my boyfriend keeps on trying to have sex with me and i keep saying no but he got me naked on the couch 3 times!
and he tryed to finger me!what should i do?
MzJENNiFER answered Saturday July 14 2007, 9:55 am: Goodness. Get rid of that boyfriend quickly. That's a form of rape. He is going against your will. Do your life a favor and get away from him!
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Erinn_the_bamf answered Friday July 13 2007, 9:22 pm: The person below me who says "just have sex with him" is a fucker.
Honestly, he does not respect you. If he did, he wouldn't keep trying to force you into having sex with him. Dump him. You may not want to, but he is not treating you right. [ Erinn_the_bamf's advice column | Ask Erinn_the_bamf A Question ]
Mr_Skittles answered Friday July 13 2007, 5:19 am: Tell him that "No" most certainly means No and isn't some push off for the time being.
caramella answered Thursday July 12 2007, 6:28 pm: if he dont respect your opinion then he dont repsect you,tell him your opinion clearly and tell him to respect it,if he doesnt slap him and tell him to fuck off.Threaten to break up with him too,that way he might respect your opinion,if he doesnt and tries again after you talk and slap and do what you have to do,then BREAK UP WITH HIM [ caramella's advice column | Ask caramella A Question ]
whoaxbabe answered Thursday July 12 2007, 5:08 pm: Talk to him & tell him how you feel. Tell him that you DONT want to do that. & if he keeps trying to do it, like now, then break up with him. you deserve far more respect than that [ whoaxbabe's advice column | Ask whoaxbabe A Question ]
tayleedoms answered Thursday July 12 2007, 4:36 pm: I think you should dump him. It sounds like the only reason he likes you is because he wants to have sex with you. If so then that is a bad relationship. If you have feelings for him though I would just draw the line somewhere and try to resist whatever he is doing to pull you in.
xobabygurl28 answered Thursday July 12 2007, 4:00 pm: talk to him, tell him that your not ready..he should respect you when you say no if he doesnt then i think you should find a new man...it might be harder for him to hear no when hes ready to have sex, so when hes not in the mood just tell him your limits and tell him that if he really cares for you he'll respect you when you say no, if he doesnt or he trys to play a guilt trip on you like saying somethin like "well if you really cared for me you would do it" then break up with him, it might be he's just using you [ xobabygurl28's advice column | Ask xobabygurl28 A Question ]
Brandi_S answered Thursday July 12 2007, 3:58 pm: Uh... If he is so dense that he doesn't realize that NO means NO, then you should find yourself a new boyfriend.
You know, one that actually RESPECTS you?
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