I tell her something, she always has to tell like the entire world. She tells my grandmother, my aunt, and she even tells the hairdresser! and then she tells me not to tell my best friend since like 8 years anything about whatever.
I've already tried talking to her and it doesn't work. SOMEBODY PLEASE HELP ME!!!! TELL ME WHAT TO DO!!!! PLEASEEEEE!!!!!!!!!!! I'VE ALREADY TRIED TALKING TO HER! PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE HELP!
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tell your mom that you love her very much and that if she loves you to give you a little space tell her to trust you and its not like your gonna sleep with them now....bit by bit shell start trustin you and know that your independent enough to do what you want
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My gramma just died a week ago, and my parents just told me yesterday that they are getting a divorce. All of this just seems like too much for me to handle. I have incredible faith in God .. so I pray to him ... but sometimes that doesnt seem like enough? How can I deal with this? I dont really wanna talk to my friends about it ... cus all their parents are still 2gether, what should i do? (link)
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first off tell your parents that this is too much for you to handel and tell em how you feel,if that dont work bear in mind that your not the only person with parents that are divorced its their life. imajine you had problems with your wife or husband that were unbearable...youd leave him or her and itd be hard but even HARDER to have your kids cryin about it..my parents are divorced too cmon its their life
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this is really long, but i really would like some help,please.
first off, im having a bad week. on sunday i got arrested. now last night, this started. my mom came in my room to say goodnight... but acted strange about it. i yelled at her because she didnt knock first and she begged and pleaded for a hug and a kiss goodnight, and when i still refused she started to whine and said, "but i might not get many more oppurtunities"... so i gave her a hug, and a really long one, and then she left and went to bed eventually. about a half hour later, i was going to the bathroom, and on my way back to my room, i saw my mom. she gave me another hug, and looked like she was going to cry. she started saying how she was sorry for not knocking, and she was sorry for all the things she did that made me unhappy. (she listed a few that have happened over my life) then she said she wants me to try to be good to my sister, and help my dad. she said to listen to him. she told me she loved me at least 6 times. she told me one of the happiest moments in her life was the day i was born. she said the other two happiest were when she married my dad, and the day she had found out i had won an essay on "worlds greatest mother" that i had written about her. she said dad would need help with things if she wasnt around. then finally she said, you better get some rest, time for bed. i keep thinking about all of this, what could it mean? and then i remembered, she has bipolar disorder, and she may have something else too that i havent heard about. whats happening to her? this morning when i got up for school, her and my dad were still in bed, and snuggled really close. i asked if someone could take me to school and my dad said he would. (usually my mom takes me though) so then she told me she loved me alot, and lots more hugs. she gave me lunch money and said goodbye, have a good day. i noticed shes wearing her wedding ring, which she never wears because its so hard to get off, and she wouldnt want to leave it on during the shower or while shes asleep. her and my dad love each other, but usually, my dad is already up for work by 7:30 and they arent usually snuggled so close to each other in bed. my mom told me dad was still in bed because they both couldnt sleep. so i went to school, pondering this all day. when i came home, my mom was putting my sisters new school picture in a frame to put over the fireplace, next to mine. she pointed out to me that if i ever need it, a picture of her as a baby, of the day she was born, is in the frame too, just behind the other three. im getting suspicious of whats going on, so i said, why would I need it? she said because valerie (my sister) is going to have to do a project in her class this year where she may need a picture of herself when she was younger. my mom has been saying my dad is going to help me through my arrest, and i'll get through it, she knows i can. if this was going on with you, what would you think? whats up with all these things shes been saying lately? is she dying? (link)
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mabey she thinks its her fault that you were arrested and that if she were closer to you this wouldnt have happened especially when you yelled at her, she might have thought ok from now on imma treat you better....or mabey you should ask your dad why your mom is acting like this .good luck
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I want to cut my hair but my dad won't let me. It's all the way down to my elbows and I really want it down to 2 inches below my shoulders but my dad won't let me. My mom says it's ok. Is there any way I can reason with him? (link)
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tell him how would you feel if you wanted to change something in your appearance and your parent said no. tell him that your hair wont stay short forever when you cutt it and its just a change
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i am 13/f and my parents have been divorced since i was 2...i live with my mom on weekdays and every other weekend i go to my dads house and spend the night...my mom is remarried and my dad has i g/f that i really like...well last friday was my party so i didnt go to my dads on his weekend. on saturday morning i called my dad and he didnt want to come pick me up..when i got there (from my mom) his g/f was over and they had slept together...my dad asked me if i thought he was a bad person... so i have 2 questions-
1. should i tell my mom about her sleeping over there...becasue i dont really want to go to my dads and if my mom hears i wont have to spend the night at my dads.
