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bus ride home.


Question Posted Tuesday December 12 2006, 7:58 pm

okay. theres this girl hali who lives next door to me. so yeah we get off at the same bus stop. well she doesnt like me very much & i dont like her very much either. well anyway we always have to walk with each other for about 30 seconds. its always totally awkward because i can never think of anything to say. it gets even more awkward when i try & think of something to say & then when i say it she looks at me like im a retard. what can i talk to her about so it wont be so awkward? & dont say anything retarted.

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Sydnie_I_can_Try answered Wednesday December 13 2006, 7:23 pm:
I dunno if you could pull this off or not but be sarcastic, and say something about "what a long walk this is." Yeha she may look at you like your retarded. Then back that up with another funny something... Bein outgoing and fun is always an icebreaker

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CraziAb0utY0ux3 answered Tuesday December 12 2006, 9:05 pm:
okay, so you guys dont really get along which happens alot to girls and guys. to make it less akward you can maybe say something simple such as "how was your day, or man i have a ton of homework today!" just make it simple and be relaxed so she doesnt think your trying to start a conversation deliberatly verses just talking. you never know. maybe she will open up to you as well. dont be afraid to talk. its always better then walking in silence. good luck=]

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soljette answered Tuesday December 12 2006, 9:03 pm:
you can say something like, "you know, we take the same bus and live right next door to each other like everyday but we never ever speak. how weird is that?" or something like that.

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christianaabanazaaaa answered Tuesday December 12 2006, 8:42 pm:
dear bus ride,

i know how weird it is to walk next to someone and be totally silent. but i can help. when you get off the bus,just say something casual as if you were talking to yourself like "man school was boring" or "im really tired"
that's a good way to start a cnversation because then she could agree with you and say "i know im bored too" or "im tired too" once youve broken the ice, ask stuff like "do you know..." or "is your teacher..." that way you can find something in common to talk about. just be yourself and be nice. much love,
christianaabanazaaaa

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