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Is there any way to tell by a hug if a guy likes you in a romantic way? I've had many different types of hugs, but most hugs are from family and friends, that's the type of hug where it's friendly, but does not in any way feel sexual.
I'm asking because a guy that I'm just friends with, after giving me my birthday gift, hugged me, but when he hugged me he held on for a couple seconds longer than most hugs last, and then he started to to stroke my back really slowly with his hand. There was no one else around, and normally he's shy around me with other people.
Do you think this was his way of letting me know he likes me as more than a friend? (link)
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from what you say im ganna go with that he does like you. so if you like him eather show it or tell him. and if you want to know for sure if he likes you talk to him for a bit.
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right so my freind peirced her ear with a third hole by herself using a needle yesterday. it looks fine today. i want a belly button peircin, but my mom will never let me. should i ask my freind to do it for me? what are some safety measures i should take? (link)
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my advice you should never do your own percining exspecilly the belly button. the belly button is the most unclean place nd if you get it infected they may have to remove that part of the skin. ask your mom if your allowed or try to make a deal with her. if not wait till u move out.
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What are some good ways to let me boyfriend down gently? I'm not into him as much as I used to be and we're just not working out. He never calls me and he never really talks to me. We've been one of those couples that looks so cute from the outside but there's nothing on the inside. I just need a way to break up with him without the old "we're better off as friends" excuse or something cheesy like that. He's a nice guy and he's really cool but he's not the dude for me. Thanks :) (link)
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well the best thing i can do is say tell him right out dont butter it up it only hurts more. it sounds like he is feeling the same way as u
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Ok i like a girl and we always talk and ive known her for a long time more then 4 years and i just asked her who did she like and then she told me who do YOU like? i sayed you tell me first and i just didint answer it i just kept trying her to say first then i asked her why dont you tell me and she sayed something about she didint want to ruin her freindship with this guy and i really think she was talkin about me and i wanted to tell her somethin so badlybut im shy and now a couple of months past and she has not been acing the same with me shes acting more away from me different and i want to tell her something now ask her out or ask her to me my girlfreinds anything to let her know i still like her alot so can any one help me AS SOON AS possible with as much information and details on what i can do thanks i am a guy 14 and she is a 14 also (link)
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look to me it sounds like she likes you but she values the relation ship you have now or then but just tell her the you like her as more then a friend. tell her and then let her know that you friend ship with her means everything to you and if it doesnt work out then she will always be your friend
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its this guy that i used to like and we use to flirt ALL of the time. and i think he liked me to. but i started sending him mixed signals(not on purpose). but i just kind of stopped flirting with him. so then he stopped flirting with me. and now we barely even talk. i dont know why but i just feel kind of akward around him. i used to be so comfortable around him. i want us to have that chemistry that we once had. i think he wants the same because when i flirt with other guys he'll look at me with this uncomfortable expression like he wishes the guy was him. but he flirts with other girls to. but i dont know what to do and where to start to get our old friendship back. i dont want to have a talk with him. i want to show him that i want it to be the way it used to be.
additional info: i dont think we are growing apart from each other because this is over a couple of months time period. (link)
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ok heres what i think if you like this guy then show him by getting more involved with him just build it up untill you get back what you lost
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is it true that deoderant can give you breast cancer? especially if you put it on after you shave?
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no that is just a silly romur so dont worry about it
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Mmk.. well theres this boy. that i really like alot last year but he doesnt kno that.. well i dont think. but anyways. ever since the middle of novemeber hes been acting really flirty with me. and he always touchin me and talking to me and hugging me in the hallways and he hold onto me in the hallways when we are walking sometimes.. and hes told my cousin and my friend that he thinks im hott. but well hes a senior and im a sophmore for 1. theres soo many other grls in ma school. and like.. i dunno. Do u think he could possibly like me?? i mean. we talk constantly in class. and he has my number and he texts me sumtimes.. so.. idunno. i need help! ill rate 5 for any advice at all!
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Yes, i do believe there is a chance that this senior may like you, and age shouldnt really matter when it comes to wether or not you have feelings. Try telling him how you feel.
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ALright. A fiew months ago I was sent into a mental hospital to get help for my depression. Now every time I get angry I am threatend by people saying I will go back. It really scares me because the hospital was so bad I am terified to go back. My parents are also threatening to send me into a hospital for an eating dissorder.. what should i do? (link)
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ok if you afraid of going back tell your parents and tell other people who pick on you that they should goign there and if you have an eating disorder you should get help but if you dont try talking to you parents calmly about how you feel about being put away
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ok well i have a best friend and i lov eher so mucha dn weve been best friends from like the first time we met and were always together and everyone is always like 'ur like the olsen twins,always together, always the same, never fighting' and we love that were totally different, shes blond long hair with fair skin and angelic girlie dress sense and im brown hair rock chick.
anyway this new girl has come and totally taken her away! what do i do ignore or say something
thanx
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ok i kinda know how you feel sence me and my best friend now go to different high schools and she never stops talking about her other friends. heres the deal you and her are best friends and that will never change if your up set let her know in a kind unjelus sounding way.
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I know that when in a relationship 'Trust' is the key element. Well, I trust my boyfriend with everything I am, but that's not the problem. I know that he thinks other girls are pretty and that he looks at other girls like that upsets me. I know, I know. I probably sound really immature, but I know that ever since I've been dating him I don't really look at guys that way anymore because I don't need to look- I have him. I haven't got upset over this, but I can't help but think he's checking girls out while he out with me. Any advice? (link)
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ok here's my advice he is a guy so basicaly from my exspereince (sp) guys like to look. its like window shoping you like to look but you never get it. so the only thing you have to worry about is if he touches. so play by the rule he can look but he can touch.
ok so why dont you just tell him you have a problem with it and if he thinks your a baby or a little kid for getting upset why not show him a taste of his own medicine(sp)
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