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my effin friend
me and my friend from my old town are in a huge fight... i feel bad cuz i forgot her birthday but she FLIPPED OUT ON ME!! so she was like your fucking hockey messed my whole life up! but hockye is important to me but so is she.. i wanna take my life somewhere with my hockey..... help!
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yea ok well i wouldnt be surprised if my friend flipped out on me. sorry but forgetting your friends birthday is a big deal. but DONT WORRY im sure you can fix it. ok well first you should give her a sincere apology like write a letter or say it in person. not IMing because it doenst seem that meaningful and tends to start fights. also get her a card and like a present that would be meaningful to her. tell her that you really care about your friendship and that you were going overboard a little bit with the hockey. sorry. i know that hockey is like your passion but you said it yourself there are other things that are important to you. keep playing hockey but just keep in mind the people and other things that mean somethign to you because friends are prescious and you dont want them to slip away...
i hope everything works out and i helped a bit
Samantha<33
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She's really hurt, but it seems to me that you understand that and have tried to make amends. If she hasn't seen your side of the arguement in a little while, her slanted view on life may make your life more complicated than you can handle or should handle. I hope all works out well!
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It is kind of a big deal that you forget one of your friend`s birthday. How would you like it if one of your friends forgot your birthday? Wouldn`t feel so great, huh? Firstly, apologize a trillion times & send her something through the mail like a card or if you visit her make her some little cupcake with a card. Second, hockey might be your life, but if you seriously take it overboard, things might get difficult. Hockey obviously isn`t leaving you, so just take it down a notch with the whole hockey obsession. I`m not saying to LEAVE HOCKEY. I`m just saying not to let it get to everything in your life. You said other things are important to you ; so prove it.
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It's pretty bad that you forgot her birthday and all, but I believe that she should realize how important hockey is to you and try to understand it. I think you fight could be solved by sitting down and talking about it (or emailing, IMing, whatever you prefer). You should both appoligize to each other and let it all go. She shouldn't have exploded like that, but maybe to make it up, get her a present and a card or something. Wish you luck.
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