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I don't feel safe...
I don't feel safe at my school.
Like, yesterday, I left my binder in a class in a basket under the seat. I come back today and it is totally ALL written on, every single page [which is like 100 pages]. It says "Dum ho", "slut", "sell out", "I HATE YOU B@#!@! :D" all this unprintable stuff.
and, today in 5th period, i get a pass to go to the bathroom and when I walk outside, the guys that love to torment me start making fun of me.
HIM:"HEY IT'S UGLY GIRL!!! GODDMMT! Why are you so ugly!!?!?"
ME:"I'm not ugly. JUST LEAVE ME ALONE!!!"
HIM: *he gets 4 inches close to my face* "Why should we?"
ME: "Well, if you think I'm so ugly, why don't you just leave so you don't have to look at me?"
and the night before, i bit my lip really hard and it swelled up on the bottom lip.
HIM: "HEY WHATS ON YOUR LIP?"
ME: "Its-"
HIM: "-EWWW IS THAT HERPES!!?!? OH MY GOD IT'S HERPES!!!"
now they wait for me at the doors they know i'm going through so they can torment me.
i don't feel safe.
i don't want to go to the bathroom or go outside of class, or even switch classes!
i'm constantly looking out for people that hate me.
what do i do? :\
please help soon.
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well than bitch let them beat yo ass you better take somebody's advice quick if you think i give bad advice ok
you better tell somebody before it gets worst
no affense but im just telling you like it is ok
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Please talk to someone; a guidance counselor, teacher, parent, or even your principal.
Those boys can get in a lot of trouble for this, with the police. They're harassing you.
Don't listen to them. What theyre saying probably isnt even true. Don't let them know it bothers you either, theyre only doing it to make you upset or angry.
I would suggest talking to someone in your school about this. Tell them that you don't feel safe at school anymore because of these boys that are harassing you. Tell them the names of the boys and show them the binder that they wrote on.
Don't let them see you down and feel better!
Good luck,
<3
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It might be hard to ignore them but if you do they will get really bored and then leave you alone. They know it bothers you so dont let them think it bothers you. trust me it'll work hope I helped
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First off, I want to tell you to not listen to them. They are a whole bunch of ass wipes and deserve the same treatment, but dont give it to them. Be the better person that you are. And remember to love youself because you are beautiful. I'm sure of it. Consult a teacher or guidance councelor. Maybe try to get your parents to allow you to switch schools. Just ignore those kids and hopefully they will leave you alone. Please tell me what happens and ask me more quesions if you need to!
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wow, they can get in soo much trouble for that. you should turn them in if it gets worse. but as for now, mock them. when they say stuff like "you're ugly!" just be like "i know right?" and smile and then laugh a little. they wont get much of a kick out of it if you don't react the way you used to. when they say "why are you so ugly?" just be like "who knows..ask my parents!" then, once again, smile and laugh a little. they'll get tired of it, and you not reacting in a way that shows "fear". that's what's making them do it, is cause they know it makes you uncomfurtable, and scared. so please please PLEASE tell somebody, or mock them in the way i told you to. i'm 95% sure you'll see a differnce in the way they act towards you. good luck hun.
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:o Sounds like its torment for you at school eh? and thats not fair, schools should make you feel safe, and comfortable.
so i thought about your question, and it sounds like the guys wont leave you alone. Wheather you try and stand up for yourself or not.
so you should definately tell a teacher ASAP.
You should also find yourself a friend to walk with you to your next class. The more friends the better, bullies never like teasing the one person in front of a big group.
Good luck, Nikki xox
PS- If the teachers are no use, you should ask the principal for some help.
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that is not fair at all! =[ people shouldnt gang up on you like that and even if they dislike you, they shouldnt do what theyre doing..if you REALLY feel unsafe @ ur school, tell an adult..tell em wuss goin on and how you feel..NO ONE should feel like that @ school where you spend most of your day..if you dont wanna tell an adult..try sayin str8 up..why do u hate me so much, what have i ever done to you..or have some friends back you up and see what comes out of it..juss remember **violence solves NOTHING** i really hope your problem is fixxed soon..best wishes
sincerely,
chikita
((p.s.- i kant guarantee results, but its worth a try right?))
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This one is tough sweetie. Guys your age can be abusive because they may have an inferiority complex themselves. I'm a 27 year old male, so I've been through it. If you respond to them, they'll just keep coming at you with more immature insults. The best thing for you to do is ignore them altogether and eventually they'll get bored because they're not being challenged. When you go outside of class, take a friend if possible and just focus on a conversation with them. Hope this helps. Good luck!
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Find someone to walk to class with you, and if you have to, tell your teacher about him. He probably likes you and is too immature to tell you and finds other ways to get your attention, guys can be retarded like that. As for the stuff written in your binder, Im sure it wasnt targeted at you, anyone's binder would have been written all over.
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