My names Kae. Im 13 and im here to help give you advice. Ya never know, I may learn something new from you as you will surely from me!
Website: Kae's Advice
Gender: Female
Location: New York
Occupation: babysitter
Age: 13
AIM: KaElloLaLa23
Member Since: December 31, 2005
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So i spent the night at my friends house.
Her brother and I were watching a movie.
He got up to get something to drink.
I put my feet on the sofa,then he came back he didnt move my feet instead he grabed a pillow and layed on me.
Then later on her grabed my hands.
Awhile after that,i was on him.
As in he was siting down,and my legs were over his.
He out his face on mine.
As if,he wanted me to kiss him.
But i just huged him.
Later after everyone fell alseep,he kissed my on my forehead.
We talked a bit,then he stole my pillow.
So i was forced to get up and sit on the floor and take my pillow back.
He didnt let me have it back,so instead i layed down with him.
He held my hand,kissed are hands.
And kissed me couple more times on my forehead.
Then fell alseep.
Next day,It was like nothing happened.
Im confused,i mean did he just want someone to lay on and hold hands?
Please,dont delete.
Im not sure,what to think.
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dear, confused
this is kind a weird. maybe you should check with him, tlak with him to see what he was trying to do? hes your friends brother not your friend. Maybe this means something if it does YAY!!!! go for it . talk 2 him. if he said he just wanted to hold your hand, say fine, walk away and go from there. if that was all do you think he was worth it? i dont!! If you do maybe talk to him more and more so you can become friends and then do the move he did. watch a movie and cuddle up! it may work.
from you helperXOXO
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ok well i met him before and now on aim and myspace he doesnt talk to me but he told me he liked me and along time ago we should hang out AGAIN but now he doesnt talk to me?? he asked me that a month ago and i like him alot but he likes other girls how do i get him to like me again? should i talk to him? or should i not give in. i have been waiting pathedicly for him to write me something. but he never does. but he does to other girls. yeah im kinda really obsessed with him.
so.
should i talk to him?
should i wait?
how do i make him want me?
WHAT SHOULD I DO!! (link)
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Dear pathedic abbsessed person,
ok i personally dont think hes worth it. If you really deep down think that if you two went out you would actually feel better and it would be a good step go for it! I think if you reeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeellly like him you should maybe try talking to him. maybe call him, go up to him, I.M. him and see whats up with him. mybe say you were staring at me Why? or sumthin. Try to make him say sumthin. Maybe you could ask one of his friends or one of yours.
Hope i helped.you can im me at KaElloLaLa23 if you need more help.
From , xox your helper
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I like my best friend more than a friend...is this bad?
P.S.-were both girls... (link)
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ok... no its not baad.. if your a lesbian and shes not it could be bad and could ruin your friendship. she may excpect that your flirting with her or checking her out. but if she is also no it could be good. its not your fault your a lesbian and are having feelings for your friend.
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i have a sore throat, i have these sores on my tongue and my gums are red and are like taking over my teeth. litterally. is this normal because my gums kinda hurt and its just plain scary.. can someone tell me whats wrong ? (link)
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you probably have strep thorougt or larangitus.
theyre both infections in your thorought. you should get them checked, and get medicine
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i am 13 female and i think that i am lesbian. i dont want to be lesbian and i want to stop. how do i stop being lesbian? i havent make out with a girl yet but here are the things i like: 1)girls kissing. 2) "perfect" breast. 3) cute faces. and 4) hearing girls moan during sexual things. i think that the cute face and perfect breast thing is just me being insecure about myself but what about the other things? anyway how did i become lesbian in the first place? is it in my genes or something? i need help!!!!!
i rate 5"s for good answers! (link)
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dear lesbo,
u cant change being a lasbian . its just something thats in your genes. its not your fault and u cant change it. you could go out with guys but it wouldnt be the same. if you like girls!! thats awesome! more power to ya!
i hope i was helpful im new at this.
