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Whats The Legal Age To Have Sex


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Tami (link)
The LEGAL age is 18 but the legal right so you can say yes I want to have sex is age 16. Some states it's totally different but thats rare if its different.


13/f

Ok theres this guy who is my friend, we hang out alot, and i REALLY like him, i mean more than ive ever liked any one in my whole life! Im fairly shure he likes me 2, but he has a g/f, and is happy with her, i mean im really happy for him, but what do i do? (oh and he knows i like him...) i rate 5's! (link)
Well if you really cared for him. I'd leave him be, like still be there and talk to him and be a good friend but don't try anything. If you cared for him as much as you as you do you'd let him be and be happy that he's happy even if it's not necessarily with you. You never know they may not work out and the next target is you. Honestly if a boy and a girl are best friends until forever they are most likely to date in the future when they are more mature and know what exactly they want. And if what he wants is someone like you he'd be with you, vise versa. Hope I helped. Trust me MOST teenage relationships never last. Some of blessed. But some are ordinary teenagers and date like 100 people a year. Ya know??


Sorry this is such a gay question, but what are some good songs to listen to that are recent, and make you think of someone you fall head-over-heals for? (link)
Don't forget about us stickwitu

I'll be there for you You shoulda known betta

hope I helped.. Good luck!


helo,
my boy friend said he realy love me and then go and marry another girl just because am a christain and he is a muslims he said sorry i wish to marry u but becoz of religion am sorry and i realy love u.pls tell me if truely he loves me.

thanks. (link)
Well if he truly loved you he wouldn't care of what type of religion are you he'd actually realize that your worth the world besides some stupid religion statement. There's other guys out there more better guys that realize what your really worth in life. I honestly can't say he doesn't fully love you but I think he *likes* you but honestly come on he married another girl. That's wrong and I bet you were really upset about it. Would you rather find true happiness with someone that actually cares for you and only cares for you and your personality? Or a guy that says he won't be with you because of his religion. Don't get me wrong some people are very true to their religion they abide by it but it still shouldn't matter to the person they really and truly care for. Hope I helped. Seriously though I think you need to get over him. Sorry if I didn't help.



well my x boyfriend loves to talk a lot of crap about me and laughs when i get hurt but some of his friends tell me he still likes me but i do not know whato think please help me sincerly confuse! (link)
Well I don't know about this one. Maybe you should ask him be like look I know you like being a jerk to me but I still don't understand why so please if you could just spare me some mature level at your age just tell me without any sarcastic comment flying back into my face. Ask if he still feels things for you, because it does sound like he's picking on you and usually the old skewl* ways for guys to tell a chick that they like em is to pick on them. Maybe he's in for the old skewl*. Hope I helped.


My friend lets say (jesse) jesse smells pretty bad everyday. Like a bad smell as if she doesnt take a bath. How do i tell her she has an odor i dont want to hurt her feelings but i dont want people to talk about her behind her back
seriously.. shes recently had staph too?
does that mean youre not clean? ermm help (link)
: Definition provided by The American Heritage® Dictionary of the English Language, Fourth Edition. Copyright © 2000 by Houghton Mifflin Company. Other important copyright information here.

staphylococcus:

Noun
Inflected forms: pl.staph·y·lo·coc·ci A spherical gram-positive parasitic bacterium of the genus Staphylococcus, usually occurring in grapelike clusters and causing boils, septicemia, and other infections.
Other forms
staph'y·lo·coc'cal or staph'y·lo·coc'cic adj.

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Staph is Staphylococcuss obviously if you read that whole thing. You would understand that, that doesn't have anything to do with it. If you didn't want to hurt her feelings as bad as you might when and if you tell her trust me it'll be 2 times harder on you. She will most likely hear it from others if they are all talking behind her back and then she'll ask or yell and ask you why you didn't tell her. Just say something like "Jesse" look I don't want you getting hurt because your my really good friend so I'm just going to tell you something whether you get mad at me or not. You have an odor problem I'd suggest stronger deoderant or go to a doctor who can get you medicine for it(yes there is medicine out there). Hope I helped.


hi,I'm a 15 girl and yesterday i had sex with my boyfriend,well sort of he whent in a little then pulled out then he cumed on my pubic hair could i get pregnate?even if my cherry hasnt been poped?please withe A.S.A.P! i rate very usefull! (link)
Hm, yes I think you could like possibly be pregnant but I wouldn't worry about it because honestly if he pulled out right when he cummed that means he cummed in you a alittle and yeah. Trust me I think its like a 2% chance you could be pregnant. I wouldn't look too far into it til you start feeling yourself getting heavier, and your senses getting a hell of a lot stronger. Hope I helped.


ok so me and my boyfriend were going out for exactly 2 and a half days. I thought our thing was going great untell the 2nd day. I went to fnl and the next morning I got a call from his X GIRLFRIEND saying he hated me and he did not wanna be with me and he needed a brake after two and a half days!! I cryed so much because i really liked him and i don't understand what i did to deserve this!! Please help me and this is the 4th time we have gone out is it over or wat? (link)
The X is either a bitch.. or a bitch for telling the truth, call that dickhead boyfriend up and tell him what she said word for word if he says its true what can you say your boyfriend ((x)) is an asssss find a new asss to fulfil. Hope I helped.


how old do you have to be to go clubbin? well i live in massachusetts (link)
Different in all places but its mostly just for 16 and above or 18 and above, but some area's like my area ((Pennsylvania)) have underaged clubs for teens up to either 13, 14 and above. Sorry if I didn't help. You can always go to www.google.com and type in -teen clubs in massachusetts-


anyone have good song ideas for a warm up cd for volleyball??... it has to get the team pumped!!!! (link)
Well to get people pumped in the music they are listening to it has to be able to say pump it up in the song...

