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i dont want to be...LESBIAN!!
i am 13 female and i think that i am lesbian. i dont want to be lesbian and i want to stop. how do i stop being lesbian? i havent make out with a girl yet but here are the things i like: 1)girls kissing. 2) "perfect" breast. 3) cute faces. and 4) hearing girls moan during sexual things. i think that the cute face and perfect breast thing is just me being insecure about myself but what about the other things? anyway how did i become lesbian in the first place? is it in my genes or something? i need help!!!!!
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You were born that way. It's not your fault. You'll come to terms with the fact that that's what you were meant to be. Or maybe this is the age in which you start exploring your secuality and MAYBE you'll grow out of it.
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at your age you have a lot of hormones, and anything sexual can turn you on, regardless or gender. chances are ur not a lesbian.
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well first of all youre young and you really dont know what you want yet. having these feelings are scary, i know from experience but you cant read into them too much. the shape of a woman is a beautiful thing and even straight girls will tell you that. you need a while before you can decide your sexuality. no, being a lesbian is not genetic at all. you can have these feelings towards girls sexually and not be gay. you have a little while to sort things out.
good luck!
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It sounds like your hormones. But if you do turn out to be lesbian its nothing wrong with it. (depending on your religion if you are a Christian then Christ should play a big role)
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relax, it's probably just your hormones acting up, your going through puberty, so it can be hard to tell what you like.
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dear lesbo,
u cant change being a lasbian . its just something thats in your genes. its not your fault and u cant change it. you could go out with guys but it wouldnt be the same. if you like girls!! thats awesome! more power to ya!
i hope i was helpful im new at this.
sincerely, your helper
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I like that kind of stuff too infact I think lots of girls do so don't worry about it your just lesbo-curious and no you weren't a lesbian to begin with
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girl dont worry about it there are a lot of people who arent sure about their sexuality so dont feel bad there could be a lot of things going on and your emotions are mixed up just try to see if you can talk to somebody like a councilor
hope i helped
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Hmm.. Well its okay to be lesbian, you know. Okay, its normal to think other girls are pretty or gorgeous or they have great boobs. Its sometimes jealousy or just admiration. An dI have kissed girls before, its not a big deal. Just fun with friends. Anyway..So you might not be. But it sounds sorta like you are.
On Dr. Phil.. he said a lot of times gay men are formed because they had a bad relationship with their father. I'm not sure, but lesbians may be formed by bad relationships with your mother. And i dont think its genetics, it may be, but i doubt it. Its just the way you feel.
To get out of it, theres not really a way. Its just your feelings. But if you want to try, try spending less time with girls and more time with guys, hott guys.
<3
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well you cant stop it really. i think it is in your genes but chances are you arent a lesbian. it happens to most girls during pubery because its from a rush of hormones. its just part of your curiosity and most girls grow out of it. if you ahve the same feelings in 5 years maybe you are but for now just let it go. maybe talk to a counsler or someone who is not against lesbians and tell them how you feel
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no, you are just born lesbian and thats how you are. you may just be horny i dunno
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There is a ton of grey area on this... because, while one of those people below was on the right track with saying that your hormones are raging at age 13 and lots of different things will turn you on, I've never agreed with the logic that someone as young as you couldn't know sexual orientation for sure. Because, let's face it, it seems like every other 13 year old is obsessed with the opposite sex, which means they "know" they're straight, right? So if all those kids can just know that they're straight, why can't gay kids not know they're gay?
On the other hand, there is also a lot of room for confusion at age 13, which is where you come in. I don't think you can always really be 100% sure of what you like until you experience it. If you experiment with a girl and you really like it, you still might not necessarily be a lesbian because you still might also like guys. Don't limit yourself with the labels of "lesbian," "bi," or "straight" at this point. Just take it as it comes. If you have a chance to hook up with a girl, and it feels right, don't not do it just because you've been taught it's wrong. Just do whatever makes you feel most comfortable. You're going to like what you're going to like, and you shouldn't beat yourself up for it. You won't be happy until you accept who you truly are, whatever that might entail.
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Hey hun, How are you?
It is normal for girls your age to be interested in different things. Whatever happens happens. There is nothing wrong with being a lesbien, so dont freak out.
You are so young, you are going to learn about lots of different sexual things as you get older and a lot of them are going to interest you. There is nothing wrong with being interested. Some people have some real freaky fetishes, at least yours are normal ;)
You dont have to make a decision and nothing is funal or engraved in stone. So be yourself, express yourself and try different things.
You only live once, do what makes you happy, forget about everyone else.
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Most likely you're not lesbian..it's probably just your hormones. Even though they might not admit it, you're friends have probably had the same feelings! Ok here's a test that you could use..take a really hot male celebrity and a really hott female celeb..now which one do you picture taking there clothes off...and it turns you on? Like Jessica Simpson is gorgeous but her taking her clothes off doesn't do anything for me, now Nelly on the other hand..well you get the picture lol! If you happen to be a lesbian..you cna't change your sexuality....you'll ahve to live with it! Good luck! &heartts; caitie
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all girls have that one time when you like to see girls kissing or can't help but stare at her perfect breast.and if they say they haven't they are lieing. cuz i know i have that lil curious and wonder if i was a lesbian or not but i know i am not. and its a well given fact girls always have a lil curious of how it would be if they were with another girl same with the guys. don't worry you will be fine.
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You're not a lesbian. It's called HORMONES. You're 13 years old and your hormones are racing. Most of all this puberty stuff and sex stuff is new to you. It's gonna seem interesting.
You are way too young to even know if you are a lesbian or not. Some women can't even tell when they are in their 30's.
Stop assuming that you are a lesbian, because you aren't. I'm straight. When I was your age those things sorta turned me on too. It's normal, it's completely natural.
When someone is a gay or a lesbian it has NOTHING to do with their genetics. They are just born that way. It's not a mental state of mind, it's just how you are born. You can't help what you like it just happens.
Chill out chica, you're not a lesbian. It's just your hormones. I'm pretty sure all girls around your age experience similar if not the exact same things you are.
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ok the thing is you may not be lesbian . you'r just currias. like you don't see a girl kissing another girl that often so its intrusting to you or girls kissing cus we probably do it better and if you have not kissed before your new at it so its like an example. and the moaning same thing . your just curias most likely you may grow out of it you may not but don't foget to look at those hotties wiht bodys boys lol jk just some humer hope i helped.
Andie
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