sincerely, your helper
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ok well ive liked this gurl ever since iv known her, 4th grade, and i used to try an make her laugh to like me, well now were older, im 13 adn so is she, so yah i mean at this age we have alot of emotions and dk about things, but we went out over the summer adn had our first kiss.. but she left me the next week for a guy she supposably 'loved' but now thinks is a fag, and well then after a while we both saw other people, my g/f broke up with me a few months ago, for total confusin, and the gurl ive known since 4th grade , just broke up wiht her b/f lets say a wekk or so ago i dk soon lol, wel before she broke up wiht her b/f she said she had feelings for me, and she couldnt choose who, and then she told me she had ben lying baout her b/f to me for months, and it was rele a kid from my class, but any way so i had thot i liked this other gurl, but then like i went over to hmm lets call her sarah(gurl since 4th grade)s house last night, we watched movies in her basment , and soon enough we wer makin out on her couch, like for what seemed like hours, and i truely love her so much, i rele care about her, shes my life(im not a stalker just care about her ok) and well today i talked to her, adn well she sais she just wants to be freinds wit benifets.... and i mean im ok wiht htat kissin her and stuff, but i rele rele want her, i want to go out wiht her , i want to be with her, but she sais that shes scared to go out with me, because shes scared she'l hurt me like she did in the summer , so i just said, oh ok yah thats cool, so now the gurl who i had a crush on before might ask me out , or somthn i dont know, but i dk what to do, 'sarah' sais if an opportunity comes for a g/f that i had to promise to go for it, because she thinks that i need somone better for me, but i cant, i wont , no1 is better for me, i mean we have so much chemistry, and were closer than anyone ive ever ben wiht , no lie, we are like so close we know we care about eachother even as freinds, but i know what i want, and i think that she might be scared , scared of hurting me, scared of gettin close, to close to fal in love wit somone, so yah, i mean, idk im just gonna wait, theres nothin i can do, so thats y i came here
-waht can i do to show her not to be affraid but to take a chance, shes different than she was in the summer, and to take a chance and be able to be happy, because i know shes not, she knows shes not, but i thinnk she was happy last night , ..so was i... wel i rele love her, adn i wanna know some tips on what to do to go overboard for her and i need somthin to get her, to make her need me like i need her, ill rate huge for even an answer at all! (link)
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dear reader,
i dont no why " sara" doesnt like you. you sound like a perfect boyfriend. a loyal, loving boyfriend. you would be a guy i would be looking for, but she may have a reason. all girls don't like having serious relationships at 13. they like to be able to mingle and be single and spend time with friends instead of her boyfriends all the time. you may be able to try just asking her why she doesnt like you. maybe you could fix it. if she was making out with you she has to like you some or shes just a very friendly friend.lol. maybe shes ust not the one for you. it could b a sign. if you love her maybe you should see what she likes in a guy or else maybe move on to other girls. maybe shell see how loving u r and want you back. try it.
sincerely, your helper
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i dont know whats wrong with me. lately i have been thinking of killing myself. i dont know why. i have a bf and a wonderful family and friends but it doest seem worth it. i just keep thinking why not? i cant help it. i also draw the pictures of death. im a very good artist so the pictures are really good. i will sit with a pen in my hand and its like they just jump on the papper one mminute i will bethinking of what to draw and then im done and looking at this picture of death.i just think somethings wrong with me. i just want to die you know nothing can help i try leaving my house adn going fro a wlak. i just quit using and am trying to quit cuting but i only have one good friend i can depend on. do you think i have a serious problem? shoudl i tell me mom? shouold i try to get help? do u have any ideas that could help me? im just afraid that one day i m,ight end up trying to kill my self. please help i will rate really high. love the invisable girl xoxo (link)
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ok.. You reely should talk to your mom and if you don't fell comfortable talking to her maybe you can ask her to bring you to a therapist. I went to one once but it was because of my parents devorce. it really helped. Its someone who you can just talk to. you realy shouldnt let a weapon ruin your life. suicide sucks!!! one of my friends commited suicide and i really miss her. you said you have a boyfriend. dont u think i would miss you? your mother , your family? if you think your life should end what about theres when your gone? i really think you should talkk 2 someone so you can straighten your life up. good luck and think about the ones you love.
from, you helper
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13/m. I'm sorry if this is kind of long. you see, I have this sort-of friend: she's in all of my classes except for one, so we talk a lot. She makes fun of me sometimes, but I really don't think she means it, because things are regular again by next period. I kind of like her, but not really. And the acts as though she likes me sometimes. But, I really don't want anything to happen between us, since I've already made my New Year's resolution to get this one particular girl to like me.
So anyway, that girl, let's call her Jane, her mom died two weeks ago. I've never had to sit through a death before---I'm lucky enough that nobody in my family has ever died. And the only time anyone's parent has died other than Jane's is in 2nd grade, when I couldn't really grasp the meaning of death.
In all our classes two weeks ago, we were just talking about death and stuff. It was really depressing. In one class, things got so deep that half the class was crying. I myself was in tears, as I nearly am recalling this. But not because I knew and missed Jane's mother. Not because it reminded me of a dead relative that I had. Because I could finally grasp the meaning of death.
