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I have had a bunch of friends that have had wierd problems, and I Have always experienced a lot.

I babysit a lot, so if you have questions about that, Ask away!

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Although I do answer them, I hate sex questions.

I am good at the whole "being a girl" thing, like shaving and periods. Ask me those, I'd love to help!

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Favorite Books:

*Go Ask Alice
*Annie's Baby
*It Happened To Nancy
*Teen Idol
*All-American Girl
*The 1-800-Where-R-You Series
*The Mediator Series
*The Body Of Christopher Creed
*Freaky Green Eyes
*Of Mice and Men
*The Wattsons Go To Bermingham
*To Kill A Mockingbird
*The Earth, My But, and Other Big Round Things
* The Secret Life Of Beez
*Where the heart is

Favorite Movies:

*Now and then
*where the hear is
*Save The Last Dance
*Love Don't Cost A Thing
*Kate and Leapold
*Miss Congeanility 1 and 2
*Beauty Shop
*A Cinderella Story
*Confessions Of A Teenage Drama Queen
*Raise Your Voice
*The Notebook
*Coyote Ugly
*Sisterhood Of The Traveling Pants
*Where The Heart Is
*Now And Then
*10 Things I Hate About You
*Drop Dead Goregous
*The Wedding Planner
*Uptown Girls
*Finding Forrester
*Leagly Blonde 1 And 2
*Sweet Home Alabama
*What Women Want
*Napolean Dynomite
*Shrek 1 And 2
*Finding Nemo
*Pirates Of The Carriebean
*Pay It Foward
*Charlie and the Chocolate Factory
*Maid In Manhatten
*Charlie and The Chocolate Factory
*The Unfinished Life


*The All American Rejects
*New Found Glory
*My Chemical Romance
*Sugar Cult
*Black Eyed Peas
*John Mayer
*Gavin DeGraw
*Ashlee Simpsion
*Fall Out Boy
*Hilary Duff
*Systen Of a Down
*Chronic Future
* The Gorillaz
* My Chemical Romance
*Fall Out Boy
*Boxcar racer
* Alien Ant Farm


*Kyrie- By Mr. Mister
*We Danced Anyway- Deana Carter
*Breathless- The Corrs*

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*You get what you give, & everything you do comes back to you*

One night, the moon said to me " If he makes you cry, why don't you leave him?" I looked upto the moon and said, "Moon, would you ever leave the sky?"

I know there's something in the wake of your smile. I get a notion from the look in your eyes. You've built a love, but that love falls apart. Your little piece of heaven, turns to dark.Sometimes you wonder if this fight is worthwhile, the precous moments are all lost in the tide. They're swept alway, and nothing is what it seems, the feeling of belonging to your dreams.AND THERE ARE VOICES THAT WANT TO BE HEARD,so much to mention, but you can't find the words. The scent of magic, that's the beauty that's been, when love was wilder than the wind.



I dyed my hair a red brown color. It came out darker than I expected. I've tried lemon juice on my hair. It lightened it a little, but I didn't go out in the sun. Could you give me some suggestions of ways to lighten it without dying it again?

do the lemon juice thing again, but use a hair dryer if you cannot go out into the sun. I have used this lemon juice based spray called sun in before, both in the sun and with a blow dryer. It works very well both ways!


I am babysitting at a familys party... there will be 6-8 kids aged 1-8... what can i do to entertain them while keeping all ages interested

games, with balls. Like soccer, basketball, baseball. Twister. Play with toys like legos or books or dolls. Also, movies and crafts are good. Like coloring. :)

If you need anything else just let me know!

Best of Luck!


last night after dinner my mom told me that she had something to tell me. she told me that she gave birth to me and my identicle twin sister. she told me that she couldnt keep oth of us because she was only 18. she didnt want to give both of us up. so she put my tiwn up for adoption before she was even born. i never knew about this only my mom and my grandma knew. they didnt want to brag about it to anyone. my dad knows about it also(my biological dad, he stayed with my mom through everthing and now theyre married!) so my mom told me that the couple that adopted my twin sister had died in a car accident and my mom was notified. and in their will they didnt give my twin to anyone. all it said was ask jennifer who she wants to live with. so jenny told the lawers that she wanted to live with her biological mom. so the lawyers called my mom and told her and my mom said yes. we get to meet jenny on saturday. im really nervous tho, because i dont know if we're alike or if were different and i dont know what to talk to her about. if anyone can give me advice i would be very happy. also im nervous if shell like hate me because my mom chose to put jenny up for adoption and not me. omg im so scared.

