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Hey, i'm a young teen who leads a normal life, or about as normal as it gets. i love to help people and hope to some day become a psychologist. You're welcome to ask me anything you want and i'll answer the very best i can.
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Okay, so here's the deal: I have a boyfriend and one of my friends has a crush on him. I haven't been friends with this girl very long either.
Okay- she was flirting with him a lot...and it was bugging me. So i talked to her about it. The first time she was all like "oh, sorry.okay" She didn't stop. So i talked to her AGAIN! and she said "oh my god! i's so sorry! I hate it when friends think that! Okay, I'll stop. It will be hard, but I'll try."
hmm, well the first thing that you need to understand which i think your starting to get is, this girl just flirts without meaning anything by flirting. She seems like she just likes to have fun with guys and quite often we flirt with people we don't even like in any advanced relationship or sexual kind of way. I do it too, i flirt with guys i have no interest in other than friends. Your boyfriend seems very understanding and thats great. If he knows it bothers you and you don't want to seem like the jealous girlfriend ask him if he could maybe tell her not to touch him, its ok if she wants to talk and play around like that but touching is strictly for the girlfriend. If it came from him i think she'd get it. What she meant by it will be hard but i'll try is that she does this without realizing its really even considered flirting and its fun to her and probably a habit. Try talking to your boyfriend to ask her not to touch him. If that doesn't work let me know and i'll prescribe something else. Hope all works out. Good luck.
In the three books Stephenie Meyer, is there any thing that shows that Edward is crying
no, but he does get sad in parts. check the end of twilight when bella was bitten and also check the end of new moon where he's said because bella is still afraid he will leave her. page 524 in new moon and 453 in twilight.
i have a macbook so for aim i use ichat
but everytime i try to start a buddy chat (with more than one person) the people never get the invitation
ive tried numerous ways to figure out how to send them
but they never work
does anyone know how?
lol, yeah i know how, once you send the invitation and the chat window comes up type something anything, it has happened to me and im all like wth? and i figured out you need to say something. let me know if you have any more mac questions.
me and my boyfriend don't really talk on the phone? we've only been dating for a little little bit and we text a lot and talk on aim too, and i actually have hung out with him, unlike any of the other people i've gone out with [which i don't really count anyways] i don't know everyone else always like talks on the phone. is that bad/weird or whatever?
14/f/freshman
its not bad at all, my bf and i talk mostly on aim and in school. the important thing is that you are talking, it doesnt really matter how. its your choice how you want to interact.
14/f
k well i got my period for the first time wednesday morning. then i didn't get it the rest of the day. or yesterday. or today. how come i only got it once? is that normal? when should it come again?
are you sure it was your period? that happened to me once. i thought it was my first period and it turned out not being it. ask your mom about it. she knows more than i, but it could be a false alarm. i know that sounds really weird but it does happen sometimes to some people.
my boyfriend keeps on trying to have sex with me and i keep saying no but he got me naked on the couch 3 times!
and he tryed to finger me!what should i do?
get rid of him or get a restraining order. that is extremely serious and if you continue seeing him he could end up raping you.
Can two people who have never had sexual contact with anyone else become infected with STDs after having sex for the first time?
nope, unless the person in question was born with an std or you are using needles other people namely infected people have used.
Well i am called fat at school. I am not sure if i am or not. Can you tell me? Idk about BMI stuff but i am not sure. ok:
I am 5'8" and weigh like 130-135.
I don't think i am but can you tell me?
