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Q: I heard that if I went to the official website for Camp Rock that I could get photos from the Disney's Camp Rock movie and make my own Camp Rock t-shirt with a free iron-on. I guess I'm having a hard time finding this specific Camp Rock website though so I was wondering if someone could please direct me to the appropriate place for the Camp Rock information?

Camp Rock is starring The Jonas Brothers (Kevin Jonas, Joe Jonas, and Nick Jonas...but Joe Jonas is the main star) and Demi Lovato and is a Disney Channel Original on the Disney Channel, of course. I'm not sure when the movie originally aired but I do know that you can purchase the Camp Rock dvd now at stores. I know it's a big Disney movie because of the Jonas Brothers, and Joe Jonas was just great playing as Shane Gray.

I am just having a hard time finding the OFFICIAL Camp Rock website to get the iron-on and photos from. Could someone please direct me so I can get photos of the Jonas Brothers in Camp Rock and make my own Camp Rock t-shirt?

THANKS!

omj! i love that movie. haha.
http://tv.disney.go.com/disneychannel/originalmovies/camprock/index.html

theres the tee shirt thing

Q: ok well, I am 13 and I just finished the 7th grade I am a young man
I had a friend and we would talk every day and it was the last day of school and i huged her. when i huged her i picked her up because i would miss her. so now it has been about 2 weeks and she told me not to text her or call her but i realy want to be the way we were be for she told me that "good luck not talking to me all summer and 8th grade"
I realy dont know what to do or how to move on if that is the case this freind of mine was the only one who belived in me and thought of me more than "the kid"

Well I'm a bit confused. Why doesn't she want you to text or call her? I'll work with the info you've given me. I say either you call her and tell her how you feel or you meet new people. She is not the only person who believes in you. And you can meet better people, friends who believe in you and think you are awesome and want to hang out and talk to you. Which ever you do, you'll be fine in the end. If I didnt answer your question, ask me another one, explaining more details.

Q: Hey. I have a 5 year old female Jack Russell Terrier. She has been vomiting and having diarea all day. She has vomited at least 5 or 6 times. There may be blood in some of it. My parents feed her a lot of table scraps. What should I do? What is wrong with her?

I think you should call your vet. If they're not open, then look up a 24 hr emergency vets office to ask what you should do. I personally do not really know about this. But if theres blood its not good. I hope she is okay

Q: i am wondering why I gained so much weight when i started having sex,,sooo bad i gained about almost 30 pounds in just 2 years and sucks,,i tried to diet an exercise but not working any other suggestions?

thanks

I don't think that sex has any relation to weight unless the girl becomes pregnant. That does not seem like the case considering that you said in 2 years.

Depending on your weight, thirty pounds on you may help your health. If not (if you are at a bmi that is too high- http://www.nhlbisupport.com/bmi/) you can try to loose the weight again.

Your diet and exercise may have not been enough. Or you might have not been doing enough cardio which would cause you to gain muscle, which is heavier than fat.

Try to eat no to little junk food (little is like a few chips or a couple hershey kisses or one cookie). Only eat when you are hungry. When you are hungry try to eat fruits and veggies or a little cheese. Try not to eat too many carbs (two handfuls of cereal in the morning, one piece of bread, ect.)

For exercise, jog or ride your bike 6 days a week. You can walk, but after a week start jogging a half a mile and then after another week or two jog a mile and then increase the distance again. The cardio is very important to loose weight. Other things you could try is to swim, go on work out machines that don't have weight, dance, kickboxing, playing sports like soccer ect.) If you want to tone your muscles, try lifting weights of do exercises to specifically tone (crunches, push ups, squats, and much more you could find on the internet.)

Most important to remember is don't stress about your body and have fun.

Q: For christmas, I'm making my parents a DVD with pictures from the day they were married to now. This has taken me about a total of 7 hours so far and i'm only halfway done.
Do you think i should get them something additional on top of this?

Aw thats such a cute idea! I don't think its necessary for you to get them something else too, but if you really want to and have the money and time for it, then go ahead

Q: When i was 9 until i was 11 i was molested by my brother, who was in high school at the time. I come from an upper class family with overly protective parents so it is one of those things nobody ever thought could have happened to me.

the molestation went so far some would call it rape, i'm not sure. He would make me do things to him, and him to me, and if i said no he would make me feel ashamed for "not liking it" he made me feel discusting for it also, and would threaten me if i told. i sometimes would cry when he did this, and he made me have "sex talks" with him. finally one day i told him i didnt want to do this again, i was so scared i was bawling and shaking. he stopped because he thought i was going to tell, but he had ways of keeping me quiet.

now i'm 16, almost 17, and this experience haunts me. I have issues with my boyfriend, have horrible horrible nightmares, i've acted out been suicidal... that's just the surface of the problem really.

Everybody says, "tell somebody" but nobody understands. Because of this i've spent alot of my life acting out and looking for attention, my brother is a nice funny guy who everybody loves. Not alot of people have seen his darker side. Nobody would believe me, and i say that with 100% certainty. My family would turn on me and it would make life even more miserable.
he's so good at pretending it never happened, sometimes i wonder if he has any remorse at all.

