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Is it okay to be school-oriented...and be scared to have a boyfriend because you don't know whats going to happen in the end. Its like you are in a mix between "I don't know if its going to work out" and "I'm scared it might..." ..? Does anyone get what I'm saying?
No it's not ok. ur just gonna live, then die so you can't let stuff like morals and religion get in the way of you living your life. and so what if it doesn't work out? you have your entire life to find the one. and ur probably very young. i'
theres a dance comin up at my school n i love dances n all. but when i dance(grindin) i NEVER kno where to put my hands, so, where?
Well if you wanna grind like a white person, you can put ur hands around his neck. If you wanna grind like a black person, then ur hands go on your knees.
What does "pop your cherry" mean? Like I know it has something to do with a hymen...what I'm not exactly sure what a hymen is!! Like does it just happen when you put something...up there? Does it hurt? Like what IS it? And is that a way someone can tell if your a virgin or not?? and i rate.
If a boy pops your cheery, he is deflowering you. Taking your virginity~ Yea it hurts. Feels like you're being streched. And yea that's how your gynecologist would know if you were a virgin or not.
18/f. I was molested when I was little, and every once in a while feelings from that time surface and I get very upset and depressed. It's not so often - maybe once or twice in a year, but I don't want that time to keep haunting me for the rest of my life, I want to move beyond the past. Does anyone have any advice on how I can do that?
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Omg, I totally an relate w/ you. I wasn't molested at age 8. But I was sexually assaulted at age 12. I still get a few nightmares about it. I say that, you try a therapist. Now I know that it seems kind of drastic but you can't get rid of something w/o talking about it. Therapists are there to help you, and talk you through your traumatic event. I ensure you that once your whole therapy session is over, you'll have a new outlook on life and you'll be able to move on. Hope I helped :)
This guy that I really like in my senior class has been dating this girl who behind his back makes fun of him. He is so in love with her, he'll buy her a dozen roses for no occasion and bring them to school for her. I also heard he spent hundreds of dollars on a bracelet for her birthday. I know what she's been saying behind his back because she's in my french class. The other girls wanted to see her new bracelet and she just rolled her eyes and said "this is the THIRD one he's bought me"!. She is such a superficial bitch. She's also said she's only with him because his family has money. She's also a bigot, I've heard her making derogatory comments about homosexuals and african americans. I also heard she's cheating on him. I don't know what he sees in her. She is very popular and pretty, but has the personality and kindness of a dead squid. He would be heartbroken if he knew what she said about him and did behind his back. He is such a nice guy, I feel sorry for him. Should I tell him or just keep my mouth shut? Or, before I forget, HIS friends make fun of him behind his back for how hard he's fallen for her.
It depends on what type of friendship you guys have. IF you guys are kind of friends then you should definitely tell him. If you say hi to him in the hallway and when you see him outside of school you should tell him. But if the only time you ever spoke to him is to do a science lab then you don't have any right to get into his personal affairs UNLESS he brings her up while talking to you. Then you should tell him a little teeny bit but make sure he knows that you're not tryna break them up, that ur just looking out for his best interest.
I have this friend. I wanted to be more than friends at one point, but I am pretty sure he doesn't know that. However, like before Christmas we were so close. We were with each other constantly. He was like the only person I have ever felt like I could bear my soul to, but I didn't because I didn't want him to think I was wierd.
On New Years, we went to the beach with like 30 of our friends. We hugged and mess like we always did, but then when we came back to school after New Years, half the time he acts like I am not even there. I just want ot be friends with him, and I don't even know why he's mad.
If you have any advice on how to talk to him please, please help me. Thank you in advance.
forget about him. he's not good enough for you. if you're questioning your relationship with him then it's ptrobably not even worth it or probably gonna fail, Just my honest truth~
okay, so there's this guy lets call him johnny. and he flirts with me and stuff and he says that he likes me, but he flrts with other girls in front of me and we've been hanging out alot like he will stay after school just to hang out with me and stuff and i really like him, but his friends tell me that he like to confuse girls and stuff and that hes kind of a player. but i don't know if johnny's friend likes me, because thats what my friend said.. and idk what to do and i dont't know if he really likes me or not.. so please helpp!! i rate high
xoxo -- K&M
He just wants to fuck you. In the end you'll just regret it.
I really really liked this guy; however he told me that he didn't see me as the girlfriend type for him cause were to close of friends. But I can't keep my mind off of him, everything I think about him. What should I do? I seriously still like him but he doesn't feel the same!
