about


advice

What's a ONE two-page essay? It's confusing me because it describes the question and then.. it says "The essay must be at least one page in length" I'm confused! is it okay for it to be a page or is it supposed to be a two pages?!

I think your teacher may have meant to have one whole page filled & also have a second page, but no more than two pages long. For instance, a page & a half or whatever.

[view]


Guys always ask me if I masturbate! And its so awkward becuase if I say yes than they'll be like your a whore lets have sex and if i say no then they'll think I'm a slut.
So what are some things I could say to kind of avoid the situation.
Not like "that's none of your business!" but more like, "Always. I picture you naked." (Like sarcasm).
Thanks!!

How is a person a slut if they don't masturbate or say that they don't? I don't get it.

[view]


I never drank before yesterday but my friend had a bottle of gordans london dry gin and i took i big mouthful and swallowed it at once. I felt really sick and was about to throw up. It tasted like wood and my throat was all tensed up. I looked on the back of the bottle and it said 40% vol something. Am I allergic to alcohol or is gordans gin just strong? I did not throw up in the end. 13/m

I think it all depends on the person. Me, personally, I hate vodka. It doesn't go down right with me. When I first started drinking, all I drank was Bacardi vodka. Not pretty. It made me throw up almost half the time. On the other hand I can drink Hennessey, whiskey, tequila like its nothing. Brown liquor does my body good :) Your body may not be able to take vodka. **Also, it may be the fact that Gordon is cheap. Cheap liquor tastes like ass. If you want to try some good vodka, go with Grey Goose. It goes down much much smoother.

[view]


ok mi friend texted me this, and i dont understand it:

Hey for my party is friday night good.

I think your friend is asking you is friday night good.

Hey, for my party, is friday night good?

[view]


Who got eliminated in America's Next Top Model tonight?!

DO TELL AS SOON AS POSSIBLEEEEE!!
I'm so dying to know!

The girl with short red hair.

[view]


14f. If you have stopped growing in height, can your boobs still get larger?
Is a 34B considered big?
I got my period 3 years ago. I went to the doctor this year and I had my hand examined(the bones determine if I still have a chance of growing)..And my bones were fused. The doctor told me it would be RARE if i grew any more and I'm only 4'11. Also, Ive asked more than one doctor. So, can my boobs still get larger?

I'm 5'8ish & I wear 34B's. Some people say I have big boobs even without a bra but I think they're a good size for me although I don't consider them big. It all depends on your body type & if you're proportionate. You will probably keep growing so if you're looking for bigger, don't worry about it. Big boobs aren't that great anyway. My sister is 5'7 & has double D's & they look ughhh. I'm happy with B's. & since you're shorter, it will look bigger for you.

[view]


Ok I need to know if I'm overreacting when it comes to something that happened today.
This is the story.

Last week I left for a convention[for a week[ thats about 12 hours from where I currently live. I have a boyfriend of a year and a half and he couldn't come with me. Everytime I called him he was at this girl dianna's house. They have been friends for about a year now. But when I'm there he never goes to her house and not to mention it was prom weekend. Then today I came back from the convention intenting to get a warm welcome. I called him on the phone and the only thing he could say was that he was sooo tired. So finally he got off the phone and said he was going to bed. So about an hour later I had to go to wal-mart to pick up my brother but before I went I cruised by my boyfriends house because I wanted to give him a hug before he was too asleep but his car wasn't at his house..but guess who I saw at wal-mart when I got there?Him and Dianna, he sure was happy. He didn't even notice that I was there..he was so focused on her. And so now I don't know if I'm overreacting or if something might be going on or what. Please help me.

Um no, you're not overreacting! He lied to you! You should have confronted him right when you saw him & his friend together at walmart. But since its too late for that, you need to pick up the phone & call him & let him know that you saw him. You need to ask him why when you had called him, he acted as if he was soo tired that he couldn't even speak to his GIRL FRIEND but he could go to walmart with another girl. I want to give him the benefit of the doubt but sorry, I can't & I won't. I do believe that there's something going on between him & this friend. & if he's not, he's fuckin you over for another girl. Call him up & set him straight. ASAP.

[view]


I would like to put hot pink streaks in my hair. Not streaks as in highlights, but at the bottoms, kinda like Avril Lavigne's new look.
But I don't have blonde hair. What brand of temporary hair color works best on dark hair? What product should I get?
Is there a product that isn't completely temporary, but comes out after a while? Not right away?
help

I don't know if this is what you want to do but if you want pink tips, you're going to have to bleach your tips first. Then you can apply pink dye. You would have to bleach it first because if your hair is dark & you put pink on top of it, it won't show. I don't know the exact brand but I used to get the dye from hot topic. Its not expensive either. Just go into the store & tell them want you want & they'll show it to you.

