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I loved Laurens hair in the one episode when spencers sister is in her computer class when she was home and adurina came in thats how i wanted my hair for awhile. Is there anyway i could get a picture of that??

I watched the episode! :)
and I loved her hair as well.
well this is the closest picture I could find...

http://www.mtv.com/overdrive/?id=1584225

(scroll down some)

It's not much, but you can see the tones and highlights in her hair. I hope I helped!

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What kind of colours can make someone look thinner?

Dark shades such as black, navy, dark gray, brown, etc.

I hope I helped!

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14/f. African American.

so basically, my hair is very weak. and it's pretty short. it's about as long as the middle of my neck...but right now, it's in box-braids. i wanted to get extensions for my hair as my back-2-school look, but extensions damage my hair, whether it's sewned in, or glued.My mom thinks it's best for me to just leave in the box-braids, but i don't want to leave them in. I don't have a perm so, all i would do, is just straighten my hair, every 2 weeks.

so my question is, what do you think i should do??!! i want a cute back-2-school look, without damaging my hair.!!

THNX IN ADVANCE

I hear "Quick Weave" is best because it promotes hair groth. The reason why your hair is weak and short is because you are using WAY too much heat! All that straghtening will just burn off your hair, especially since you do it every 2 weeks. Quit that. Try wrapping your hair, but cross wrapping it or using your hands every night and brushing it only like once or twice a day because brushing frequently can thin out your hair. Make sure you grease your hair often with creams that promote growth and healthy hair such as Tea Tree Oil. Also, you might want to consider platting and/or threading your hair and try drinking a lot of water.

I hope I helped!

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Ok, so my school has a uniform, and you can wear colorful knee socks with your skirts, but i cant find any. Does anyone know where i can find cute, somewhat cheap COLORFUL knee socks? [ argile, striped, patterns, pokadots? ] THANKYOU(:

American Apparel has a great selection of cool and colorful knee socks, tights, leg warmers, stockings, etc.

www.americanapparel.com

Also, try Urban Outfitters-www.urbanoutfitters.com

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Does anyone know of any really cute stores with upper scale clothing. For example, anthropologie, free people, jcrew, jasmine sola, bcbj, etc..that have great online websites? Im in need of some new fashion updates but ive been looking at the same websites forever.

Thanks a bunch.

Urban Outfitters
www.urbanoutfitters.com

Nordstrom
www.nordstrom.com

Betsey Johnson
www.betseyjohnson.com

H&M
www.hm.com

TopShop
www.topshop.com

I hope I helped!

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i am seriously going nuts i have no idea how to do my room.
the main color of my room is orange the celing is pink and the trim around the doors windows and walls at the bottom have no color...im thinking a limegreen. but it cna change.

i am not a girly girl.
but im not hardcore punk.
i hate the color blue.
and im looking for a more punkish look but sitll have it cute.

i have looked everywhere and cant find a thing!

can you guys please help me!
im begging you!
show me links to sets comforters..anything!

please dont say look at macys target jcpenny stuff like that i need a different place they have like nothing. thanks!

Delia*s have great room collections that could inspire you a lot, they're really cool:

http://store.delias.com/browse.do;jsessionid=7B4700912F25973313BEBE915C20E840.worker5?categoryKey=roomwares&topnavTrack=roomwares

They have different styles to choose from, and you can even order from them (online only) to get the look you need. The victorian room (main picture) and the pink polka dots w/ black music notes room are my personal favs

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What is Soho? (in NYC) I've heard of it but I'm really not sure what it is. Why do people say to "watch your purse" when in Soho?

Soho is an artsy neighborhood in Manhattan with a vast range of diverse and eclectic people. I've heard it's really cool and I want to go soon :)

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14/f (9th grade)

I need a tote bag for school. It doesn't have to be big enough to carry a bajillion books (i still have arms and boys :] ), but I want it to be able to carry some books and stuff.