2. is it mean for me to not want to go to my dads house...the age is 13 when you get to choose if you go or not but i dont know if i should go.
Sorry it was so long..i will rate high! (link)
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well think of the positive and negative points of it....if you tell your mom you wont go to your dads anymore like you wanted its your decision wether you can go over your dads or not nobody can make you go.im not saying you should cutt off the connection between you guys and its not mean to not wanna go over your dads i mean my parents got divorced when i was 10 and he asked me who i wanted to stay with and i said my mom.its not mean,its honest.
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one of my best friends, well. she keeps copying EVERY SINGLE THING I DO. and her family has more money than mine so she tries to make a competition out of things. for instance, i told her how i love this one hobby. now she could a program for pros that costed hundreds of dollars. and she brags about things. it even goes down to music. EVERY BAND I LISTEN TO, SHE DOES AFTER SHE SEES I LIKE THEM. she goes on my computer sometimes when she's over and she looks in my files, takes the songs, then claims how she is "tired of posers and they better not steal 'HER' music". it gets COMPLETELY annoying. i don't want to tell her, because she is such a good friend. i don't want to lose her. (link)
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LOL!! this happened to me!its so annoyin i know!!....ahem...anyway if you tell her to stop copying you, dont you think you might just seem childish and she might even deny it.At least you got someone lookin up to you.she probably likes your personality.good luck
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i don't know how it happens, but every time i'm close friends with guys, they get a crush on me. does this always happen to everybody or am i just doing somthing wrong? how am i supposed to act in order to eliminate this possibility? (link)
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when you are best friends with a guy make sure you tell them how much you hate it when you are friends with a guy and they end up liking you and try not to act like your acting around your boyfriend or crush
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ok, i have a boyfriend and im head over heels in love with him but i have a problem...he is using me...i know he is, he knows he is, everyone knows he is. im not sure what to do...i cant let go of him, ive tried...but i just run right back to him. we are on a break right now and there is this really great guy that likes me and i tried "talking" to him but i cant...i just cant seem to let go of my boyfriend. i know this sounds mushy and gushy but i love him so much i just cant let him go...ok the guy that likes me we will just give him a name "josh" well i went over to josh's house sat. night and watched a movie but anything i did just made me want my boyfriend even more...i know its crazy right...my boyfriend has cheated on me the whole 9 yards, but i still cant let go...what should i do? (link)
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my GOD you seem like such a booty call now!
you seem like you have no dignity to the guy THATS why hes using you he sees that your the one whos runnin after him and that you would never leave him even if he did cheat on you so what the hell why shouldnt he be cheatin on you?you gave him all the rights to.if i were you (no matter how much i love him) id go up to him and say you know what ive had it with you mistreatin me and im dumpin you.see that other guy that you say is nice.
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hi i'm sandhya,i'm 18years old i m female
i love with,
someone,& he is also luv me but i m not assured that he will marry with me in future. sometime i m confuse that he love me or not but i really luv him & i never live without him i think & i feel i will die without him. is he flirting me,really i need ur help,i always crying for him only,but he is always active when he feel i may go with someone,otherwise in normal case he react as normal,plz tell me early what i do for him
thanking you
bye
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ask the guy how far he wants this relationship to go,and you tell him that you want this relationship to reach marriage.dont be desperatley in love with him till you know itll actually get you somewhere, cuz if you breakup youll be desperately sad.
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16 male. I honestly think I am going insane. Things just have been building on me my entire life, and they are starting to just break through to the point where I cannot control my own emotions anymore.