I think that everything will be fine. Your Mom couldn't have known which one was going to go where. And anyways, I think that your sister will be even more nervous than you. Not only does she have to meet you, but her Mother and Father all at one time. She also has to move into a new house, with new people, and new customs. I highly doubt that she would want to make a big deal about her leaving and you getting to stay. I think that she will be happy to get to have a real family. Also, I think that because she said that she wanted to live with ber biological mother, that she obviously wont be mad because that was her decision.

if you ever need anything else, please feel free to drop one in my inbox!!

I wish you the best of luck!


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what does being emo mean?

emo is short for emotional.


Hi there's this boy that likes me in my class and my friends think so too. Because he blushes when he looks at me and just friday he came up and huggeed me.I kinda like him too but I don't know what to do because my friends ask me if I like him and I say no and could u just give me HELP!!! :(

well just take your time. Dont rush into anything. Maybe you two can be friends before you pursue a relationship.Dont worry about what your friends say and dont let them pressure you!


alright i know everyone will be like ohh hollister and stuff but does anyone know any CHEAP stores you can get legginss for not that much..cause im like a shopping addict and want them so bad but my mom refuses to give me more money cause i spent to much last time so i have to buy them but i only have a little..so does anyone know anystore you can get them for under like 15 dollars? ill rate 5 for help!

I got some at target for about $6 Last winter (2004). I love them. You have to really look for them in the sock section, they were hard to find.
Prices vary depending on the location.

Hope this helps.


is 16 years old too old for a 14 year old?
because i don't think its a problem and it never ever seemed like a problem until one of my friends brought it up. hes totally cool with it. and he doesn't like force me to do anything. its nice. but is he really too old?

No. As a matter of fact, I am currently 15. My current boyfriend and I have been together for two years, tomorrow, and he is currently 17. To do the math, I was 13, and he was 15 when he asked me out. So, to answer your question no, he is not too old. Our relationship has worked out fine.

Best of luck to you!


I want to loose weight even though I'm only 122
pounds.what should I do

well, you can watch what you eat. 100calorie snack packs are great, and delicious!! Try to cut back on the soda and drink more 100%juices, and water. Milk's great too! Cut back to the sweets, and try to excersize more. Don't sit there holding the couch down while your watching tv, do some crunches or push-ups, lift weights, or something like that. Run around the neighborhood, dance!! go for the apple, instead of the apple candy! Excersize, and watch what you eat!!

anything else, just leave one in my inbox, I hope this helped you a lot! best of luck!!



ummm how many pounds does a gallon of milk weigh?

more than 8.because the oreck vaccume weighs 8pounds, and on the comercial they put a gallon of milk on one side of the weight thing and the oreck vaccume on the other side, and the milk side went down and the vaccume side was in the air, so the milk weighs more, and the oreck vaccume weight about 8lbs.



You when you search for something on google and then you go back another time to search for something else, it saves and as your typing guesses what you be searching for. how do i get rid of all the prevous searches I have done?

where it says google then a down arrow, click it, its really small and black, then click on "clear search history"



ok so i just dyed my hair fuschia and i was rinsing it in the tub and when i got out i saw that the bottom had turned pink.. does anyone have any recommendations on how to remove the pink stain??

bleach water, and scrub at it, and also pour some bleach onto the really dark areas, and let it sit!! make sure not to get it on your clothes, and to wash your hands after!!


heyy yea my friend wants a new s/n and hes a guy he like emo music and plays baseball any ideas?? thansk a bunch





hi icey,
i have a question. my boyfriend asked me the other day wat i would do if he did somthing with another girl. i was taken aback and wasnt sure if it was a sign. is he doing stuff behind my back? i wanted to know what other people would do in my situation and if your bf was doing somthing, what would you do?
any help would be very appriciated.
-meg (15 years old)

Well, I would totally talk to him about it. I would try so hard not to get mad. I would ask him to tell me why. And also what he did, and how offten. I would ask him with who. I would ask him why he didn't tell me. I would ask him what we can do so that this doesnt happen again. I would ask him if he knew what he was getting himself into(if he was drunk or something)

I would get as much info as possible before I got mad, or broke-up with him or anything like that.

