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i hurt
im really confused right now. i went to be last night knowing that my boyfriend loves me im making good money and im doing good in school. but this morning i woke up and my heart, not like litterally like i was having a heart attack. but like someone had broken my heart and i was very confused and i havent really figured it out. its like all day i couldnt smile i couldnt find a reason too. when my boyfriend called me i was very short with him and kinda rude. and whenever he'd say he loves me i was just like o ya love you too. and thats not me. im usually totally lovey dovey. im really afraid he is going to think somehthink somethings up and i dont want him too because there isnt anything wrong with us at ALL. I just dont get it :-/. im really thinking its because my dads five year reunion is coming up not like a high school or friendship reunion but the reunion of his death. and it seems like its always harder when its a 1 year or 5 year or 10 year anniversary you know...so this year im really sad. this whole month has been horrible. everything i think about makes me cry music makes me cry, laughing makes me cry and work makes me cry. my heart hurts so bad its like aching...its horrible how do i make it go away...uhhhh what do i do? why do i hurt like this? gezze this sucks.........
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its because some stuff that happened that didnt bother you combined with all these sad things that happened to you and all though you werent thinking about anything sad you sorta started feeling sad .its totally normal, talk to a trusted person
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This sounds like anxiety. It's VERY important that you actually talk to someone face-to-face about how you're feeling. Your boyfriend perhaps, then he'd know that you weren't being off with him but that you can't control it. Anxiety feels like your chest is caving in on your heart and it even hurts to breathe. My advice is to talk to someone you trust...
Best of luck!
x Steph x
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Listen I am really sorry to hear about your dad sweetheart. And listen the way your acting <eventhough it sux> it could lead to a break up!! Thats what I did w/ my bf a week ago today. He was being really to himself and really depressed and then it just went down hill. You need to be open w/ your boyfriend. It may be hard but you need to open up because your bf would <im shure> do the same for you. So the advice Im giving you is to let him know whats going on . And mabye you should try talking to your mom about it. I mean try and do things that used to get you really happy. Im really sorry. I just hope that everything really works out for you! Let me know how it goes
Always here,
Bianca
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Talk to friends and family about it and thy will help you get over your problems. Tell your boyfriend how you have been depressed. Try getting some excersize, relax in the sun and that will help you to not be deppressed. Keep yourself busy and you wont think of it anymore.
Listn to happy music {like Sheryl Crow}or something fastbeat like techno instead of slow and sad music. I hope you feel better :].
Hope I helped♥
--Caden--
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Like i said everyone can give you advice-its easy to do so I am not only giving you advice but i feel your pain-i have been there and still am with people i have lost in my life. I lost my grandfather-i lost best friends,i lost my sons dad,and you are always left incomplete when you dont have someone you love--i lost my finace not to death but just b/c he left me--same thing i am so lost without him and just want him here to hold me-and knowing thatw ill not happen hurts even more--but you have a boyfriend-go tohim and let him comfort you the way you need to be--he may not be your dad but your dad would be proud that someone is standing inhis place with his little girl watching over her--it will be hard but you have to with in yourself deal with the issues no matter how much advice you get-just know i feel your pain and i am here for you if you ever need something or just to talk.
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I think that you're hurting because you don't feel complete. Having a boyfiend who loves you, making good money, and doing good in school is not enough for you. You're dad's dead and you miss him. That's regular. You're a person who expresses love, and you are thirsty for more. You can't take away the pain fully, but you sure can relieve it for as long as you want. You need to be around loved ones right now that are positive and that won't break you down. I'm sure if you're father were still alive, he wouldn't want to see his daughter hurting like this. You've got to stay optomistic, not only for your family or your father, but for yourself. That's the main thing that will help you recover. Keep your father in you heart, mind, body, and soul. Reminise over the good times you had with him. If you can't remeber it's o.k. Don't beat yourself up about it. Maybe you could ask your mother or someone else that was close to him, and talk over the goods things about your father. Don't push your boyfriend away. You both need eachother right now. If he's there to comfort you, you will have a good abundance of support, which will keep you going. Keep you head up, and try and think only good thought. You may not get it at first, but along the way you'll realized that you're dad wanted you to be happy. I hope I helped!
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