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age/distance
is 16 years old too old for a 14 year old?
because i don't think its a problem and it never ever seemed like a problem until one of my friends brought it up. hes totally cool with it. and he doesn't like force me to do anything. its nice. but is he really too old?
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I don't see 14 and 16 as an undefeatable gap. If you like this guy, give it a chance. If you see a good opportunity, why would you deny it? Marriage obviously isn't something you're ready for, so spend your teen years having fun and learning from them.
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It's all relative. Ask someone older that knows you both (or just you quite well) and LISTEN to their feedback. They're not the enemy.
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No, its not a big age difference.
To be honest, if you like him enough, you shouldn't care what other people think.
I like a guy who's 17 and I'm 14 and it might seem like a huge age difference now because we are teenagers, but htink of it this way, when your 20, he will only be 22.
I have an amazing guy, he told me that he doesn't care what his friends think, and if his friends have a problem with it than "f*** them" cuz they arn't true friends than.
He seems sweet.
But if he forces you to do stuff you don't want too, thats when you drop him, no matter how much you like him, don't do something you don't want too just because he wants you too.
I hope this helps sweetie.
Good luck.
Marta
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No. As a matter of fact, I am currently 15. My current boyfriend and I have been together for two years, tomorrow, and he is currently 17. To do the math, I was 13, and he was 15 when he asked me out. So, to answer your question no, he is not too old. Our relationship has worked out fine.
Best of luck to you!
<3 Kelseyy ;)
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No he's not too old, as long as your comfortable with him, its fine, im 14 and my last bf was 19, i dont think age makes much difference wen its only about 5 years, if your were 13 and he was 17, it would be differnt because youv only been a teeanger for a year, but liek i said, as long as you feel comfortable with him, he's not pressuring you into anything, then its fine, but its then again, thats the same with everyguy, two years difference is really nothing, dont sweat it and enjoy your life :)
xx
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no, its really not;
well now it might be,
but when you're older its not big.
my 14 year old friend (whos in 8th grade)
is going with a 17 year old (whos in 12th grade)
THAT is an age difference.
just don't sweat it.
it may be a big deal now, but not later.
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hell no there is nothing wrong wit that. shit that si same age difference wit me and my bf. lol.. nobody should tell you not to go out with somebody because of there age. you shouldnt listen to people when they tell you that kind of stuff. hun dont worry about wothers think it is all on you. you are goin out with him not them so dont worry about it.
*~Stephanie~*
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That's nothing, sweetie. Age doesn't matter, (well it shouldn't anyways). All that matters is you like the guy you are with and are comfortable with him. He treats you right and doesn't force you to do anything you don't want to do. This guy sounds like a total sweetheart. He's not too old, not at all. ♥
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not at all, its not about age its about the person. i hate when people judge by age honestly it doesnt matter. my boyfriend and i have been together a year and when we started dating i was 14 and he was 16. and one of my best friends her and her boyfriend are in a very serious relationship and shes 14 and hes actually 17. so i dont think age matters at all. hope i helped =)
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no, that is exactly how my ex and i were. i know he doesn't, but if he tries anything you don't like, hold on to your beliefs and you should be fine. =).
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Nope.
not at all.
infact that wont even matter when you're 20
if that's to any avail
-maddy
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Not at all. Don't worry about it. As long as you guys don't mind it then nothing is wrong with it.
Don't let people judge and try to get to your head.
♥
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Definitly not..don't worry it's only a two year age difference...i mean it's not lik he's 25..then that might be a problem lol! Go for it and good luck!! ♥ caitie
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2 years differents is nothing. and it is actually more of a normal width apart. age shouldnt really matter though. i mean im almost 16 and i like a guy whos turning 15 i dono when but yea were about 2 years or so appart but in my eyes it doesnt really matter :)
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Society as a whole makes you believe and think a certain way with things. All in all, I would tell you that age is just a number. That is something that as you get older becomes more true and more accepted in society. If you are okay with it and he is as well, why do you listen to your friends? They are seeing it the way I explained above. It only matters truly that you are comfortable being with him.
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no 16 years old is not too old for a 14 year old at all! all that matters is that you really care about eachother. i was dating a girl that was 2 years older than me and a lot of my friends were teasing me but it didn't matter b/c i really liked her, so i just ignored them.
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