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Has anyone here seen the musical "Sweeney Todd, the Demon Barber on Fleet Street"? Does anyone know the name of the author of the novel it was based off of? Don't tell me to Google it. I can't find it on Google. (link)
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Stephen Sondheim is listed as the composer of this musical on wikipedia.com. If you have not yet used this site, it is an excellent source of information ;-)
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My boyfriends birthday is in a couple days and he made my birthday absolutely AMAZING beyond belief so i wanna try to make his special for him.. i'm not really sure what to do though.
(obviously get him presents & stuff, but i already got all that)
I had the idea of making a little scavenger hunt for him in the morning before he goes to work to find his presents but i'm not really sure how to work it out, or to hang signs or what they should say or anything.
His sisters said they'll help me put the stuff around the house the night before after he goes to bed so that wouldnt be an issue.
help please.. sooner the better. his birthday is in two days!
thanks. (link)
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I think the scavenger hunt idea is PERFECT (especially since YOU came up with it!). Try things that are clues but also compliments. Things like: you are so sweet, you give me cavities! (HIDE THE NEXT CLUE BY HIS TOOTHBRUSH). Or: I feel so safe with you, I could just fall asleep (HIDE THE NEXT CLUE ON HIS PILLOW). Or you could just leave little love notes along his routine in the morning (bathroom mirror, coffee maker, cereal box, car door, etc.) I'm sure he will love anything that you do for him, because it comes from your heart and shows him you care! Hope all goes well,
-WBL
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I have bought a treadmill, healthy food, and I plan to do exercises. But I still can't get rid of the feeling that no matter what I do, I won't be able to lose weight. I've been fat for so long I just don't feel like this will do anything to help me. I guess what I'm asking is, will it?
Will a half an hour-an hour of going on the treadmill as well as healthier eating help me lose weight? I know that a pound is 3000 calories, and I guess it just seems impossible to me. I'm only 15... please help. (link)
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Try to focus your attention on how your body FEELS as opposed to looks. If you obsess about weight, this will be a very long road for you. It takes a while to start losing weight, but you will notice a change in how your body feels in a relatively short period of time. 30 minutes of exercise 3 times a week is the lowest recommended amount of exercise for optimum health, so yes, the treadmill will be good. Try to make it fun so that you will keep it up; listen to music, for instance, or if you have a television within range, walk during a favorite show as you watch (you won't notice the work as much!).
One final tip I can give you from personal experience is to weigh yourself once a week (NO MORE!) in the morning before you've eaten anything. This is your mostly true weight.
Have fun! You'll get there ;-)
-WBL
P.S. Remember that muscle weighs more than fat!
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My girlfriend is almost a week past her period, and we're 16 and we're scared that she's pregnant. She doesnt have any signs of pregnancy, but she said she does have vaginal discharge and we're hoping that's not a sign... any help? (link)
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First of all, did you have unprotected sex? If you did, realize that it is a very real possibility that she is pregnant. Second of all, and possibly more relieving to hear, young women often have irregular periods. This means that it may come early, it may come late, or it may even skip a month. A week is not TOO alarming (though I hope you are alarmed), so don't start panicking. Yet. If you want to know right away for sure, there are fairly cheap pregnancy tests at any drugstore, ranging for about 12$ to $30. Hope the news is good and I hope you don't have to have this worry every month!
-WBL
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I have a slight problem. Sometimes when I get out of the bath/shower I feel like I am going to fall, my eyes change for some reason, and I get real dizzy. This has happened more than once and I have never been to a doctor over this problem because my family doesn't have much money. If anyone could tell me why these have been happening it would be much appreciated.
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This most likely has to do with blood pressure. Try to take a slightly cooler shower instead, or shorten the time you are in. I do not recommend you ever use a hot tub because you might pass out (it's possible for anyone to pass out from this in the hot tub if they stay in too long, so if you already have a problem, it's not a good idea). The issue here is that it may be a symptom to a greater problem. I'm not M.D., and I think you ought to see a doctor if possible, but it wouldn't hurt to research it on webmd.com. Also, try not to stand up too fast if you've been sitting/laying down for an extended period of time as it may have the same effect.
Hope you feel better!