Black Eye'd Peas- Pump It Up

Sorry that's really all I have


ok i got off my period 2 days ago and i after that 2 days i started bleeding a lot more is that normal (link)
Periods for chicks are all different mine used to be irregular, so I was put on birth control to get that fixed and it worked. But I mean I had mine for like 2 days then it would go away, then 1 or 2 days later it came back for another 4 days then went and sometimes it went for about 3 days cam back for 1 more day and then it was over for another 6 weeks. Yeah pretty messed up right. Well sorry to tell you that I felt like it sorry.


ok...i am a guy 14 and i like this girl,shes 14 too.So how i make sure she likes me?I tried asking her out she said no srr im too busy this week...how i know she could like me?or to make her like me? (link)
Well to be honest you can't *make* someone like you. But you can get them more involved with you. If she's not a *good* friend like one of your best friends you need to worry and work about that before anything. Then maybe she would start to like you more, and maybe ***doubt it*** but maybe you will understand that you don't want to ruin your friendship with her and think that your friendship is more important than anything and wouldn't want to risk losing it and having nothing. Just talk to her, be interested as I know you are. Ask her questions like does she watch any sports, if so what kind? What's her favorite color. Questions that will get a conversation going. Hope I helped.


After discussing this many times with friends, I still am not straight on what the 3 bases are.

Anyone care to give their opinion? (link)
For a guy:

1st base- kissing/making out

2nd base- oral sex? anything fingering a chick licking her anything that doesn't involve sex.

3rd base- sex



for *most* chicks its different, more emotional and feelings are involved instead of when your a guy all they think is with their dick.


okay so i have liked this guy since last year and we have been really good friends. he is in 8th grade and im a freshmen and he always waits for me before 4th period every day and hugs me everytime he sees me. and so i finally told him and he says that we are too good of friends and he doesnt want to mess anything up but i dont really get it because all the girls he has gone out with have like cheated on him and stuff and he knows i would never be like that and i dont understand why you wouldnt want to go out with your friend.. like would you rather go out with a complete stranger? someone please help idk what to do. (link)
You may not think this but trust me friendship is *always* stronger than boyfriend/girlfriend. If he says he doesn't want to mess it up then believe him. Maybe because he has been cheated on that he won't go out with you he may just be afraid of going out with you and then you end up cheating and then your whole friendship is over. No matter how much you say he doesn't care for me just because he won't go out with you its the totally oppisite it's because that you guys are too good of friends to start dating. But you never know usually best friends/friends end up going out in the long run. Hope I helped.


14/f. my friends and i are throwing a party for a few friends. we wanna play truth or dare. our dares used to be the hottest dares ever, but now they're old and played out.

so are there any good ideas for dares, or even truths?

thanks. (link)
The guy or chick that gets dared, has to get naked ((if you have any whip cream and/or chocolate syrup)) they have to put/rub that stuff all over their bodies and run outside screaming someone want a chocolate sundae.< Sorry that's the only good one I got. Hope I helped :\ sorry.


Ok, I am not a computer whiz or anything so keep that in mind with your answers.

I want to put pictures, it is a comic actually, in the comment box of one of my friends. I cannot figure out to do this, so I tried to put a link in. That didn't work either. So I was wondering if anyone could help out a girl?


Appreciated!!! (link)
*Going steady ring*

something with "I love you" on it.. Or get him something that he's into like what's his favorite football team, basketball team, baseball team and ect. Hope I helped.


Me and my boyfriend recently broke up, and he already has a new girlfriend. There's this guy I've been talking to, but we're only friends. We've hung out ALOT, and done some stuff. I have the choice to have sex with him, and I think I want to. But people say he has herpes, and I'm not sure if he does or not. Should I ask him? Or just go for it? And if I need to ask him..what do i say? (link)
Well, if you don't want to do it like you said you didn't really want to, then don't. Don't listen to people about like oh my god well I heard he has blah blah. Ask him, those might be only rumors. So yeah if your that curious I'd ask him. And then if you feel more into him and want to do him. USE PROTECTION. Hope I helped.


While ice skating a week ago, i fell very very hard on my backside. I couldn't get up by myself, and when i got picked up it hurt so much i couldn't carry on skating, had to go sit down for a while. I didn't put an ice-pack on it there and then as there was too long a queue at the first aid.
Anyway, i thought the pain would go away, but a week later my tailbone is still hurting loads, when i sit down, when i walk, dance etc, when i bend over. Anyone think I could've done some serious damage? Should I see a doctor or wait longer for it to go away? (link)
Well, I love figure skating I take lessons. And trust me I've fallen plenty of times to know that yes it does hurt after a while but then again I already have back problems to begin with because of my ***** but yeah. I think you should go see a doctor but I'm just letting you know it does hurt for a while sometimes. Depends the way you fell like where *exactly* you fell. Hope I helped.


What do you think is a good name for my band? (link)
Death Raves, Stavern, Pathera, Liserio.

sounds like a good band* name.. all adds up to of what *kind* of band.


How can you tell if a guy is interested in you or interested in using you? (link)
A guy that isn't just interested in getting into your pants by him asking questions like what are you into? do you play any sports? do you like animals? if so what kind of animals? And a guy that is only interested into getting INTO your pants just talks about sex, sextual comments as in so what would you do if I came over to your house right now. Or a guy that just says... do you wanna* have sex..

Hope I helped




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