If you want to try that and then tell me the results, then I can help you with what to do next.

I hope this helps, and that it was what you were looking for.

Leave one in my inbox if you need anything else.


it says something like

its been 3 weeks since..someithng


it has the word couch...

its a rock song....

sorry its not alot of info but there are 5's involved!

Nine Hours Forty Seconds Lyrics

And its you I come back to again
As you and I never made more sense.
Ever since we first met, it was destined to be.

It's been three weeks since I've last heard your voice
and all that I know, is that you'll come crawling back..
I bet you will

Now, say what you like, what you want, but I'm here
I never meant for us to be this far
Now say who you are, where you've been, but I'm here
I never meant to be this fucking weak

It's been three weeks since i've last heard her voice
and if nothing is left, then where does it go? Nowhere, now
say it again....

I never meant to be this fucking weak, this weak
there's no escape, I'm all yours
just say when (it goes over and over again)
cause i know since i've been with you, it goes over and over again
it never ends.....
it goes over and over again

Free From You → Laurabadaura
deep instruments → marula
Portals To The Past → steiger
It’s been three weeks since you’ve been looking for your friend
The one you let hit it and never called you again
’member when he told you he was ’bout the benjamins
You act like you ain’t hear him then gave him a little trim
To begin, how you think you really gon’ pretend
Like you wasn’t down then you called him again
Plus when you give it up so easy you ain’t even fooling him
If you did it then, then you probably fuck again
Talking out your neck sayin’ you’re a christian
A muslim sleeping with the gin
Now that was the sin that did jezebel in
Who you gon’ tell when the repercussions spin
Showing off your ass ’cause you’re thinking it’s a trend
Girlfriend, let me break it down for you again
You know I only say it ’cause I’m truly genuine
Don’t be a hardrock when you’re really a gem
Babygirl, respect is just a minimum
Niggas fucked up and you still defending them
Now lauryn is only human
Don’t think I haven’t been through the same predicament
Let it sit inside your head like a million women in philly, penn.
It’s silly when girls sell their soul because it’s in
Look at where you be in hair weaves like europeans
Fake nails done by koreans
Come again
Come again, come again, come again, come again

Guys you know you better watch out
Some girls, some girls are only about
That thing, that thing, that thing

The second verse is dedicated to the men
More concerned with his rims and his timbs than his women
Him and his men come in the club like hooligans
Don’t care who they offend popping yang like you got yen
Let’s not pretend, they wanna pack pistol by they waist men
Cristal by the case men, still in they mother’s basement
The pretty face, men claiming that they did a bid men
Need to take care of their three and four kids men
They facing a court case when the child’s support late
Money taking, heart breaking now you wonder why women hate men
The sneaky silent men the punk domestic violence men
The quick to shoot the semen stop acting like boys and be men
How you gon’ win when you ain’t right within
How you gon’ win when you ain’t right within
How you gon’ win when you ain’t right within
Come again
Come again, come again, come again, come again

Girls you know you better watch out
Some guys, some guys are only about
That thing, that thing, that thing

Artist/Band: The Kinleys
Lyrics for Song: You're Still Here
Lyrics for Album: II
It'll be twelve moths to the day in an hour since you left me
Eleven months three weeks since I left town
First stop was tendin' bar down in Baton Roughe
Thinkin' I could get way from you
But you were on my mind every time I turned around
So then I went to Austin, Texas then to Pheonix then I flew outta LAX
Lord I can't believe it's been a year
I keep leavin' but you're still here

Touched down in Seattle waited tables in a coffee shop
I tried my had down in Reno dealin' cards
Took a bus to try my luck on the East Coast
Spent a week with my blues in Chicago
But everywhere I went you were in my heart
I almost thought I lost you in D.C. but in Boston
Your memory caught up with me
For every mile I've cried a million tears
I keep leavin' but you're still here

So if you're wonderin' why I'm standin' on your doorstep
It's 'cause you never left I'm here to ask you for another chance
'Cause baby I just can't forget

The way you used to hold me and show me
You loved me like you'd never ever let go of me
For me that feelin' never disappeared
I keep leavin' but you're still here
I can't keep leavin' 'cause you're still here

Three Weeks
The Faulty
Composição: Indisponível

(And it's you, I come back to again)
You and I never made more sense.
(Ever since we first met, it was destined to be.)
You and I never made more sense.