-WBL
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i met this guy in my neighborhood when i was just in 7th grade. now nearly 5 years later, he's left for college, and im finishing up highschool. The day he left i realized how deeply i felt about him, and now that he's back for a brief time im wrestling with the idea of telling him my feelings, its just that im completly unsure of how he'd react to this. we always say how much we look for intelligence, adn everything we ever say we want seems to describe eachother so much. yet im terrified, becuase maybe we were just to good of friends for to long, what should i do? (link)
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Try to tell him you have feelings for him by upping the flirting a little bit first. He may reciprocate and the ball might start rolling on its own. Casual touching is a sign you like him; you can touch his hand/shoulder when you're telling him something to emphasize a point, for instance. LOTS OF EYE CONTACT! If he doesn't like you, you'll probably notice after this. If you can't tell and nothing seems to happen, THEN talk to him. Regrets are more painful when they're because you did nothing, not because you didn't TRY. Good luck!
-WBL
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I have a friend that is going out with a guy who is really bad for her. He has hurt her before. He has sprained my wrist purposely and he is a drug dealer. He deals hardcore stuff; cocaine, crystal meth, heroin, etc. She has done coke in the past and she was beginning to develop a dependancy, but my friends and I helped her to kick it. We think that she has started using again and has probably started with other drugs, too. We've tried talking to her, but she won't seem to listen. Is there any way we can get her away from him? Thanks. (link)
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This question is almost as difficult to answer as it is for you to experience. First of all, you have to recognize that your friend has CHOSEN this person knowing what you already know. Her perception is clouded, at least according to you and me. She is not being manipulated by him to do drugs; if she's doing them, she has chosen to be with him and has therefore gotten access TO them. Do you see the difference? Another thing you have to recognize is that although it is difficult for you, you may have to go to her parents with this information. It may mean that she'll never speak to you again, and you need to know that going into it. The payoff is this: it may save her life. Drug use does cause addiction, and addiction does not "drop off" due to logic or age. If you do not try to help her (and you as a friend don't have as much power as a close adult) she may head down the wrong path for the rest of her LIFE. Good luck, and I'll keep you in my thoughts.
-WBL
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Ok so here is the problem I have a serious crush on this boy let's call him Kyle. I am 14 so it's not just some stupid little kid thing, and no he isn't super popular. He's just there. He's always teasing me he likes to call me a turuturu. (they are cute little made up creatures) The main problem is I know he doesn't like me as more than a friend because he's gay. I keep telling myself I don't have a chance with him because he's gay but I can't get over him. What should I do? (link)
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It's a common phenomenon for people who are either not yet ready for a relationship or who aren't ready for ANOTHER relationship to fall for the unobtainable. Often this takes the form of a celebrity "crush", but sometimes the object of affection will be known in real life but difficult or impossible to actually obtain. It sounds like you are preparing yourself for the rollercoaster feelings a relationship can bring without the possibility of being deeply burned. Remind yourself he is gay but enjoy his company; pining over him is perfectly healthy if doesn't last for too long and you have no misguided beliefs that you can convert him to be straight. No matter how wonderful I know you are, his sexual orientation is not subject to change because of you. Good luck!
-WBL
P.S. Love will find you! Don't look so hard ;-)
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19/Male...There is one girl in my Accounting class that I am attracted to. We are in the same lunch line every day right after class, but it seems like every time I am about to talk to her, i freeze up. I still haven't said one word to her. What should I do to break the ice? (link)
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Talk to her about something you've actually been thinking about. Don't really plan it in advance. For instance, if you don't like what's on the menu (meatloaf AGAIN?!) say something about that (what's IN it anyway, does anyone know?). Or, like some have said before me, mention something from accounting. You don't have to be overly witty; just be yourself! She may secretly want to approach you, but females are often taught that it shows desperation to be the first to take an interest. Good luck!
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i have this really small bumb on the right side of my toung. i don't think it's very serious because i've had it before. anyway it hurts when food touchs it and when i touch it. do you think im allergic to somthing or do you think it's somthing serious or do you think it's nothing. let me know!
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It sounds to me like you've bitten your tongue. It happens to everyone on occasion and it's usually on the side of the tongue, as you said. It swells and stays there for at least few days. Unfortunately, since there is swelling, you are likely to bite it again. Be careful not to (chew on the other side of your mouth if you can), and if it doesn't go away, see a doctor! I'm not sure what else it could be, but I'm no physician so my advice may be incorrect. Hope you feel better!
