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how do you know if you're a true christian? i mean, i believe in God and that Jesus died for our sins and i go to church and pray every night, but i also lie frequently and stuff, and sometimes i feel like, intimidated by God?idk,its weird. but sometimes i get scared about like, revalation and stuff and i feel like theres a chance i wont go to heaven, even though i deffinetly believe in God and im not sure if i'm really a christian. can someone help ?
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Maybe you're just convincing yourself that you you're a Christian? I have no idea i dont know your heart, but you go to church, and pray and thats totally great but have you really surrendered your life completely to God? Or maybe you just need to get your life on track and get closer to God you know? I know I need to. Have you let Him be the "Pilot" of your life? If you have questions please don't hesitate! Ill be praying for you =)
I am part psychic sometimes I kno what is going to happen but it is usualy only about little things not like huge world wide things.
first off I would like to kno how I can strangthen my skills.
2nd off. Sometimes when I am going to bed I have hundreds of thoughts going threw my mind. It is like different people are talking all at once. The thoughts arent things I would kno of or have ever thought about. Do you think that I am having thoughts from other people or spirits? I doubt it but im not sure.
First of all, being psychic won't get you to heaven. I hate to say it, but youre going down a bad path. Think about it, if you're not serving God, then you're pleasing Satan. Are you sure you wanna do that? Im Christian, and if you want to ask me anything ill definetely be willing to try my best to answer them..Im sorry if I offended you, and Im not trying to convert you or anything, just letting you know that God loves you so much more than you could imagine.
i'm wicca and i'm gonna have a baby and well i was wondering if it's wrong if i make my baby learn and follow through with the wicca relligon i really want her/him to belive in what i belive in and i think of it as like the christans and how they make them belive in the whole jesus christ bible stuff no offence to any people who belive in that relligon so is it wrong? plez help
First of all, yes I do believe that is wrong, its not even giving the child a chance to belive in something much more powerful than wicca. Christians do not make their children believe in the "whole Jesus Christ Bible stuff". They tell them that other religions are wrong which is true. Im sorry if Ive offended you, but I think you should no more about Christianity before you thrw that out there you know?
14/f. My boyfriend just turned 17. I am a virgin, he isn't. He's had sex with 2 people. We have been together for probably about 4 months. He respects me and I know he loves me and always wants to spend time with me. I know that he wants to have sex but tries his best to repect what I want. I sort of want to have sex, I know he loves me and cares about me. But there is another guy who I talked to before I knew him and he was in love with me. For some reason I stopped talking to him. And I'm just confused about what I want. Please give me advice, and when you have sex, do you immediately start to bleed your first time? and how much? I will rate.
you're wayy too young.why not wait? i mean, whats the rush? theres no such thing as safe sex. condoms can break or not work..just letting you know.wait!
i have blonde hair blue eyes skinny tall smart popular and cute . i also play a ton of sports so why cant i get a good boyfriend like my last boyfriennd dumped me in one day.if you know why tell me i need to know
maybe cuz your so into yourslef!
what is the quickest and easiest way to get rid of a sore that is in my mouth? it REALLY hurts!
ahh i would NOT advice to gargle mouth wash and hydrogen peroxide!I dont know, but that just sounds dangerous... its a kanker sore no biggie.They have medicne for it at the drug store..itll go away soon though =)
okay i am 13 years old...adn there is this guy that i really like and he likes me. the only thing is that hes 2 years older then me...to me it doesnt seem bad or anything but to everyone else it does. everyone keeps telling my that he does drugs and stuff but whne i ask him he says no. and people are telling my that he only wants to go out with me to make out and have oral sex. when i asked him about this hes like i would never make u do anything that you didn't want to. and i said good b.c i would never give you oral sex. and he said fine...
should i go out with him???
please help...thanxx
I wouldn't... do what you want, but because of rumors about a bad reputation (people dont usually pick a random person to make stuff up like that about them) I would kind of be scared? Im 13 too, and if a 15 year old wanted to go out with me just to makeout and that other thing i would kind of keep space between him.. =/
Alright so Im kinda skinny and people tell me alot that if I put on some weight id be alot prettier.
so my question is. what is a healthy way i can put on some weight. I want some junk in my trunk and some nice legs and all of that. Bigger breasts and all
um, personally, I dont know, but if i were you i would ask my doctor =)
I am racially Jewish.
As far as my faith goes? I'm not quite sure. I was raised thinking Jesus is the true Messiah, not not worshiping him, per say. My father's side of the family has a lot of Jewish traditions woven in with Catholic ones.
I think Christians worship Jesus INSTEAD of God, and I don't think that's right.
I DO NOT want to be a Jew for Jesus. I'm sorry, I'm not praying in a highschool gym. Its not going to happen. I've prayed in both churches and synagogues, because I just say, "Hey, its the same God, right?"
But the way of worshiping Him is quite different. I have no idea who I am, where I fit, or where I should go to pray.
