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How can you tell if a guy is interested in you or interested in using you?
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Kayee so i love this site riite here. It gives you all these signs to see if he likes you. If hes just using you he may seem to rush you a little, but in a secretive way to do " things " Or he may not take out time from his day to see you or just do things to you. When a guy is using you, they dont exactly pay attention to you as much. You'll also relle know by what your instincts tell you!
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You trust your gut.
Some guys are very smooth and can keep you tagging along for ages before your catch on to their games. The best thing to do is trust your instincts and ask questions.
Go back over your conversations in your mind and ask yourself "Was he really interested in me, my ideas or feelings? Did he always steer the conversation to something sexual?"
Remember that your feelings are important and should be important to him. If you feel like he is only using you for one thing, tell him so. Don't let him pooh-pooh it away. He should be able to respond to your concerns, not make you feel guilty or blamed for doubting him.
Finally please remember you don't have to wait till you are sure you are being used to end a relationship. Stop worrying for a minute about how he feels and think about your own feelings for him. Is he really worth putting up with this doubt or angst over?
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If a guy is truly interested, he'll respect you and your morals, and genuinely cares, and doesn't go out w/ you just to get some, if you know what I mean. There's a lot more if you want to know, but I could go on forever. Good luck and I hope I helped.
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A guy that isn't just interested in getting into your pants by him asking questions like what are you into? do you play any sports? do you like animals? if so what kind of animals? And a guy that is only interested into getting INTO your pants just talks about sex, sextual comments as in so what would you do if I came over to your house right now. Or a guy that just says... do you wanna* have sex..
Hope I helped
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