I like PacSun's bags (minus black and a lot of them aren't big enoguh :[ ) and I kind of don't want to pay $40 for one (coughAbercrombiecough).

So can you give me a link or a place to look at some cute totebags?

Thanks.
-Hater of akward backpacks


I too like to carry totebags around school to carry my bags. It's stylish and handy at the same time :]]. Well here are some stores...

Hollister ($30 range)
www.hollisterco.com

American Eagle ($20 range/or more)
www.ae.com

Victoria's Secret PINK
www.vspink.com

Nordstrom
www.nordstrom.com

Alloy
www.alloy.com

I hope I helped :)

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i want to make out with my boyfriend.but im always scared im going to be bad at it or mess up. i dont know how long to go for and i dont know what to do with my tongue. i want to blow him away.have any tips or suggesstions?

First thing's first, make sure you're wearing a sweet tasting lip gloss and maybe a peppermint breathmint or altoid to give him that nice refreshing taste you should get out of a make-out (Trust me, you wouldn't be wanting to kiss chapped lips or be in contact with bad breathe neither, lol). Some tongue action (french kissing) in the make-out will make him love it even more, and maybe a nice little sucking of his bottom lip too. These techniques will just show him that you're into it, making him want it even more. Also, make sure you're eyes or closed...you want to enjoy the feeling too :]].

You can go to you-tube and search "How to kiss". It's really not too much because you want it to be good, so taking tips will help you in doing so. Try the typical making out with the pillow or teddy bear for practice. May seem silly but it could work! I hope I helped!

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i like clothes and fashion but is working in a clothing store at the mall going to be boring? i dunno what kind of jobs there are, but im guessing like cashiers or people who put clothes back on the racks

That's true, it does depend on the store you work at. Working in a mall would be good though because on your breaks you could shop at other stores, and grabbing a bite to eat on your lunch break would be closeby. I would prefer a fun & vibrant, hip store with cute and unique clothes. If I were to work at a store I would probably go for Urban Outfitters (has a cute unique style and they sometimes have bands perform in their store, which should be a lot of fun!)or just any store that you're really into and seems like you would have a great time workig there.

Also along the lines of sales merchandising, they'll let you dress the mannequins in outfits you (as well as other employees, manajers, etc.) feel will inspire the customers' fashion appeal.

You should narrow down the store you want to work at (particularly your favorite because they give you employee discounts) and go to their store websites to locate the job offering they have in your area. I hope I helped!

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Ok so I've seen a couple people wearing like kinda dressy shirts that are longer than a regular shirt but shorter than a dress and they wear leggings under it and it looks soo cute! I was wondering if anybody knows where I can get shirts like that? And I don't want them to look too dressy, but not too plain. Just something thats cute and stylish. Thanks so much!

ohh you're talking about the 'shress':]] cutee!

Forever 21, definitely!
www.forever21.com

Delia*s
www.delias.com

H&M
www.hm.com

Urban Outfitters
www.urbanoutfitters.com

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i have african american type hair kuz well im african american. i cnat do much with my hair kuz its short like downto my shoulders BARELY! what type of hair styles should i use instead of just a ponytail and down??



thnxx. : )

Flexi rods, small curls (full, half twist, half cornrow).

Personally, I don't wear hair weaves except for when I get braids on occasion but if you do choose to wear one then get the "quick weave" because I heard it can make your hair grow.

I hope I helped!

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wel he didnt.. lol..
i know for sure..

but i had my period about a week in a half after.
i should be fine then right?

Oh yeah, if you had your period then I doubt you're pregnant. Plus he didn't touch his penis so you're totally fine. :D.

I hope I helped!

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Okay, so like a week and a half ago, i gave my bf a handjob, and im not sure if he touched his penis after.. but then he fingered me.. like a week after i had my period.

i couldnt be pregnant right?

