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i have blonde hair blue eyes skinny tall smart popular and cute . i also play a ton of sports so why cant i get a good boyfriend like my last boyfriennd dumped me in one day.if you know why tell me i need to know
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You sound a bit conceited, and maybe if you weren't as much, guys would start to see you made a change and would [most likely] think that that's cool. Sure, you can be into yourself, but you sound like you're overdoing it. ♥
Jessx3
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Just be patient. love takes time. and most guys just want sex. dont go out looking for it, wait till it comes to you..
Mari.*
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Could be because you're a very conceited person, and think to highly of yourself. I don't know all of the details here, but it also could be because of how you treated your last boyfriend. If not, maybe that guy was just a jerk and you picked the wrong fish out of the sea.
You can always cast your fishing rod back in!
-Johanna
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ok well im the same as you. this happend to me a few years ago. the guys wouldnt go out with me cause i was to prude so maybe you have to show them that your not and your a good girlfriend and you will be there for them
Good Luck! Hope this helps!
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They could be intimadated (sp?) by you. You sound a tad over-confident so they're probably scared of you. Don't focus all your attention on your positives. Focus some on other peoples. Also maybe you could try asking them out. It is the 21st centuary(sp?).
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maybe cuz your so into yourslef!
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Probably just a bad string of luck, you'll find your perfect boyfriend out there somewhere. But remember, its not all about being popular and cute, because those are physical qualities and they aren't all that matter. They can see that you're beautiful, but they cannot see your personality and all that is inside if all that you flaunt is your looks. You know you're smart, so ask yourself this, do they know?
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...maybe they think you're concieted?
Alright - for a real answer, guys mature a lot slower mentally then girls do, they're just too immature to be good boyfriends at your age, probably.
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Chances are that the boys are intimidated by you. You're blonde, skinny, tall and popular, why would a girl like you ever be interested in a guy like them?
That's why you have to put yourself out there and go after them. If you think you see a guy you like, you need to be the one who makes the first move because he'll probably be too scared to ever come around to it.
This is also why you need to be wary of guys who approach -you-. They're probably cocky arses who think a lot of themselves... i.e. jerks. And you know you want to stay away from that.
I know it sucks to always have to go get the guy but it's the price of beauty ;)
Good luck, honey.
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Because good boyfriends are hard to find. Most guys are all about sex and not about relationships or romance. It also depends a bit on your age though. If you're 12-18 you'll probably want a boyfriend who's two or three years older than you, because boys of your own age are just on a different level when it comes to relationships.
However, there are good guys, but getting into a relationship with them takes time. Most of them are a bit shy, so don't expect them to take the first step. Look for guys you are or could be close friends with and explore the possibilities of having something more than friendship with them. Take your time building things up, rome wasn't built in one day. Loyalty and trust are the base of every great relationship and those two take some time to develop.
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your not looking good enough. wait for the right guy to come get you. dont worry guys arent everything.. it might be bc ur personality..
*~Stephanie~*
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obviously i do'nt know you, and so i do'nt know exactly why, but from your question you seem a bit stuck up..
idk jus what i think..
sry
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