PLEASE
i'm 5'4" and about 120 and im the perfect weight for my height. i definitly don't think you are overweight. you sound well proportioned to me. I don't know who calls you fat, but i think they aren't worth any tears or anger they obviously don't know what they are talking about. they could be jealous, enjoy getting you upset or just self-councious about themselves.
my period is late. i have had it for a year and a half and it should have come around the 4th of this month and it hasn't. sometimes it even comes earlier but never later. i have never has sex so i am not pregnant. but what is going on? am i just skipping a period or could i still get it this month? it is usually pretty regular.
if you've lost a lot of wait and are now underweight it is possible to lose your period, but i wouldn't worry, its probably not a big deal. if you are still worried, i would ask your mother to take you to a doctor like a gynecologist, or maybe even ask her about it.
did kurt cobain commit suicide or was he murdered? everytime i listen to nirvana, or any type of grunge music for that matter, i end up asking myself that question. personally, i think he was murdered. i think that courtney love hired someone to kill him because he was getting ready to leave her. if he did, none of the nirvana estate would belong to her. as far as the note goes, i think he wrote it with the intentions of leaving rock and roll and courtney all together, no intentions of suicide. i'm interested in hearing about any theories anybody may have about kurt cobain's death. here is a great site run by the original investigator of the kurt's death:
http://cobaincase.com/
kurt cobain commited suicide by overdose of drugs. he was an extremely unhappy person and people didn't recognize the symptoms of his depression.
OK this is the situation i broke up with my bf we hadn't been going out long. This girl in my class had liked him all the time we had been going out and about 2 days after we broke up she asked him out (which is really lame!)He said yes and they are going out now should i be angry that it had been only 2 days since we had broken up or should i get over it?
Please help!!!
thanx
honestly if i were you i would be extremely angry at him, but seeing as you weren't going out for long its not a huge betrayal. He could just be one of those guys who is a player. But now there isn't really much you can do about it. you can't control who he dates and when. But if he does that to you he's not worth your anger. I can't tell you how to feel. its an impulse, if your angry be angry and then get over it, if not, then don't make yourself angry.
15/f
so im going to be a freshman, this september or august or whatever, and im like nervous. does it suckk incredibly? like do they seriously make fun of you? how bad is it?
they really don't make fun of you. occasionally someone will call you freshmeat but rarely and unless you wear a shirt that says freshman no one can really tell anyway. people talk about freshman friday but no one really does it. high school really isnt as scary as its made out to be. its really just like middle school only with different teachers, different rules, more classes and some more kids. its not bad at all.
i want to get my boyfriend a really good present for his bday. hes turning 15 and i can spend up to $100. so, any ideas?
hmmm, if he has an ipod something to do with ipods. guys like electronics too so maybe something electronic. also a lot of guys like videogames so something to do with that. or if he's into sports get him a jersey from his favorite team, i don't know how much tickets for a baseball game around you are but maybe you could take him to a game, or maybe tickets to a concert for his favorite band.
Hey! I hear this term a lot, but I never really understood what it meant. Anyways, let me get to the point:
what exactly does it mean to hook up with somebody???
Thanks :
it has two different meanings but it depends on who your talking to. some people think of it as meaning to have sex, the other is to make out. but then of course there's like lets hook up and go to the mall like lets get together but i have a feeling thats not what was meant.
I just got mad at my aunts boyfriend son because he sent a message to one of my friendS telling them i think their hott and all this shit.Anyway i caught him and told him what he was doing and he said nothing so I grabbed him by the collar and he said he woulD aonly tell me if he told my cousin that way he can tell me.Hes such a coward.After a few minutes my cousin came out told me that he said that he sent a message to my crush,my frist CRUSH!Then a i got a message back and it was from my friend.I was almost on the verge of tears,thats what I get for not logging out of my myspace.I knew he was a jerk but i never knew he would go so low.Its almost like he wants ruin my life because this ai'ent the frist time did somthing heartless to me.i'm trying so hard not let my anger rise because I know if I let out all my anger i might send someone to the hospital.any ideas on how to calm myself down?
first of all he probably enjoys making you angry so show him what he does to you doesn't upset you even if it does. take precautions so as not to let him make you angry easily. like passwords for your settings on the computer and always log off if your going somewhere. change your passwords whenever you can. hide your diary like an expert. lock your room when you leave it. i have a lot of anger issues too, try going to your local gym and sign up for yoga classes it can help. of if he pisses you off, lock yourself into your room, put on some calm music and just lay on your bed with your eyes closed and let the anger flow out of you. or go outside and kick/throw a ball at a wall. you can expel a lot of energy and pretend its his head. do something to get you active to get rid of the adrenaline.
how do you stay bestfriends with a guy: i know this guy who is only bestfriends sometime: we flirt alot but we both know that were only friends& it doesnt mean anything:: like what could i say to flirt with him but for him to know its only a friendship?