There's a chance you could be pregnant because you're unsure whether or not he did touch his penis, so you remain unaware until you ask him. Find out, but if he says he did, or didn't, you should still take a pregnancy test to know for sure.

:D I hope I helped!

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ok heres the deal i had sex like 2 weeks ago and well i was throwing up like afterwards for the first couple days i i thought i could be pregnate but i got my period but it is a really light period i normally last 5-7 days and this one was 3days could i be pregnate or not

If you got your period then you can't be pregnant, but like others said, there is a possibility of pregnancy (especially since you were throwing up). Take a prenancy test and find out so that you know for sure :D.

I hope I helped!

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I am 13 years of age. I have been put in a situation where I could have sex. I really like the guy and I think he likes me. I am not sure if I should have sex with him or not. I really want to. I need advice. HELPPP!!

That's just it...you ONLY like him. Sex is something special that you should share with someone you love, not like. Personally, I believe 13 is too young to be having sex and you should wait till you've found the right one. Your virginity is a one and a lifetime gift and you shouldn't throw it away for someone that you just like. Also, if you're asking us whether or not you should have sex, you're not ready. Don't look for approval for us, do what YOU think is the right decision, and know the precautions first.

I hope I helped!

...and good luck with that decision ;).

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okay so my boyfriend's bday is coming up in a couple of weeks. he recently bought his first polo from aeropostale and he decided he really likes it. so i think i should get him another one from a designer store, such as lacoste or ralph lauren. however, since he is a teenager (16)and wears a small in polos, i dont know if i would be safe getting him one at a store like that since its for men. should i get the same size or maybe go to extra small? thanks

"Ralph Lauren Polo" sells for teens, so they're bound to have something in his size!

:D I hope I helped!

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hey. well, i'm looking for a dress for my friends party. i really want a dress with lace. sorta like this:
http://www.dresses.com/order/1138.html

only not as poofy and any color works really. i just want a dress with some lace. i wear a size Large, but i don't know what number size that is. i want straps if possible. i don't want any thing slutty or anything, somthing pretty, and kinda classic or something. not to short eaither. thanks so much!!!

They sell that in cream at Macy's...

www.macys.com

I hope I helped!

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So I really like this show called "the best years" and its really new. It just premiered yesterday. So anyways the main actress, charity shea (that's her real name) well I like her hair a lot. And I wanna get my hair cut like hers. So I went on google but there no pics of her with straight hair so the person cutting my hair could see what it was cut like, so if anyone can find me pics of her with straight hair or w.e then thank u sooo much

I saw that show! It's good :D. So here's the flipbook of Samantha Best (Charity Shea) and as you flip through you'll see the pictures of her with straight hair-It's the 6th picture (it was on the-n.com):


http://www.the-n.com/mplay/play.php?presentation_id=3842

I hope I helped!

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I go to the pool alot, and I know this is going to sound really stupid, but I don't like to go in the pool because when I do, my makeup gets all runny. I have this "waterproof" mascara thats kind of cheap so it still runs. and I can't find any cheap waterproof eyeliner. I know, your going to say just don't wear makeup. I really like to wear makeup though and I like applying it everyday and it just makes me feel nice, and I want to be able to swim underwater and have fun at the pool without worrying about makeup. So i'm asking, do you think I should invest in this expensive waterpoof eyeliner at Sephora called "Make Up FOrever Aqua Eyes" for $16 and mascara "Tarte Lights, Camera, Splash" for $18? I saw them in cosmogirl. Has anyone ever tried them? You can still answer my question though if you haven't. Thanks!

I know you want to look your best and that I can understand, but let's get real...nobody swims with make-up on, or they shouldn't because what's the point? You can just wear it there and then take it off when you're ready to swim. Reapply it when you're done swimming. The pool is a place to have fun, not for you to worry about your make-up. You can buy waterproof mascara for other personal uses (say if you cry or your eyes get watery and you don't want it to run) but I don't reccomend wearing make-up while swimming :D.

I hope I helped!

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