My brother is now almost graduated from college and is not home very often, which is good for me. I am not really afraid of him anymore, I am, but I talk to him sometimes and do normal brother-sister stuff. i do not think he has done this to anybody else, and i've kept a close eye on it.

He's moved on with his life, but I am deteriorating. I can't explain everythign that has happened through this, but i've tried everything to help me through this and nothing works. I need somebody to talk to about this, someody who I can e-mail (rather IM) and help me. I cannot seek professional help because I am underage and don't have much money. I need somebody to talk to because I am tired of being sick like this. So please respond if you would be willing to help me

and please, no twelve year old girls or people who only want to talk once or twice. I really appreciate that you care, but you really can't help me. nd I understand if you do not have the time or experience to understand what I am talking about and decide not to respond. I just need to heal from this

comewhatmayx8

I haven't been though anything like that but I would like to talk to you to make you feel better.

Q: I just watched a music video on youtube and it was about this couple, and the guy cheated on the girl. Can anyone tell me where I can watch all the One Tree Hill episods. It looks like a good show. And when is it on tv? (what channel & time) thanks! =D

Its on the CW for new episodes (new season hasnt started yet). But if you have Soap net then its on then every weekday at 1pm and 5pm. They are old episodes. and i believe they just started the first season last week

Q: hey i am 15 and a girl
i have a problem i kinda like this one guy who i don't know really well but we are friends. And we are both on the same sports team and we both like the same movies and hes really cute
my friend is friends with him and she said that i sould go for it but when ever i talk to him he always has a 1 word anwser 4 it

but the other guy is so sweet and we both are on the same sports team(again)(lol) and he perfect a little immature but perfect and ive known him 4ever the only problem is that we already went out and i was the one who broke up w/ him. My reasons were extreamly stupid and i like him again but im not sure he likes me we are hugging and its really nice. so im not sure what to do

who should i choose?

Well.. I would personally go out with the first guy, just because you never have so it will probably be more interesting. And you went out with the other one and broke up with him, so thats not a good thing (whether it was for a stupid reason or not.) But this is not up to me. Its up to you, and you know that. Only you can choose. Just follow your heart.

Q: Okay so my state (TN) has decided to mandate that every student K-12 get 90 minutes of excersize a week. Well they are using our homeroom time at my school to do just that. I think it is incredibly stupid because its not the school's responsibility to tell us what to do as far as excersizing goes. It is so damn retarded I can hardly stand it. I HATE coming to school now. OMG as if it wasnt bad enough LETS THROW IN SOME EXCERSIZE!!! Plus my homeroom teacher is strict with the rules, so if we dont do these excersizes every morning, she will write us up. I dont feel like I can talk to her because she wont understand. And I cant sit there and object while everyone else is doing it because that will draw negative attention to me. I get enough attention as it is for being fat. And thats not the reason I dont want to do the excersizes. It's just that 15 minutes is a long time for someone who is as heavy as I am and its embarassing to have my fat jiggle around for the whole freaking class to watch and laugh at. I would much prefer to excersize in PRIVACY where I dont have to worry about what I look like. High school is bad enough as it is. I think this is pure torture and I really want to refuse to do it. But I dont want to bring negative attention to myself. WHAT SHOULD I DO???? and what is your opinion on our new state law??

Well I think its a good idea because most kids need to get healthy... but if it happened to me I probably would hate the idea. Haha. I would hate it if it was in the begining of the day. But at least you know the school cares about your well being.

Please don't call yourself fat. Fat is such an ugly word and I'm sure you are a beautiful person in some way. I'd love to tell you that nobody would be looking at your "fat jiggle" but I'm sure they will be looking at everyone in the room to compare them to themselves. Every one has some fat on them and it all jiggles so it doesnt really matter. When you are doing your exersizes think about how you might lose a little weight from it (even though you dont need it) and it might make you feel happier

Q: okay im 5'8 and i weigh 150 pounds. i want to lose at least 10 pounds this summer. would it be healthy to lose 10 pounds in 2 months? to have a good body, what should be weight be? please dont tell me 150 is fine because its not for me and i need to lose weight...so yeah. so is 10 pounds a good goal for 2 months?

150 is great for your height so don't stress yourself too much if you don't loose this weight. I think 10 lbs is good for 2 months. Loose a little more than 1 lb per week and you should be good.

Q: I don't get it. I'm a smart guy but I can't get over her. Its been almost a year, and I can only think about her- the girl that I was going to marry. She's gone now- and I'm miserable. I'm exhausted, on the verge of tears, and all I want to do is "leave las vegas".

What can I do to help with this pain?

I'm really sorry about what happened but you need to get over this girl. Its hard, its got to be considering the situation but you are obviously hurting too much for your own good. I say that you get together with one good friend and relax at your house. Get some junkfood and your favorite movies. Talk about it with him or her. Cry if you have to. That will hopefully be your last night grieving. Then the next night go out and try to have fun. Maybe try to meet another girl, if your ready. Try to go out a lot until you are completely over it.

