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confused about boys
So.. I have this boyfriend who is absoultly amazing. He makes me laugh everytime I talk to him and we barly ever fight or have problems.. We're a lot alike and neither of us usualy have long relationships but we both really like eachother and think it'll last a long time. But for some reason i'm constintly thinking about things that could go wrong and I'm always thinking about breaking up with him. My friends say its because I have him but once I break up with him i'll want him back which is most likely true.. but I shouldnt really be feeling like this should I? What should i do about it?
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I think you're friendss are right and even that you are afraid that you might lose him so psychologically you're making yourself comfortable with the thought of breaking up just in case you do break up. So like if you broke up now it wouldn't be so devastating. Don't worry. Lot's of people do it.
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I was in a similar situation. Actually, a few. It's most likely not him, but a deep rooted issue within yourself. I'm currently still working through it within myself, but I couldn't have done it as effectively if I had stayed with the sweet guy I was with. As fate would have it, we can't be together right now for other reasons, but I'm glad the time we have apart has a reason on my end. Anyhoo, after my rambling, perhaps you should work on the friendship end of the relationship as opposed to the romantic end. If you trust him as a friend, then as a boyfriend he's just that much more trustable, and you can relax in his arms, as it were.
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Your issue is trust, you need to trust youself and your decisions. You began dating your boyfriend and you obviously still like him, so you need to realize theres a first for everything, including a long relationship. I think your just scared and anxoius about when its going to end because you havent had that relationship that lasts, so you dont believe it could happen to you yet. Have some faith in your man and good luck hopefully this will be your first long, lasting relationship!
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