If he doesn't want to date you then you should just leave it alone. Trying to force a relationship on him will just tarnish your friendship alltoghether, You tarnished your friendship enough just by telling him you like him.
i have this friend and she is kind of an ass. i mean we get into fights and all but we get over them and forgive each other. but there are so many other people that she has hurt in the past. for example, one of my really good friends used to be extremely close with her. like they were inseprable. and then they got in HUGE fight (name calling, bad language, etc.) and they have never talked since. alot of people talk to me behind her back about how much they despise her and yet in front of her they act like her friend. There has only been a few instances where me and her have been mad at each other. i know she has talked behind my back before.. but i mean we're teenagers... i've talked behind her back too. it happens. just i'm not sure if i should still stay friends with her. when we're together i enjoy her company very much. just i know what she is capable of and i dont want to get hurt. what should i do?
Stay friends with her, I just have a feeling and I kind of guarentee that a girl like her will always have your back. Honestly, the only reason she probably said anything about you behind ya back is because 1. she wanted to be accepted by the girls who talked about and 2.she doesn't know if she can trust you all that much and 3. she was probably in the middle of a fight with you at the moment! I think that if someone is talking about ur friend, you should def. let her know. It may start some conflict but after all she is your friend and you gotta have her back.
Popular guy, semi-nerdy girl. A year left in high school. Could we make this work or are we just fooling ourselves?
OF curse it can work. I don't know about your school but in my school everyone is in a clique but still integrated. Like the gay and trannies stick toghether, the jocks stick toghether, the pretty girls hate each other, and are all pregnanat but somehow we all intertwine. Loads of us are still really cool with people of other cliques. Basically, I'm just tryna let you know that it's not impossible but it's nvr gonna work if you don't think it can work. And right now I'm feeling like you don't think it can work!
Ok so my bestfriend is going through depression and I feel so bad cause honeslty Ive realized that he doesnt smile that much anymore but it never hit me like that cause hes always just like im tired and stuff but anyways he told me yesterday that hes going thru it again so ive done some research on it cause i want to be able to help him get thru it. I didnt know him the first time he went thru it but I know that means since he had it once he'll be able to get thru it again. Anyways Ive gone a bunch of websites and they all basically say the same thing like it takes medication to get past it and stuff... I need to know Is There Anything I can Do To help Him? I cant find anything on how others should act around someone with it. Please If u have any ideas help. Ive googled it already and found some stuff but i need to know more...
Well I feel depressed alot of the time. I feel sad and have a hard time concentrating on anythinmg. I get really hostile and have alot of arguments and just become really distant. Basically all I've wanted was someone to make me laugh and to joke around with and someone to make me feel like I belong to a certain group or crowd. I guess I just wanted someone who gave me the illusion that everything was all right. Maybe that's what he needs.
hey i was just nairing my arms and i think i got a burn on them..is that even possible.
p,s= i only had it on my arms for like 4 minutes
Yes. IF you put nair on your face or somewhere it tells you not to put it, it WILL burn and it WILL end up looking like you got into a fight with a cougar. I guess your arms are very sensitive. JUst put a thin layer of Nair and keep it there for like 3 minutes.
In the past 2 months I have gona from a 160 pound girl to a 176 pound human! IT's amazing how stress and eating is not helpin rite now! So I excersiced for 2o minutes and tried to eat right and right now I'm down to 172.8! Today my best friend told me if i keep eatin like that I will look like one of these FAT FAT FAAT girs and I really don't wana be that fat. Right now I'm planning of not eatin anything for lunch except an apple or a peach. Do you think I will get tin or slimmer...at least 160...or 155lbs in 25 days?
Yeah, of course you will. Here is my suggestion. Dont eat any breakfast. At lunch have some type of juice (NO SODA) and have some fruit. Then for dinner have like a peace of chicken or fish or something 300 calories or less. Only drink water. If you do that there won't be a need to exercise!! It worked for me. I went from like 170 to like 135. That's where I am now.
every now and then, I get these truly awful headaches that dont go away for a few days. Theyre really annoying becuase they interrupt my whole life...I cant do anything becuase even the slightest noise makes my head pound and bright lights make my eyes sting. Could it have anything to do with the computer? and is there anything I could do (besides aspirin or any medication) to make them stop happening or make them less intense? thanks so much ♥
You have migranes. I have them too and when I get them, the computer doesn't make them any worse but mine only last for a couple of hours to 1-2 days. Never longer. Yours seem more intense so the computer might make them worse but they don't start them. Big changes in weather trigger my headaches. Like rin one hour and bright sunshine the next will give me a huge migraine. The best thing to do is to sleep it off. Being in a cool room usually helps me out. Lights and sound always make my head feel like it's about to explode to. Maybe you should just see your docter. Benedryl works really good for headaches, too.