It's been three weeks since I've last heard your voice
And all that I know, is that you'll come crawling back to me
I bet you will

Now, say what you like, what you want, but I'm here
I never meant for us to be this far
Now say who you are, where you've been, but I'm here
I never meant to be this fucking weak

And it's you, I come back to again)
You and I never made more sense.
(Ever since we first met, it was destined to be.)
You and I never made more sense.

It's been three weeks since I've last heard her voice
And if nothing is left, then where does it go?
Go nowhere, now say it again....

Now, say what you like, what you want, but I'm here
I never meant for us to be this far
Now say who you are, where you've been, but I'm here
I never meant to be this fucking weak, this weak

There's no escape, I'm all yours
Just say when (it goes over and over again)
’Cause I know since I’ve been with you, it goes over and over again
It never ends...
It goes over and over again


"A Reason To Come Home Again"

Lonely days and sleepless nights make this letter hard to write to you
My words reach you way too late
Good things come to those who wait
Close your eyes
I'll breathe in deep
(Close your eyes, I'll breathe in deep)
I'ts been three weeks since I last saw you sleep
(I last saw you)
I long to feel the warmth of your breath
(Feel the warmth of you)
I should want this more
But I want it less and less
Counting the miles and flailing for days
You made a choice
(You paid a price)
Now fly away from this
You want only one thing
I'm lucky it's all that left
I've got to give to you
I said this would be over
(I promised you)
You said it'd be already anyway
I said this would be over
Over and over and over again

could that be it? If not, let me know in the feedback!


hi! well im 15/f
and yeah my family doesnt think i have any friends...BECAUSE my cousin always wants to do something with me like hang out..she doesnt have very many pepole to hang out with...and like so i have to spend all my time with her it seems..i just met this girl and we clicked right away! i mean we are pretty good friends now..i dont really hang out with anyone really..except my cousin and this girl that i was talking about earlier..and so my bro comes home today and is like yeahhhh susie (my aunt) said she is worried about you because you have no friends..i mean i always wanna go out and do things! party it up! but i never get invited to parties..im not outgoing..and i dono i guess i really dont have THAT many friends..well i do..in school..but i dont hang out with many and today my cousin is like yeah my my was gonna ask if i could spend the weekend with you since they're gonna be gone and im like..oh? and then she is like Nevermind!! my dad is gonna be home..you can just spend the weekend here then..and so now like i guess i have to sleepover there friday and saturday and then hang out on sunday too..and i didnt wanna be like yeah i dont wanna hang out with youu! so i was like umm okay? but that takes up my WHOLE weekend and we like never do anything there..i even told her we are gonna go out and do something!!! because she always sits on the computer..and im like we are gonna go to a movie or something..just party it up! and then she is like i kno..but what are we gonna do? and at her school..they're are alot of hotties but she isnt exactly the 'popular' type.. sorry not to be mean..but she isnt? i can tell..and so she doesnt have like hardly any friends..and like NO guy friends :( me either thO! and i wanna hang out with guys..and shes like well on the computer we can ask a whole buncha people including this kid that i think is hott...and he is pretty popular i guess..and im thinking he is gonna try and make up an excuse not to go..or say he has other plans..and i hear this girl that is like very popular and gorgeous that this kid i think is hott..is going to the movies this weekend too..so im scared their gonna ask this kid to go..and alot of other people then nobody will wanna go when we doo..and the kid always flirts with this girl and it BUGS me..i wanna meet hiM!!! thats why i want to like go to a movie or something..but i know if my cousin asks he wont (sorry mean?) but its true! and i dont know anyone else that knows him.. and on friday my cousin plays hockey and she is like OH SHOOT..i have a hockey game at like 530 and they usually have to watch varsity too..so there goes our friday night you know?..UGH this is very very confusing i cant meet new people thru my cousin..she dont kno anyone..but i wanna go out and have fun! neither of us have cars..and her dad works till like 6 every night..and i dono if he would even wanna bring us anywhere..and yeahhhH! please dont say hang out with my friends..because i dont hang out with many people either..woahhh sorry SO LONG really!! its just lately this has been bothering me..


