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my boobs itch REALLY badly. they have lately. what's going on? is this normal? (link)
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your boobs most likely itch because they are growing! to make them not iych as much put some lotion or moisturizer on them!
Good Luck! Hope this helps!
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so my boyfriend told me that he has fingered a girl before. he is 2 years older than me. I don't wanna sound retareded in front of him, so i don't wanna ask him, and that's why i am asking here, what does it mean to finger someone? i will rate 5's for good answers (link)
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To finger a girl is to put your finger up her vagina.
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i was just wondering, how can you improve your singing voice. i know you dont have to be born with it and i know you dont like drink milk and drink waater but like idk i want to be a good singer but idk what to do? (link)
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You are absolutely correct that you don't have to be born a good singer! One important thing that you can do is take voice lessons. The teacher willl tell you how to control your voice, how to sing in pitch, and will give you a lot of other helpful advice. This will help a lot!
Good Luck! Hope this helps!
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i want to impress my bf of 4 1/2 yrs. for v-day. and i want to do something fun a special. i want to go to dinner and wear a sassy dress and everything. but after that what should we do, that will make him feel loved. (link)
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since you have been going out for so long, i would go back to yours or his place, cuddle while watching a movie, and maybe go a step further, like having some sex or something! If you need some more funn ideas then leave a message in my inbox! Have funn!
Good Luck! Hope this helps!
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just died. She was 23. Should I go to the funeral, or will it be too depressing?
Any advice would be greatly appreciated. (link)
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i think that you should go to this funeral. It will give you closure on the relationship. I know it may be hard but it will help you. And later on, if you don't go, you will wish that you had!
Good Luck! Hope thsi helps!
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Hey. For the past month I have started exercizing regularly for about 60 minutes 3 or 4 times a week. Aerobic for 20-30 and strength for 30. I want to lose weight, but nothing yet. I eat the same, if not less that I did before exercising.
Im just wondering how I can lose weight if I am already somewhat light. I'm 5'8" and weight 128 pounds. I don't want to become anorexic or bulimic, but nothing else seems to be working... (link)
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if you aren't losing weight and you wigh 128 at the height of 5''8 yo are probably in a healthy condition right now. You probably don't need to lose any weight. However, it is good that you are excercising even if you aren't losing weight. Your body is still inn a healthier condition.
Good Luck! Hope this helps!
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Well, I really like this guy. Let's call him Shane. Well, he has a girlfriend who is a year older than us. And we flirt so much. Like you'd think we were like dating. It's so weird cause I really like him a lot. I was wondering, do you think he does this with all girls or do you think he really likes me? (link)
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it's hard for me to judge whether or not he does this with all girls, because i have never met him, but if i were u, i would wait for him and his girlfriend to break up. Once they break up, flirt with him like crazy!! also smile a lot around him! If he flirts back with you a lot then chnces are that he likes you. He will probably ask you out! If he does, go for it!
Good Luck! Hope this helps!
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It really sucks how much my parents love my sister more. They buy her everything, they do everything for her and give her credit for...everything. If we both get 4.0's, my parents will look at me and say...you should work harder, but they can look at my sister and say "Good Job!" My sister has so many clothes that she doesn't never even worn half of what she owns, while I sometimes have to wear the same shirt or pants twice/three times a week. Today, my mom, dad, and sister said they were "Just going out" and would be home soon....3 hourd later I call and where are they? They're at the mall, buying clothes for her and getting her new furniture in her room while I'm doing nothing and being bored. I've tried talking to them about it, but they always say the same thing---we love you guys the same, we treat you guys the same, etc....but how come she gets everything while I'm always left behind?
She's 13 and I'm 14.
What to do? (link)
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A lot of times I feel the same way about my sisters. What you need to do is to talk to your sister about this. Since she is younger than you, and probably looks up to you even if you don't know it. You need to get he to understand where you are coming from. Then you should talk to your parents again, and bring her along. Get her to tell your parents that you are telling the truth. Since they love her so much, they will listen to what she says, which is what you are saying. Then they will understand where you and her are coming from.
Good Luck! Hope this helps!
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where can i get some cute clogs that look like the ones that are sold at american eagle
ps. they dont sell any at ae anymore (link)
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what you need to do is to go to http://www.birkenstockcentral.com that's where i got mine. they have all sizes, shapes and styles. THere are some really really cute ones!
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OK so the men in my city kill their wives and turn them into robots. I am next my husband is after me. He took the children and i dont know where my children are!!! I hit him on the head with a club and he started to bleed. HE IS TRYING TO KILL ME. when i went to my friend bobbys house she was already a robot she kept asking me if i wanted coffe. I must have said no 100 times!!! what should i do!?! i cant leave everyones after me and my docter went away on vacation im not crazy i promis!! HELP ME
WHERE ARE MY CHILDREN!!! (link)
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your husband probably killed your children. To avoid him killing you, you should talk everything out with him. Tell him how you know about the whole robot thing, also tell him taat you really love him. Chances are, he will understand and he won't kill you.
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I have this best friend and shes really cool! She have brown hair and soemtimes its stright and sometimes its curly. She has rly good stlye. She so perfect. I think she use to be a robot cause shes so perfect. Please Help me!! How is she so perfect!!??
