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ALright. A fiew months ago I was sent into a mental hospital to get help for my depression. Now every time I get angry I am threatend by people saying I will go back. It really scares me because the hospital was so bad I am terified to go back. My parents are also threatening to send me into a hospital for an eating dissorder.. what should i do?
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Sounds like you have clueless parents. They don't seem to understand that what you are doing is a reaction to how you are treated. From this I would say it is badly. Females in society are generally treated worse than males even by their own families. Your parents should have given you more self esteem than this. Yes, that's where it originally comes from your parents, your original caregivers. Since they won't give it to you you'll have to go get it yourself. Run, don't walk, to your library and type self esteem into the card catalog. Then read, read, read until you feel as good as the person you really are. You don't have to live up to anyone's image of what you should be - even your parents idea of this is not better than your own. And take care of your health. You'll need it in college where they treat females just as badly. Complain, in writing, to administration until you get results. This may also work with your parents. If you cannot tell them you need them to treat you with respect write it down for them. You deserve as much respect as everyone else on this earth. You don't deserve to feel this badly.
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ok if you afraid of going back tell your parents and tell other people who pick on you that they should goign there and if you have an eating disorder you should get help but if you dont try talking to you parents calmly about how you feel about being put away
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okay chickedee
lookie here.....in order for all this nonsince to stop.....you have to get a hold of your self...and give yourself a big confidence boost..........you need to learn that an eating disorder is not gonna help you solve any of your problems.......and your parents threatening you is just there way of showing you that they care........they really dont want you to go back ..........but they care about you and they want their baby doll to have the best......they think that by telling you that they are gaining control and that way you dont overreact........well your parents seem to care about you a lot especially for sending you to a mental hosp......it seems as thoug you dont see that they love you and just want you to be happy.....well im not exactly sure if my advice will help you any.....but if it doesnt i trust that you will make the right decission!! well i know that youll do hte right thing .........ttyl
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