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This question was extremely long, explaining the whole situation, I decided that you guys don't need all of the details. A friend of mine is currently pregnant, the baby is due the second week of May. Her baby shower will be May 2nd and I need some ideas of what to get. She already has just about everything you could buy for a baby. It's going to be a girl, and I want something that won't cost too much over $20 because she isn't my best friend in the world, but she is a good person. They already have bottles, toys, diapers, blankets, and the works. What are some things that a baby girl can never have too much of, just in case I get something that somebody else (or the parents) have already bought?
I'm 15/f, so is she, but she'll be 16. The baby's dad is 19, still in the picture, and the mom and dad are getting married once my friend turns 16 in July. Please no lectures on that, she's already talked to one of the parenting teachers here, her mom, and guidance and all sorts of people. I just need some ideas for a baby shower gift. Thanks in advance. (link)
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I think the advice left before I saw your question is extremely helpful, so I won't change a word of it as far as the money spending is concerned, but have you thought about maybe making her a "coupon" book? I'm thinking babysitting (ask an adult if they can help you, first, if you need it), as she's going to want to spend some down time with her fiancee and she's going to be quite frazzled. Just a thought.
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what do you do when everyone in your family is leaving you? my mom and dad have been having problems and always argue. then my dad has a very short temper and always yells at me and makes me feel like shit. what can i do to stop it all?
please help me fast! :'( (link)
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I can't give you an answer that will make you feel like everything's better; there is no magic bandaid in this case. All I can say, all ANYONE can say, is that parents love their kids unconditionally. Yes, they can be a pain sometimes, but try to think about how they SHOW you they love you (and they can do it in a variety of ways). If your father is taking out his frustration on you, talk to him about it. He may not even know he's doing it! Don't be petty about it, as he's obviously already upset, but it's worth a shot. Also, tell THEM you love them in your own way (e.x. do the dishes without complaint or bragging, ask them how their day was or what you can do to help, etc.). Good luck with everything!
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Everyone says that like it's just so simple. "Just get a new boyfriend!" HOW? If there isn't anyone that likes me, then how exactly am I supposed to get a boyfriend? It's not like I can just snap my fingers and have guys crawling all over me like everyone else, they just don't want to date me!
So... HOW? How do I just get a new one? HOW? (link)
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I'm telling you from experience that if you are SEEKING a boyfriend, you may appear to be a neon sign to skeevy guys you truly want nothing to do with. The good ones come along in time, and you'll often miss them for a long time before you realize what great guys they are. Go through the motions of your life, even if you're down, and try not to worry! Being alright on your own is quite attractive to guys.
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Okay, so a week ago my English teacher gave our class a big project to work on (that was due today). It consisted of writing a song, making a movie, and writing a paper. Well, last Wednesday I was absent, so my 2 friends ended up making the song. We tried to get together over the weekend, but I couldn't get a ride so the other two just got together and worked on the script. They gave the rest to me and I finished it. The only day we could work together was yesterday, the day before the project was due...so we made our movie and they gave it to me to edit. I ended up getting sick and missing the class it was due in! My teacher is kinda strict on grading, she might say, "You guys should have been ready...sorry." I just really feel bad that I wasn't there today, and one of the girl's moms has already called me irresponsible which makes me feel even worse. I don't know what to do; I believe they're mad at me because they're not picking up my calls or anything.
AHH.
What do you think I should do? I'm going to try to talk to my teacher today about it, but I'm really worried about what I might get. (link)
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Perhaps apologize to the entire class. Say that your project is not as good as it could have been because you've been sick (though I don't know why you were absent the first day). Be honest. Also, before that, you may want to have your mother or father drive you to your two friends houses so that you can apologize (but JUST go to apologize, and either take a piece of the project or a card of apology). Do NOT stay and hang out. Hope this isn't too strange and hope it helps!
