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i didnt get any answers the last time i asked
i dont know what to say or how to explain it really. im just simply, unhappy. i used to be happy, i dont know what happened. everything just feels so useless and people just suck. no one cares about anyone but themselves and i feel like im at a loss and i always find me second guessing myself. whats wrong with me? how can i be happy again?
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mabey the people only care about themselves cuz youve never tried telling them how you feel.there has to be a reason behind your sadness...mabey its the change of horomones its sometimes normal to be sad for no reason
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there is nothing wrong with you. it's normal! i think that you might have just lost intrest in some of the things that you use to love. just try to meet some new people or try something new. you should do things that you enjoy and hangout with people that enjoy the same things that you do. hope it helped! =)
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This is a normal thing in most people. When i used to get it i would jump into the pool and drink a budlight. it'll be alright, just ride it out.
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there is nothing wrong with you. there is a way people become sad and think that everything is useless. they think that things are this way. next timek when you are feeling sad,angry or careless, try to think of good things about life. if you're bored try joining a group/club. talk to new people, and just have fun! only YOU can change how you feel.
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Being unhappy about nothing is normal.it is just hormones reacting. You could relax in the sun or listen to up beat music.
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I know what it is like to like you. For awhile when i transfered schools i was happy. Then when i got to high school i started doubting myself and what i could do. I started not talking to anyone and i didnt understand why i was so unhappy. When i am unhappy i usually make people unhappy to which is definitely not good. I dont thinkthere is anything wrong with you. I know that most people only care about themselves but this isnt about them its about you. I am not trying to sound ignornat or anything. Far from it. Sometimes when someone hurts us very badly there is something inside them that dies, and cause great pain and instead of dealing with it they think about themselves and wonder whats wrong with me. My dad was great for awhile especially after my parents got divorced but something happened. He just stop being around it wasnt like he left the family he still lives 15 min. away but he wouldnt come see me. I think i wasnt used to that and someting inside me died and my personality changed. I think you need to find something that makes you happy not for others but for yourself. Get involved in band or learn something you never learned before. Trust me something that you learn to do and your good at it makes you feel really good about yourself. You sound like a really cool person who doesnt deserve to go what your going through.
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As much as I would like to answer your question, I don't think it's possible. You need more than amateur advice from anonymous friends who are ignorant of any of the details behind your melancholy. I would recommend a professional: I recommend you start with your pastor or clergyman (and I'm an atheist!). He or she can learn more about your history and present circumstances, and guide you from there. He (or she) might recommend you see a therapist.
If you have felt this way pervasively for longer than six weeks, you may have more than a depressed mood. You may be clinically depressed, which requires professional help, and only a professional can make that determination. You aren't going to get the help you need from this website.
Seek help.
Dr. Chad
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one answer.....
Jesus :D
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To be happy get you some friends and go out have some fun,maybe get you a boyfriend to hang out with on weekends.hope I helped!!!
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i was just like you a couple of weeks ago, i spoke to my friends and went out to places where i know i used to be happy, like the cinema i enjoy going there so it was a 'happy' experience. if you find that you cant talk to your friends talk to a member of your family or even a teacher. its amazing what you will feel like after telling someone how you feel. if you find that doesnt help just put an email in my inbox and ill help you. hope i helped a little bit.
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wellll i think you should find something like a hobby or sport to try and you might enjoy it. Believe me whenever your sad or something and you go and do what you love, it makes you feel so much better.
Look at your friends, are they always there for you etc? in order to feel happy you NEED NEED NEED friends who are your support system and who you can go to when your down.
I dont really know why your unhappyy butt i hope you feel better. : ) smilee
if you are very sad
go find a joke online :D
ahh good luckk hun
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A lot of people are selfish and suck. It's nothing wrong with you, you are just getting upset at the nature of reality.
Sometimes I wonder which is worse: to know about the problems of the world today, or to be completely ignorant to them. You can always go to the doctor and get a perscription to make you happier.
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Everyone goes through a time in life when they are just truly unhappy. I suggest you take a long look in the mirror. One way to make yourself feel useful, put your trust in God. God all the way!! I am praying for you.
As for the whore thing, it is a joke. I am hardcore Christian, so don't CALL me a whore!
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maybe you need soem anti-depressents? it seems like you might have depression and need to talk to a therapist about it.
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I fully understand what your going through. I am the same way. Sometimes it feels there is no point to anything. My unhappiness came from a reason I dont know about. I am seeing a therapist now, as I suddenly have bouts of depression throughout the day and think exact things you do. Sometimes I will be happy and so fun to be around, the next depressed and angry at the world. The world is depressing I know as you said. There is so much chaotic things happening and it feels like your alone in thinking this, but your not. No one seems to care it feels like, and when you keep thinking this, all the negativity just builds and builds and builds until you feel lost and hopeless. You may be depressed, there is help out there. You could either talk to someone like a counseler or simply tell someone who will take time out to understand. We all feel a certain way for some kind of reason or another, get to the real root of your problem and youll feel the tension easily erase over time, either with medication or therapy.
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