well, tell your cousin how you feel. try to make other plans, way in advance, like a few days, even a week in advance, and tell your cousin that you cant do anything because you already have plans. Then maybe you could try to include your cousin in some of your activities that you do with other friends. Like try to get your cousin and your friends together for a day! that would be fun!! Maybe even try to get your friends to invite some guys along!!

Im note sure if that was what you were asking, but if it isnt, please leave one in my inbox! and I would be happy to answer differently.

Hope I Helped!



I wear makeup to hide ugly scars on my face. With my makeup on no one ever knows that I have them. Only my family has ever seen me without my makeup. My boyfriend of one year is getting fed up with me. He cant accept the fact that he cant see me as sporadically as he'd like. When he comes over unannounced I make him wait 10 or 20 mins while I fix myself up. He says that he loves me no matter what.. and yet he is always saying the best thing about me is my beauty. Should I reveal to him how I truly look and risk losing him? Or save face and let him be upset?

if he loves you he shouldnt care.


13 f
ok i want to go skating at 6:00 but i have my period, is there anything i could do to not leak? pleez dont say use a tampon or two pads thx!

go for a run, and that will getalot of your flow out. are you skating tonight? or tomorrow? go running a few times between now and when you go, excersize makes your periods heaveier and shorter, so run, and a wholelot of blood will come out, likely.then maybe sit on the toilet for a while, and let a lot of the blood come out that way too. maybe run before you skate, so that way it will all come out. make sure that you bring pads with you to the skating place, and check for leaks offten, weardark pants, and maybe bring a friend who can watch your back side, literally, to see if there are any leaks. maybeif you have a big purse, you can put an extra pair of pants and undies and a tun of pads in there, and if anyone asks, then say that you are sleeping over at a friends house, so thats why I have the extra clothes. or wear a hoodie around your waist. :)


hey i noticed that you put ona list of names for some lady having a girl deven.. well that is my name and i hate it.. but i spell it with an i



i'm having a baby girl and i don't know what to name her..i am 6 months..can somebody give me a site or some names to name her..please help


if you want more names, just ask!!

hope I helped



hiiII! umm i have a question...
sooo..i met this girl thru my friend last night and she went to the same school as my cousin and i know alot of people that go there! so i was talkin to her and everything..askin her if she knew all these people and then im like do you kno this kid named kevin? and he is like OH My GOSH YEAH! im like haha he is sooo hott and she is like ew ive known him since like kindergarten and so thatd be gross! and i guess she knows like the whole hockey team and i was like yeah i wanna like talk to the guys but they dono me and i dont wanna go up and be like hi u dono me but yeah! and she is like oh if you come to the game on thurs (tomorr.) then i can introduce you to alla theM! and i was like yeaaaaaa..but then im kinda shy and then all these hot boys? i wouldnt know what to say..and it would be kinda weird but i really wanna meet them..and my other friend is commin along and she is super gorgeous i mean dark hair and REALLY blue pretty eyes...im jealous and im afraid that if we meet these guys they are all gonna just look and go for her you know? (this has happened in the past) all the guys only look at her! and then i will feel so stupid and ugly and ugh. so i dono what to doO!! i mean she cant help it she is sooo pretty..and she is very outgoing and im just not..what do u think i should do? i will rate!

well, there are 2 of you and a whole bunch of them. one is probably going to like you. maybe the two of you can get ready together. tell your friend your concerns, and ask her to talk to the girl that you met online. or you can tell the girl you met online, in a joking but sorta serious voice, that you think she is so pretty, and all the guys are gonna go for her, and none will be left for you. then see what happens.

your not ugly. maybe you can get ready for the game with the girl that you met online, that way she can help you, and you can pick up tips from her, and he style, so then maybe you will have more confidence!!

if you need anything else, or want a better answer, please leave one in my inbox!!


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