It's like last night, everything inside me just exploded. My mom works on pit crew for my band, and she asked me to help unload the truck. Well, I happen to be the only person who uses the truck that has to unload because she is there. It always makes me a bit upset when she asks, but not like last night. Don't mention this, for it is not the issue. If you do, it is a 1.
What happened to me after scared me. I suddenly had flashback after flashback, showing me how un-normal I am. I have overprotective parents, first off, and began wishing things like they'd stop. I am a quiet person, and I wished that I could speak more. I have not had a girlfriend, I wished I could. I wanted my friends to be a bit closer to me. I wanted somebody to actually be interested in what I say, instead of blatently nodding. I wanted my sister back from her present self where she is dating a guy and is so rebellious that I can no longer stand it.
AKA, I wanted to finally be normal. And it has caused so much depression in me these past days... I feel like my life is going south, and I cannot even look north.
What do I do? (link)
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did you try talking to your parents about how you feel?so mabey you feel this way cuz stuff that never used to bother you in the past bother you now,is the past iswhats bothering you you have to let go.if whats bothering you is that you never had a girlfriend you will one day....i havent had a bf either u know but i will one day, just try to talk to your parents youll feel a lot better
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i dont know what to say or how to explain it really. im just simply, unhappy. i used to be happy, i dont know what happened. everything just feels so useless and people just suck. no one cares about anyone but themselves and i feel like im at a loss and i always find me second guessing myself. whats wrong with me? how can i be happy again? (link)
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mabey the people only care about themselves cuz youve never tried telling them how you feel.there has to be a reason behind your sadness...mabey its the change of horomones its sometimes normal to be sad for no reason
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My sister is really depressed lately, and I'm really scared for her. She is pretty okay around me, but everyone else, (even our own mother and best friend) she won't crack a smile!!! I think it might be a 12 year old thing, but I'm a happy person who never really gets like that. I usually understand things, but I don't understand her! Tell me what to do.
Aunt M. (link)
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sit with her and tell her how much you love her and ask her whats been bothering her, tell her that her secrets safe with you and that you can help.try your best to get it all outta her.
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im really confused right now. i went to be last night knowing that my boyfriend loves me im making good money and im doing good in school. but this morning i woke up and my heart, not like litterally like i was having a heart attack. but like someone had broken my heart and i was very confused and i havent really figured it out. its like all day i couldnt smile i couldnt find a reason too. when my boyfriend called me i was very short with him and kinda rude. and whenever he'd say he loves me i was just like o ya love you too. and thats not me. im usually totally lovey dovey. im really afraid he is going to think somehthink somethings up and i dont want him too because there isnt anything wrong with us at ALL. I just dont get it :-/. im really thinking its because my dads five year reunion is coming up not like a high school or friendship reunion but the reunion of his death. and it seems like its always harder when its a 1 year or 5 year or 10 year anniversary you know...so this year im really sad. this whole month has been horrible. everything i think about makes me cry music makes me cry, laughing makes me cry and work makes me cry. my heart hurts so bad its like aching...its horrible how do i make it go away...uhhhh what do i do? why do i hurt like this? gezze this sucks......... (link)
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its because some stuff that happened that didnt bother you combined with all these sad things that happened to you and all though you werent thinking about anything sad you sorta started feeling sad .its totally normal, talk to a trusted person
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F/15 I think I am suffering from depression, Im not talking about "I not myself today" kind of sad, but I have felt like this for a long time. I feel abbandoned and angry at myself for being a failure. I feel like everyone who I was ever close to has left me and I have no one to talk to. All of my close friends are gone and I only have a few friends that i really dont know that well. I having a hard time dealing with the deaths of several classmates and I have been thinking about death alot lately, I want to see a therapist or a doctor, but I am terriffied to talk to my parents...they see me as perfect because I am the oldest and they have such high expectations for me. How can I talk to my parents about recieving treatment?
-Scared and Alone (link)
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its great that your parents see you perfect,now, tell them how you feel, dont worry theyll give you great advice and might even let you get treatment and if you keep thinking and saying that you are a failure thats what you will be, believe that you arent and mabey youll change.everyone faces death its not only you and thats life, but by the way these experiences ALWAYS make you stronger in a way.
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