Christians don't worship God instead of Jesus, theyre all three holy spirit,God,and Jesus (its really confusing)You should be able to go and pray wherever you want.Dont be ashamed.
Ok i know it sounds totally weird because im so young (15 very soon) but my boyfriend wants to propose to me for my bday. Hes 17 and i know wont be able to get married for ages and so does he. I think hes still going to propose though. What should I do? We've been going out for 10 months. thanks xx
(Im female by the way...)
=/... I dont think thats a good idea at all, and besides isnt that illegal?You guys are young and both you and your feelings are probably going to change.Why not wait, what's the rush??
andd how are you going to live and take care of yourselves, pay the bills?
14/f
i have really sweaty hands. it is super embarrasing! i don't even need to be doing anything, i just automatically get it. i can't hold hands with anyone, or by chance, even touch them because it's super gross! i don't want to go to the doctor or anything, but does anyone have any ideas? thanks!!
Im sorry, but my friend has the same problem and im pretty sure she had to go to the doctor to get medicine for it.
Hii! WeLl i just got my period like yesterday afternoon..and i was just wondering is it normal to feel like really fat? i mean like i know its called feeling bloaded but its not that i feel bloaded its that i feel fatter than usual and like im always hungry! but i like try and hold back because i feel so fat..and like i shouldnt eat! sorry if this is a stupid question..
Yes its normal!I ALWAYS feel really fat and hungry on my period =P
is it true that your first time having sex, you bleed a lot and it hurts?
Yes
I work with an elderly lady who can't seem to mind her own business. I'm the office manager and so she blames me for all her failings, like not getting raises, not being allowed to check voicemail, etc. She won't be honest with me about the way she feels yet she has no problem running her mouth about me and everyone else to anyone willing to listen. We have a very small office, there is only 5 of us here. So of course everyone knows what she says b/c that's how gossip is. Anyway, she's making my work difficult and making up lies to the boss and I want it stopped. How can I do this without stooping to her level?
Im in the same situation with the gossipping part, just let it roll off your back, shes an old lady no biggie ; ) But, I dont want to scare you or anything but my sister recently got fired because some girls said she was slacking and not doing her job well.Talk to your boss about it,im not in your situation so im not sure maybe?But the one telling your boss is old so im pretty sure she wont fire you,Confront Wanda and just tell her that you're sorry for offending her in any way,and ask nicely to stop talking about you.Again, im not in the situation so theres not much I can say!Well good luck :]
Okay see i have pretty brown eyes right, but then at the same time i want to wear make up...but not too much..and i want to wear make up but i don't want to look like a goth...I mean what should i wear??
Well it depends.How old are you?If you're 12 or 13 usually some eyeshadow and mascara looks fine, but if your older or you want you can always wear light eyeliner.Ask a professional at the mall to show you and im sure they will.I use a dark brown but you can use any color :]
I have a problem with bad breath. I've suffered from it since I've been a child. It's so embarrasing. When I'm at work I ALWAYS have to chew on minty flavored gum because I don't want to scare away customers.
What happens when I run out of gum? I have to make a speach tonight at my toastmasters club. Does anyone have any home rememedies of how to cure bad breath? And please don't tell me to brush my teeth and tongue and floss, because that nevr works.
Um, I dont know if you have this, but Im pretty sure there's some kind of disease that has to do with your situation.talk to your dentist.
hey please help me if u can its been many yeasr since im suffering frombad vaginal discharge i thinks its a yeast infection afraid to approach a doctor but this is the best thing for me but still need some advice first. thanks in advance!
dont come to advicenators for health questions!were all teenagers just like you, so i suggest you tell your mom!
why do people on here ask about touchy questions when they dont want to hear the truth? like for instance some person just asked why people are mean to mormans or something along those lines and although ive never heard that i told the person exactly why i know mormans are unliked from where im from and he flipped on me because i guess thats not what he wanted to here. so if you dont want to hear the truth why do you ask those questions?
sometimes people dont realize that the truth hurts,or they know the truth, they just want to see if anyone can help them look at the situation in a different way.sounds confusing, but i dont know good question.
how do you get guys to like you?
Be yourself.You shouldnt have to change who you are just to get a guy to like you.If youre in like jr.high then I really wouldnt be worrying about guys right now!Theyre just a heartache right now,i mean theyre so far behind us maturity wise.Why not wait until youre at the age till youre ready to get married.I mean think about it... the only reason you date is to find the person you wanna marry!So dont stress over guys,have fun while youre young! :)
Im a christian.
But i feel like, i need to do something to make my prayers heard. Or something its really hard to explain, i almost feel like i have no connect with god.
How do i become a "better" christian?
i suppose thats what im asking.
Read your Bible...yeah I know it can be boring, but the more you do it the easier it is.Talk to God more.Join in at worship,but really mean it..let it come from your heart.I told my youth group leader your same question and she told me the holy spirit is already working in you, and letting you know you need to get your realtionship with God right..so youre on the right track!Good luck