Ahh the magic of divorce, it's taking me forever to deal with my parent's divorce but thats just becuase new problems seem to be popping up outta nowhere. My mom's boyfriend that she ahs had for awhile (which WAS my dads BEST FRIEND) has been gone for a while, and i was tottaly happy and now he's baaaaaaack, and im trying to warm up to him, but today he let go of my new puppies leash twice! TWICE! the first time i was sorta mad but now the second time he really went far and he could have gotten ran over, then my mom is mad at me cuz i got mad. I thinik i have every right to be mad at him! Am i right?
Yes you have everyright to be mad at him. He;s the adult for goodness sakes! He should be sucking up to you!
This might be kind of long, so bear with me please.(This is a real question..so don`t be rude)
About a year ago, my 23 year old cousin died.This guy was unbelivable. He was seriously like my second brother & he was soo funny. Anyways, I went to the funeral and saw all my family members there and you know, I started crying. Months went by & it seemed like I got over it. And I really did.
I have this picture of him(not even big at all) on my wall and I looked at it last night and just started crying. I mean, I stayed up all night crying for my cousin because I just barely realized that I'm not over my cousin's death. And the weird part is that I just started crying after I THOUGHT i was over his death. Totally weird I know. I couldn`t even go to school because I didn`t get any sleep.
I don`t really know what my question is, but I guess I`m asking how I can actually get over his death & cope with the fact that he isn`t coming back. I realize that he isn`t coming back, and I think that`s what makes me soo sad in the first place.Now I feel all depressed. Please help me.
I'm sorry that you had that death in your family. I understand where you're coming from. I also had to deal with the loss of my best friend. We were so close, and when she died I felt like I lost a part of myself. It's been 2 years since she died and I reacently realized that mourning and crying all the time will not help me get past this. If she was still here she wouldn't me sad and depressed and I'm sure your cousin wouldn't want you to be dragged on by his death. You just have to live and learn to get past it like I did. We all have to live through unfortunate events in our lives and some of us are lucky enough to be still be able to live normally even though we suffered through all those misfortunes.
okay i have brown hair, curly, layered, about shoulder length....is there any other thing i can do w/ it besides striaghten it?? i tried 2 scrunch it, but it gets frizzy and doesnt look right...plz help!!
Scrunching is a good idea but make sure you use mousse or Frizz-B-Gon! Most likely usse because mousse holds the curl for a looooooooooooooooooooooong time.
i am 13 female and i think that i am lesbian. i dont want to be lesbian and i want to stop. how do i stop being lesbian? i havent make out with a girl yet but here are the things i like: 1)girls kissing. 2) "perfect" breast. 3) cute faces. and 4) hearing girls moan during sexual things. i think that the cute face and perfect breast thing is just me being insecure about myself but what about the other things? anyway how did i become lesbian in the first place? is it in my genes or something? i need help!!!!!
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You were born that way. It's not your fault. You'll come to terms with the fact that that's what you were meant to be. Or maybe this is the age in which you start exploring your secuality and MAYBE you'll grow out of it.
Do u think im too young for sex? I WANT TO SOOOOOO BADDDDDDDD! uhhhh..hes 17, but he promises me i wouldnt get pregnant if we used a condom in he took it out before he cummed in me..is that true?
WHy do you feel the urge to wanna have sex. and the part about him pulling out you'll find out that that's lie!. If you look it up, you'll see that the pulling thing is not effective. and condoms don't work 100%. and do you think this guy actually likes you or he just to have sex!
I think I am fat. I weigh about 116-120 pounds and am about 5"4. Is this overweight?
I don't have like ANY time at all to exercize, I do lose weight, but than I end up gaining it all back on. I can't wake up an hour earlier in the morning because I am already tired as is. I am busy like ALL the time. Does anyone have any way I could lose weight quickly, and wouln't take much time out of my schedual?
If you're tired all the time, then all that work and walking and busy stuff that you're doing all day is obviously burning calories. If you still feel insecure about your weight after hearing this, then you should talk to a physician cuz this might be the beginnings of an eating disorder.