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So.. I have this boyfriend who is absoultly amazing. He makes me laugh everytime I talk to him and we barly ever fight or have problems.. We're a lot alike and neither of us usualy have long relationships but we both really like eachother and think it'll last a long time. But for some reason i'm constintly thinking about things that could go wrong and I'm always thinking about breaking up with him. My friends say its because I have him but once I break up with him i'll want him back which is most likely true.. but I shouldnt really be feeling like this should I? What should i do about it? (link)
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I was in a similar situation. Actually, a few. It's most likely not him, but a deep rooted issue within yourself. I'm currently still working through it within myself, but I couldn't have done it as effectively if I had stayed with the sweet guy I was with. As fate would have it, we can't be together right now for other reasons, but I'm glad the time we have apart has a reason on my end. Anyhoo, after my rambling, perhaps you should work on the friendship end of the relationship as opposed to the romantic end. If you trust him as a friend, then as a boyfriend he's just that much more trustable, and you can relax in his arms, as it were.
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Okay. I know this question is getting SO annoying..but I need an answer...and haven't found one that goes to what I need to know.
Alright, so I and this guy have been going out for 3 weeks tomorrow, and on Valentines day it will have been 5 weeks (That assuming I can count. :P ) We're both new to having a boyfriend/girlfriend, so we aren't really lovey dovey or "cute" or anything like that - heck, we don't even hug that much.
I want to get him something for Valentines day, but I don't know what. I don't want to get him anything big, but I also think it would be kind of awkward for me to MAKE something for him, because thats just not the kind of relationship we have.
He's in to music, horror and comedy movies, and acting silly almost 24/7.
What would be a good gift idea, something that isn't..strange..for our relationship, but at least something to say "Hey, its Valentines day and seeings as we're boyfriend and girlfriend, I thought I should get you something, because..thats how it works and I like having you as a boyfriend." (link)
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Seeing as he's into music, horror, and comedy movies as WELL as acting silly, have you two ever thought of going to Rocky Horror Picture Show? I don't know if it's quite to your taste as I do not know either of you, but it would be a fun together activity without the awkwardness. Or you could have your mother help you bake him valentine's cookies for his family, or something of the like. Other than that, think about it THROUGH OUT your day as opposed to at the end of it, especially keeping your mind open when your with him. Your muse will come through ;-)
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me and my friend from my old town are in a huge fight... i feel bad cuz i forgot her birthday but she FLIPPED OUT ON ME!! so she was like your fucking hockey messed my whole life up! but hockye is important to me but so is she.. i wanna take my life somewhere with my hockey..... help! (link)
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She's really hurt, but it seems to me that you understand that and have tried to make amends. If she hasn't seen your side of the arguement in a little while, her slanted view on life may make your life more complicated than you can handle or should handle. I hope all works out well!
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What are some ways to get this guy to realize I like him. We flirt alot but I dont think he's getting the hint?
And what are some more ways I could flirt better? Thanks 5`s for all! =) (link)
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He may not get the picture, so try to make it clearer to him. If he continues to not return your affections, maybe he's not the guy for you, but he's probably nearby! Goodluck!
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What do you do if a friend threatens to commit suicide, then a few days later they refuse to discuss it any further and insist they were "kidding"? My roommate did this and I tried to get help for her but she laughs at me and says she was "kidding" and I "don't know how to take a joke" but I know perfectly well that she had been serious. I know because the day she threatened to do it, I asked if she was in earnest and she was like, "Yes *sniffle* I feel like...*sob* ...I just want to die..."
And now suddenly she was "kidding." I just don't know what to do about it -- it seems like if I got a shrink to talk to her or something, she would tell the same story to him. (link)
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Depression is an off an on thing. After some people have an "episode," they often "wake up" and wonder what the heck they were thinking. Talk to your room-mate about the fact that they're quite likely to feel like that again. Ask them what their plan is in that case, if they can hold their head if it gets that bad again. Their answer may be unreliable though, and you're in the unfortunate place of having to keep an eye on them. Is there someone else you can alert to the possible issue? It may turn your room-mate against you, but it may be your only option. Use your best judgement; they don't need to suffer alone, and you don't need to watch them suffer alone.
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so I get bored alot when im at home && i was wondering if you knew any fun sites or anything I might be interested in .. im up for any suggestions (14/f) thanks (link)
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I found this site the way you probably did as well- on a bored.com spin-off. I tried a couple of their other links as well, but I found another really cool one to be the notpron one. My advice would be to do it with a couple of online friends, tho.
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