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Someone kinda close...
just died. She was 23. Should I go to the funeral, or will it be too depressing?
Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
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It's up to you. I personaly dont go to funerals because i get extreamly emotional. but you should go because it shows respect and it makes you feel better about what happened. i've only gone to one but it was pretty worth it.
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If she was someone 'kinda' close you should really go the the funeral and pay your respects. All funerals are depressing but you should really show your support to the family. If you don't go you're just going to regret it later and feel guilty you didn't attend.
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I think you s hould go to the funeral. Its a way to tell yourself its ok she is moving on to a better place and you are saying its OK for her to be at peace.
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I think you should go. of course it will be depressing but you hav to go if u knew the person or even if it was a friends relative it would mean alot to them that you cared & took time out of your day to go there.
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I think you should go. I mean, think of how you would feel if you died, and she didn't show. And, it's good to pay your respects & say goodbye, seeing as how it's your last chance before she is buried. Just go, you'll feel better knowing you did, even though it's depressing.
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personaly, i say go to the funeral. she just died, and this will be your last way of saying goodbye to her. i know it will be sad, but otherwise in the future you'll think 'why didnt i go?' Either way, it will be depressing, funeral or not, so i really think you should just go.
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I think go to the funeral.. Yea its going to be sad but i didn`t go to a friends before and regreted later.. You don`t want to regret it..You want to say your good bye.. Also i`m very sorry she was very young.. And if you feel you shouldn`t then don`t hun.. ♥Dez
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i think that you should go to this funeral. It will give you closure on the relationship. I know it may be hard but it will help you. And later on, if you don't go, you will wish that you had!
Good Luck! Hope thsi helps!
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definitely go to the funeral, beacuse if you never go to it you will regret it for the rest of your life
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helps you move on. makes the death definite.
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Yes you should go. If she was close then you have to show respect. Of course you will be sad and so will everyone around you so you guys have to help each other. It hurts but it would be the right thing to do.. which is to go. It will be depressing and sad but she deserves to have all the people that love her there.
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Funerals are (in my eyes anyway) for the living more than the deceased.
It is just a getting together of friends and loved ones. If you knew her family then by all means, if you can, go to support them.
As a rule I don't think the funeral is very depressing. You can skip out on going to the actual burial if you think it would bother you.
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I really think you should go..really it doesnt matter how depressing it is..do it for her..she would want u to be there..i know how it feels to have to go to a funeral..my grandfather.grandmother.and my own dad are no longer with me and it was a big thing i had to do..but when it comes down to it..its all about pulling them to rest..and being okay with yourself and knowing you did the right thing by going..GO because if u dont youll beat yourself up about not going then itll be too late..so please go do it for her..i hope i helped.i feel very strong about this..*BabyGurl* rate please.
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I`m so sorry!! :[
But I think that you should go to the funeral. It might be depressing, but if you really were close to her, then you might want to show your respect by going. If you decide to go; you can possibly prove your brave enough to handle the loss of someone you loved. It might take a while to get over someone, heck; you might never get over them, but seeing them for one last time, can change anything. Losing someone is a very tough situation, and people will understand if you don`t go, but it`s best if you do.
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if you knew her well enough, definitely.
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I'd go to the funeral. It will be depressing, but you might never really have a sense that she is dead unless you see her.
Plus, it's closure.
I'm sorry to hear about it. It's hard when someone so young dies.
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