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im so confused can you please help me
Ok i like a girl and we always talk and ive known her for a long time more then 4 years and i just asked her who did she like and then she told me who do YOU like? i sayed you tell me first and i just didint answer it i just kept trying her to say first then i asked her why dont you tell me and she sayed something about she didint want to ruin her freindship with this guy and i really think she was talkin about me and i wanted to tell her somethin so badlybut im shy and now a couple of months past and she has not been acing the same with me shes acting more away from me different and i want to tell her something now ask her out or ask her to me my girlfreinds anything to let her know i still like her alot so can any one help me AS SOON AS possible with as much information and details on what i can do thanks i am a guy 14 and she is a 14 also
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If i were you id sit her down and ask her why she has been acting different. Even if your shy and all thats ok because some girls find that attractive. but anyway i advise you to do something about all this, call her or speak to her in person and tell her about that night when she said she didnt want to ruin her friendship with this guy well tell her if she was talking about u then that you really want to be with her and that being together would only make you and her have a strong relationship. Ive had this happen to me before. I really like this guy friend of mine but i wasnt sure if he liked me but one day i asked him and he did and we were just sooo happy together and actually studies show that being friends before starting relationships actually makes it stronger because you already know things about her. so go ahead dude and just go for it. You wont regret it trust me because if you dont go after her then that is what you will regret.
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im 14/f and i reallly like my guy friend and i would probably act different around him if he knew that i liked him too. you should talk to her and decide what to do from there, if you both really like each other then maybe its worth risking your friendship, but if thats more important then jus stay friends, but jus be honest w/ her and maybe youll both feeel more comfortable around each other. good luck!!
<3 Rachel<3
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Well I must say, that is ADORABLE =) I think if you want to go out with her the first step would be DUH! tell her you like her. Its alright if your shy, maybe you can do it over the phone or over the internet.. either one.. or even in person =) Just tell her, get it off your chest, then she'll probably tell you she likes you. Put it this way, if you tell her, she'll tell you, and theres no other way your gonna get it out of her. So the quicker you tell the closer you are to dating her =) good luck hun
emily =)
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look to me it sounds like she likes you but she values the relation ship you have now or then but just tell her the you like her as more then a friend. tell her and then let her know that you friend ship with her means everything to you and if it doesnt work out then she will always be your friend
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I think you are probably right.
She probably wanted you to say you didn't think a romance would kill a friendship.
She is now backing off because you didn't pursue it at the time.
So, by all means go and ask her out. Reassure her that if it doesn't work out you will stay friends. :)
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