[view]


I've been dating this guy for a month, and he's been really sweet - like he's just everything I'm looking for in a guy. Unfortunately, he's ALWAYS so busy with his fraternity, with college, & his job, that he never usually has time to see me. So, I only see him a like one/two days a week, and it's not that much because we live really close to each other. I've always been suspicious that he could have another girlfriend, and I've joked around, not thinking it could actually be the truth.

So, tonight we were on a date, and he was dropping me off at my house, and he was showing me a couple pictures of his cat on his phone and then all of a sudden he gets a call from someone called "Babe" with an area code of Austin, [we live in San Antonio.]

As soon as I saw it, I was like, OH BABE!? And he's like, "WHAT?" And I'm like, Ohh so you do have another girlfriend, and he's like, "ooh fuck this, you need to trust me."

Then finally when I got him to calm down he's like, "It's a guy, named Babe -- he's my friend."
& I'm like, oohhkay. I didn't believe it & I still don't. I called my best friend and she said he's probably playing me. Which makes me sorta sad.

Does it sound as if he's cheating, and if you think he is, how can I find out who this "BABE" person is?

Thank you. :]

Okay, so when me & my boyfriend first started talking to each other, I looked through is phone. I forget why but as I was scrolling through the phone book, I saw "baby." My body started to get hot & mad I was but I didn't say anything because we weren't really even together. After that I kept my eye on him but one night his friends were coming over to drink & watch boxing with us & come to find out, one of his friends is called baby. And that's no bullshit because were years into our relationship & everyone still calls him baby.

Point is, yeah, it sounds like bullshit but he may be telling the truth. If I would have cursed him out about "baby" in his phone book & he told me it was his bul, I wouldn't have believed him one bit.

I think the only way for you to really find out is to ask around. Or tell him to call "babe" in your face right that second on speaker phone & say that if he is telling the truth than he'd do it. Matter of fact you take the phone & you press call so that he doesn't try any tricks. & if he brings up trust, just say "well I'm sorry, you can be telling me the truth but if you were in my shoes I bet you'd feel the exact same way." Try it out. If he doesn't let you call, he's playin you.

[view]


My only strengths in school are English and History. So for college, which is two years away, I suppose I'd go with an English major. My worry though, is what exactly can I do with that. I don't want to be constrained to just writing articles all the time.


What else can be done with an English major?

I may not be answering your question but I'm a sophmore in college right now & during freshman year I went in wanting to major in english because that's what I'm good at. But then I asked myself the same question, what can I do as an english major. Well, I can write or be an english teacher if I double majored in english education. But I felt like I can't do much with it. So this year I figured I could major in communication because I can do almost anything with that. As a communication major you'd have to take a lot of english classes as well, so its almost like they go hand in hand & you can do a lot more with it. So maybe you should consider communication as a major or double major comm & english. Plus, if it doesn't work out when you start a job you can try something else because communication is so broad. But don't think too much of it yet because by the time you get to college you may want to do something totally different. In highschool I was so sure that I was going to graduate with as an english major. Now here I am, leaning towards communication & even thinking of going into business. So don't rush anything yet & wait til you get into college to see what you really want to do. Hope I helped a little. Good luck.

[view]


What can I draw for a title page that has the theme, "follow your dreams"?

It must have a cobra in it somewhere, have the colours navy blue and gold, kind of dreamy, has a little bit of a school theme to it too.

thanks!

You can draw the night sky, perhaps the moon or a crescent moon and draw out a constellation that looks like a cobra. The sky can be navy blue, the moon like a grayish white color and the constellation of the cobra in gold.

[view]


Ok how would I wear my trench coat on of I'm wearing a sweater with a hood? Do I stick the hood out? Leave the hood on underneath the trench coat?

You definitely should wear it with the hood out. Its so cute worn that way. And I don't know anyone who wears their hood inside of any jacket... I don't know, but where I'm from wearing it out is like a trend. Especially with a trench coat, that's cuteee!

[view]


My friend Gary has a friend with a couple of sidekicks. He's basically rich, so he can buy as many as he wants.

Anyways, my friend is asking his friend for two. One for him, one for me. In return, I'm giving my friend Gary my current phone [I have the RAZR].

I'm on Cingular, and TMOBILE & Cingular are the only two phone companies who use SIM Chips. I'm just wondeing..Can I put my SIM Chip from my phone into the sidekick & will it work?

It wouldn't work unless the sidekick is unlocked. Also, if you got the sidekick you would need to have the tmobile sidekick plan to use instant messaging, free texting and the internet. There's no point in getting the SK unless you have a tmobile plan.

[view]


I dated my exboyfriend for over a year and last week he broke up with me...I was very upset becuase I love him. I begged him to take me back...and he wouldn't he told me that I stressed him out so much.