Another thing. If you believe in soulmates then obviously she wasnt your soul mate. You just need to find her.

Q: hi well im 14 and my voice still hasnt gotten deeper and its kinda annoying cause everyone is starting to think i might be gay

and im deff not,.,haha

some questions i have are ......could somehting be wrong?/

can it get deeper later for some people

is this bad///

and just any general info

THANKS

It will probably change before your 16. Don't worry. Its not your fault that your voice is deep so who cares about the people who think your gay. Just dont worry about it.

Q: okay, there's this boy that i can't decide if i like or not. Half the time, he's the sweetest guy i've ever met. the other half, he's a horrible jerk. he'll be a total jerk to me (although he says he's just kidding, it's still very cruel), then when i get mad at him, he'll be super sweet. Whenever he calls or texts me, i can't help but smile, because it's always something funny or sweet. But in some ways, i can't stand him. He's really shallow sometimes. he's had girlfriends, broken up with them, and had another a day later. i don't want to be one of those girls. but what if he asks me out? i think he might like me. Should i give him a chance?

Give him a chance. But warn him about how you don't want to be a girl that he breaks up quickly and dates another the next day. Ask him if he would do that to you. If he says yes or seems hesitant then tell him you can't date him then. Or you could do what you want and listen to your gut feeling.

Q: My cousin asked me to play on his team in softball this year for the 4th of July (traditional event). I said yes. Then my cousin told me that my crush was going to be on the same team. I thought this might be a really good chance to talk to him. Do you have any pointers? Ice breakers? Anything that can mean us talking like friends?

Just talk to him about whats happening in the game. And then on break ask him about school or sports or whatever and the conversation should flow after that.

Q: hi =D
well i am 12 years old & i really want a
six pack . i have one, when i flex really
hard, but i want it to be visible.
so if i do around 100 crunches a day,
will i get a better sixpack and in how long?
thanks

I'm not a doctor so I really have no clue. But I think that that won't work well. You will probably get a stronger six pack, but it won't become more visible. You need to burn the fat around your stomache by running or biking or something. You need to do more than crunches.

http://exercise.about.com/od/abs/ss/abexercises.htm

http://www.bestabs.com/Resources/Exercises/Default.aspx

Try those. And when you do them and crunches. After every week increase the amount that you do. Like say the first week you do like 100 crunches, the second week do 150, the third week do 200, ect. I dont know how long it will take, but my guess is like a month or longer

Q: 13/f

okay i need help!
i got my period a while ago.
and i usually just use a pad.
but now thats its summer &
i wanna swim, i wanna start using
a tampon, but whenever i try to put
it in "the hole" lol --- it doesnt go
in. like thers a piece of skin covering
it to go in and i have no idea what
the hell is wrong!! sorry if this is
like too embarrassing to answer!!
but is that how everyone's vagina is?
cuz the tampon doesnt go in and there is
no fricken "hole"

HELP!

Well first of all, if you are truley in fact a girl, then there is a hole. Haha. And you are because you are menstrating out of it. Did you try to use the intructions that came with the tampon? If you did and you still cant then spread your legs and put it where you think the whole will be and push. It should go in. Look at the diagrams with the directions and try. It doesnt go in that easily so don't be incredibly gentle. If you have any more questions, just ask me

Q: I'm graduating on the 25th. i have no idea what to do with my hair. I'm asian so i have super straight hair down to my back. It's highlighted and layered and i have no bangs. My face is round and i have dark brown eyes. Any ideas? Thanks!

I suggest you either wear it straight with a quarter pony tail (like a half pony tail but with less hair in it) or you could try to curl it with a curling iron. Use a good brand of hair spray

Q: so my stomach's been getting bigger and bigger. not rapidly, but it's getting bigger. why is it that it's getting bigger? like, all the other parts of my body aren't big or anything. just my stomach. what can i do to stop making it bigger and how can i keep it from doing so?

thanks.

Either your gaining weight or your pregnant. If its gaining weight, then stop eating sweets and start exercising. Do crunches

Q: My friends ALL tell me I'm emo.
I don't dress any particular way, I wear random stuff, and nobody else I know would DARE dress like me.
I am really down a lot, and I have contemplated suicide more than once[and planned it].
I really hate people saying I'm emo, because I don't mean to. How can I stop??
Unfortunately, the other side of me is that I'm "really smart" but I'm also a complete ditz. I never get whats going on around me, because I'm so caught up in what I'm thinking.
Yet, I also have weird sensory crap going on. I am really really sensitive, and I can tell right away if something's wrong with those I'm close to, even if they're not there. I get feelings telling me to call them.
Someone HELP. I am so sick of feeling alone.
Suicide is on the table again, but I'm trying not to. PLEASE HELP!

A) Who cares what other people think? Labels are stupid.
B) Please do not commit suicide. Its a horrible way to handle things. You obviously have friends, so think about how sad they will be.

Q: I love to masturbate with my cousins and friends is that bad?

Yes. And no offence but ew. Your cousins? Ew.

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