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im in love with my bestfriend
i met this guy in my neighborhood when i was just in 7th grade. now nearly 5 years later, he's left for college, and im finishing up highschool. The day he left i realized how deeply i felt about him, and now that he's back for a brief time im wrestling with the idea of telling him my feelings, its just that im completly unsure of how he'd react to this. we always say how much we look for intelligence, adn everything we ever say we want seems to describe eachother so much. yet im terrified, becuase maybe we were just to good of friends for to long, what should i do?
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i think you should DEFINITELY go for it!!:)
you never know what's going to happen if you don't try it. maybe he feels the same way about you! you never know what's going on in a boy's mind, they're ALWAYS trying to hide their feelings and be like their friends. and since you guys are good friends that might make the bond that you guys have between eachother "even tighter." don't be terrified, your a natural, i would be scared too, to tell a boy how i felt too, if liked him for a long period of time. GOOOOOOOO FFFOOOORRRRRRRR IIIIIITTTTTTT!!!!!!!
***HERSHEY WISHES HUGS AND KISSES***
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Try to tell him you have feelings for him by upping the flirting a little bit first. He may reciprocate and the ball might start rolling on its own. Casual touching is a sign you like him; you can touch his hand/shoulder when you're telling him something to emphasize a point, for instance. LOTS OF EYE CONTACT! If he doesn't like you, you'll probably notice after this. If you can't tell and nothing seems to happen, THEN talk to him. Regrets are more painful when they're because you did nothing, not because you didn't TRY. Good luck!
-WBL
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i am thinking, you should tell him the way you feel, if he does not feel the same way, then it will be fine, because if you are as good as pf friends as you say you are then it will be fine, and you should also think that maybe, if you become more than friends, it could mess up your relationship by having a possibility of a bad break-up, but overall it would be best to tell him
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