URGENT!
1. go out in groups
As much as you hate to care what others think about you, if you and your best guy friend go out alone all the time, (a) other guys might back off because they’ll think you’re boyfriend-girlfriend, and (b)people will constantly ask if you're a couple-annoying! Point is, you're not a couple, so limit the time you spend doing couple stuff. Not to say that you can't see a movie together now and then, but guy friends are better in groups!
2. keep the affection in check
Even if he's never thought of you that way, and you've never thought of him that way, too much touchy-feely stuff starts to put the idea in his (and/or your) mind. It may be tempting to give him hugs or put your head on his shoulder, but it blurs the line between friends and more. Sure, he's the perfect stand-in for when you absolutely need a date, but don't treat him like a stand-in boyfriend, okay?
3. don't ask for dating advice
Guys don't discuss the minute details of their romantic relationships with each other like girls do, so they don't expect platonic girl friends to either. If you do, he'll get confused. He'll either think you want him to be the hero who saves you from your evil boyfriend, or he'll start picturing you in couple scenarios-which doesn't bode well for the whole platonic thing, if you know what we mean!
4. don't give dating advice
If he's seeing someone, you're going to form some opinions about her. But hold back the advice (and if he asks, try not to judge her). Nothing will kill your friendship faster than if you bad-mouth his girl after their fight and then they make up two days later. You can't take back your words, and his GF will hate you forever. If he has to choose between his girl friend and his girlfriend, you'll lose.
5.let him down easy
If he admits he likes you-but you don't feel the same-be honest and direct so he knows you won't change your mind. Say, "I love our friendship, but for me, that's all it is. I don't want to lose that, but if you feel like we shouldn't hang out for a while, I understand." Then respect him by acting friendly-not flirty.
Does anybody know any signs that a guy might show if he likes you? Like a guy that you havent ever talked to?
hmm, if you catch him looking at you, copying you behavior as in you old your arms, he may subconsciously do the same. he smiles at you in the halls. something along those lines.
you answered my sleeping question adn said you dont understand what im afraid of. im not afraid of the dark im afraid whats in it. i'm afraid that someones gonna kidnapp or break into my house. thanks for your answer
o ok. don't worry. that doesn't make you a freak. its called paranoia and i suffer from it too. thats another problem that can be solved by visiting a psychiatrist. they can prescribe you anxiety medication to help you relax. i take trazadone at night and im tried within a half an hour. if you have a dog you can get the to sleep in your room. Also if you want to be crafty and reassure yourself, set special settings for your room at night so you can check them if you get freaked. This means, put your closet doors in such a position as you would know if someone opened or moved them. or eliminate hiding places. take a hairtye and tye your curtains so no one can hide behind them. keep your closet doors wide open so you can see into them. for under the bed, see if you can fit underneath in the day time. if you can't chances are a big 6 ft scary dude can't either. keep a flashlight by your bed and maybe a bat? it could make you feel more secure. its better to be paranoid than careless. its not crazy, its cautious. let me know if you need anything else.
my actual computer is broken right now, so im using my moms. and she wont let me download anything on the computer. for my guitar lesson, i need to somehow listen to landslide by fleetwood mac because thats the song have to learn this week. but the problem is, my mom doesnt have any music software on her computer, so i cant download the song. ive checked on myspace and purevolume, but the song isnt on there. is there anywhere i can listen to the song without downloading it or buying anything?
thanks so much!
go to youtube and type in the song and artist. you can listen to it for free. its no problem i do it all the time when i want to check out a song.
Can you get AIDS by drinkin after somebody that has AIDS?
thanks :]
absolutely not, aids is caused by hiv and hiv is only spread through, vaginal fluid, semen, breast milk and blood. don't worry about saliva. there's next to no trace found in saliva.