Then we started talking and the way he was acting it seemed like he wanted to get back together. So i asked him about it and he said he didnt. I said I wanted to come over to his house and he didnt seem intrested

Then last night he called me and was telling me all about his day and was like "Do you still want to come over tommorrow" so I was like sure.

I went over and it was awkward, we were watching a movie and i guess you could say we started playing footsies then he started tickling me, so i was tickling him back and then he just kissed me.

Then he was like "I really don't want to be in a realationship" and I was trying to find out if he would want to ever be with me again and I was like I'll change we can start over,everything would be different now. But he wouldnt. He then said "Maybe it wasnt a good idea for you to come over"

Then we started kissing again and He was like "I'm not sure this is a good idea, that we do this" but we did anyway, and we both performed oral sex on eachother and then I had to leave for work... So I left.

So I asked him if he was okay with what he did and he was like "are you okay" But I don't know....

I feel like he is sending me mixed signals, and that he isnt sure of what he wants, but I think if we continue to fool around it is just going to make everything worse. I'm not ready to move on to someone else, but I...oh idk...advice please?

I don't mean to be harsh but I truly believe that he is only keeping you around for the pleasure. I think what's best for you is to leave him alone. I know you love him and it'll be very hard but you need to try your hardest not to give in. Respect yourself sweetie and don't give in and let him take advantage of you. He may say this isn't a good idea and stuff like that but he's still going through it. He knows what he's doing and you need to see that. Like I said, I know you love him but love yourself, and don't let him use you. Be strong.

[view]


Okay so I got highlights yesterday. They look awesome! The only problem is that there are some spots where the highlights are so blonde it almost looks white!! I don't want to go to school with highlights that are practically white in my brown hair so they stand out! Is there ANYTHING I can do to make it fade FAST?!

Yeah actually you can get it toned. Go back to where you got your high lights done and ask your stylist to put a toner on top of the spots that are too light to even it out. They shouldn't charge you for it.

[view]


Hey. My 15th birthday's coming up and I want to ask my friends for some fun gamecube games that are no more than $20.00 or something I can ask my family for from gamecube which could be more expensive. Anyways, I'm really into games that are like reality games like Animal Crossing (I know I'm such a little kid =)) or Harvest Moon or the Sims but I have all those. If anyone can come up with a game like that, that would be really fun I will praise you lol. Or if you can't think of a reality game, a game for gamecube that is just Really fun and you think is Really amusing. Thanks so much in advance! =)

all resident evil games. im sure theyre under twenty dollars. i bought two used resident evil games each for ten dollars. it doesnt matter if theyre new or used, it still works the same so if youre trying to save money, go for the used games.

[view]


Does anybody know where i can get a Louis Vuitton Pochette Pink Cherry Blossom Handbag?? Ive tried Ebay,and Amazon but they dont help they want like 500 for them :-O Im thinking of a price under 100! I really want one for christmas or the week for christmas! If any of you could find one thats cheap and REAL you will be my hero and life savor :-) THANKYOU

you wont ever find a real LV bag for under a hundred dollars sweetie. sorry.

[view]


okay. theres this girl hali who lives next door to me. so yeah we get off at the same bus stop. well she doesnt like me very much & i dont like her very much either. well anyway we always have to walk with each other for about 30 seconds. its always totally awkward because i can never think of anything to say. it gets even more awkward when i try & think of something to say & then when i say it she looks at me like im a retard. what can i talk to her about so it wont be so awkward? & dont say anything retarted.

you can say something like, "you know, we take the same bus and live right next door to each other like everyday but we never ever speak. how weird is that?" or something like that.

[view]


Ok so a lot of people tell me i am too thin. I've done those online calculators and they say i am, but you can't really trust those things because they don't take in to consideration a lot of important factors, you know. So, I thought if people could look at my pic site and give me their honest opinion? Thanks. http://www.picturetrail.com/photos/blondina75

+ there are more pics on here now. might give a better idea since some people either couldn't tell what body parts were, or thought i was sucking in...

isnt it obvious if people thought you were sucking in that you are too thin? im sorry, but that is nasty. and people look at me and think my ass is anorexic when compared to you im probably fat as hell. you should really try to eat. looking that way isnt pretty, it isnt cute, its not sexy. AT ALL. eat damn it.

[view]


are uggs still in style and if they are do you wear them with your pants tucked into them or kept out?

personally, i think uggs are out. it was in last year and it was like everyone had them. people still wear them now but i guess thats okay too. i never owned a pair because everyone else had them and i think theyre pretty.. ugly. but theyre really comfortable.. so i can see why people like to wear them. but i think if you were to wear uggs now, get them in different colors, like pink and purple and such because theyre more in than the tans and stuff.

and wear them your pants tucked in. theyre meant to be worn that way

[view]



<<< Previous Advice Column
Next Advice Column >>>

eXTReMe Tracker