LOL ((ill give ya a 5 if u answer this)) (link)
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stop!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! lol!! haha bye!
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So me and my boyfriend were making out and he was feeling me up and stuff, and we were obiously really close together. So while thats happening, I feel him start to vibrate. From his torso down I swear he was shaking or vibrating. My friend says he was getting off lol but wouldnt I have felt it since I was so close to him? it just seems kinda werid. I'll rate for decent advice (link)
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this guy really wants to have sex with you. Him vobrating means that he likes a LOT! but if you aren't ready to have sex, he likes you enough that he will wait.
Good Luck! Hope this helps!
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I have a question about this boy i like. he is 17 and i am only 15. i told him i like him and he said he liked me too. he is turnkng 18 this year. everyone who knows we like eachother say they have talked to him and he is going to ask me out. the only problem is that i am rly good friends with this kid and i dont want to ruin that friendship with him. he holds my hand all the time and he said he has a surprise for me on monday. i am kind of scared and i dont know what to say if it is that he is going ask me out. i dont know what to say if he does.
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i think that if you like this guy that much, then you should go for it! But when you guys first start going out just make sure he knows that you still wanna be rly good friends even if you guys do end up breaking up. But go for it if you really like him!
Good Luck! Hope this helps!
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ok i am going out with this kid, i really like him alot. He likes me to but i also think he like my best friend. The first week we were going out my best friend kissed him but i forgave him because that is how much i like him. But do you think that i should ask him to stop flirting with her or dump me?
please help me :'(
confussed luv (link)
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I think that you should talk to this kid and give him a warning before you break up with him. Tell him that it bothers you that he flirts with your best friend. Also tell him that you really like him and want to keep this relatinship going, but if he doesn't stop flirting with her, you are gonna need to break up with him. He will prbably get the idea from that and will stop flirting with her, but if he doesn't stop, then he isn't a lotal boyfriend, and isn't good enough for you, so then don't be afraid to break up with him.
Good Luck! Hope this helps!
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my friend is having a problem she is in 7th grade and so am i she got asked out by a 8th grader and she likes him a lot but she doesn't know if she should go out wit him or not some people say he is really weird and everything so can u please help my freind out (link)
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if your friend likes this kid a lot then she should go out with him. It doesn't matter what other people think. If other people say he is weird then she should just ignore them. If she likes him that much then she should go for it!
Good Luck! Hope this helps!
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hi I jus wanted2no wat r the phases or bases in a physical relationship .my gf keeps sayin that she crossed phase2 with her x....can sum1 tell me wat r phase 1 ,phase2 ,phase3, etc n describe each if possible plz and also temme how many phases r there
thanx n looking4ward 2 a reply soon (link)
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phase 1 is making out with someone, phase 2 is feeling someone up, and phase 3 is having sex
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i've been single for more than a year now because i still love this guy. i can't seem to get over him no matter what. sometimes i even cry myself to sleep at night or when some people ask me if i have a boyfriend i always have an urge to cry but i dont want to in front of them. i got in a bad situation with him so my parents arent that fondd of him even thought it wasnt his fault but they dont know that. he says he still likes me but he knows that i wont go out with him again (which im pretty sure isnt true) so he has been going out with other girls. im just confused and cant figure out what to do. thanks for any help!
-haley (link)
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since this guy clearly likes you but is covering it up by going out with other girls, which makes you feel forgotten, you shouuld do the same thing. You should concentrate on other guys, and go out with other guys. Your original crush will get the idea that you don't like him and will feel like he has to work extra hard to get your attention and to get you to like him. THis will give you the advantage in the relationship and you will probably end up with the choice of whether or not you want to go out with him or not. And when you get this chance, go for it!
Good Luck! Hope this helps!
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how do A&F clothes run ? (link)
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a lot of times A&F clothes run small. Also the sizes vary. For example i once tryed on two shirts that were smalls and one was too big, and one fit me. In order to be sure that they fit, since it can sometimes be hard to tell based on the size, you need to make sure to try your clothe son from there before you purchase them.
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How do you make a guy love you? Like what do you do? Help please i like this guy a lot. I need help. THANKS! (link)
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one thing that always works for me to get a guy to like me is flirt with him a lot. He will probably be tempted to flirt back and he will realize that he likes you. I also like to smile a lot when i am around a guy that i like a lot. it gives off a very comfortable feeling, and he will feel comfortable and at ease around you. THis will make him like you. Also don't be afraid to flaunt yyour best feature. If you have great eyes then put on some mascara and eye liner before you see him.
Good Luck! Hope this helps!
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Help! Help! Help!
I used to have this boyfriend my parents hated to death. He moved all the way across the United States (I live in California) and emailed me his new phone number. While my parents were at a meeting, I called him and talked only like a minute since he had to go to a school event. Will his number show up on the phone bill? If so, my parents will see it and become suspicious, because we almost never call people out of state. I have a Panasonic phone with caller ID if it helps.
Can anyone give me any good excuses for when my parents round on me? (link)
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i don't think you should use an excuse at all. I think that you should tell your parents the truth about how you only spoke for about a minute cuz he had to go to a school event. you could also tell them how you didn't call him, he called you. Just be honest with your parents about what went on and i am sure they will understand.
Good Luck! Hope this helps!
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