So, everyone's really depressed now, and she got to miss school two weeks ago the whole week---I would want to, if my parents had died. She's coming back on Tuesday, when vacation ends. One Thursday and Friday, all her teachers---which meant all my teachers except for one---received e-mails from her dad saying that we shouldn't talk about this "event" unless Jane brings it up first. But me, I'm a really shy person, and not having experience with anything like this, I'm probably gonna feel really awkward talking to her. I won't know what to say. I'm sure of it, it happens to me all the time. Whenever something goes wrong with anybody, I never know what to say. I don't really want to say anything like "we're right behind you" or "we got your back", because however true it may be, it may or may not give the impression that I like her.
So, I guess the whole point I'm trying to make here is that I'd feel awkward talking to her. I could've just said "i have a sort of frend whos mom died what to i do" but I feel that I can get a more personal answer if you have some background information. I will probably rate you. Smartasses get reported. Thank you, school starts again on Tuesday!!! (link)
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Dear reader,
I know what you mean about not wanting to talk to her. It is kind of awkward. In second grade my best friends dad died. I didnt understand fully but it still upset me.I talked to her but i didnt bring it up . all i told her is that if she needed to talk i was here for her. She did talk to me once but it was quick. I think you should try to just be her friend. Mabe she was mean to you because of the problems with her mother if she was sick... I think even if your not truely friends you should still be there for her. Shes going thorugh a ruff time and needs a friend. just be her friend, maybe eat with her at lunch, help her study be her friend. If shes mean to you just wlak away and atleast you'll no you tried.
Good Luck!!
Sincerley, your helper
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My mom doesn't want me to have suade sneakers. She thinks they'll get ruined in the rain. Do they? If they do does they water proofing spray really work? Is there anyway I can convince my mom to let me get them? Thank you. (link)
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ok.. swade shoes to get ruined in the rain as do all shoes but if you have another pair of shoes why do ya have to wear them on the days it rains? wear a different shoe!! water spray doesnt always work..i think you should wear the suade on nice days but keep in mind that over the summer suade is hott!!!
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Hi everyone,
I'm 15/f and I'm going into 9th grade this year. I was wondering what I should shop for when I go clothes shopping. I'm so used to wearing spaghetti-strapped shirts with jeans since I wore stuff like that over the summer. It's just that spaghetti-strapped shirts aren't allowed to be worn unless a hoodie or zip-up jacket or something is worn over it. I don't wanna have to wear a lot of hoodies this year, because I wore them a lot during 7th and 8th grade. If anyone can, please let me know what stores sell cute long sleeve shirts that would look good with jeans. You can also let me know what stores sell cute short sleeve shirts. I usually shop in the mall like at Deb, Aeropostale, and G&G. I also like to go to Kohl's a lot. I don't want shirts that are going to be really expensive. If you can, please help me out. Does anyone know where they sell some cute purses right now also? I really need a new one! Thank you so much! I really appreciate it. :-) (link)
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ok.. Aeropostale is deffenetly a great store. you may also wanna try Rue 21 or forever 21.. i shop there.. it has cute purses and great shirts, long and short plus other nice stuff
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I know girls will judge another girl on their clothing, but do guys care if your not wearing abercrombie or hollister? (I know I sound very shallow thinking all guys judge on stupid things but its been bothering me) It just doesnt seem right that guys dont need to wear amercrombie but girls seem almost required to or they're pushed out. Another question, do guys prefer strait hair over curly? thanks in advance, I'll rate for anyone who can give me a decent answer. (link)
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ok.. ill help you on which guys like better curly and bouncy or staight and sleek. well my brothers 16 and i asked him he said he likes redheads with bouncy curls but then i asked some friends and i got all different answers. some guys siad straight some said curly, some said wavy, some said short some said long..it depends on the guy..if you like a guy maybe you should just do what you think. maybe try out mant different styles. wear curls on monday straight tuesday wavey wednesday and so on. see the results. guys are picky but its worth it not for the look but for the attention.
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ok i was just wondering if anyone knew of any hair products that will make your hair straighter...
i used to use an iron to straighten my hair but that REALLY kills your hair....so now i use remington wet 2 straight hair straightener...it makes my hair puffy and frizzy...
does anyone know of shampoo that straightens your hair...or a GOOD hair straightener...
i just dont want frizzy hair...so just ANY hair products that doesnt make your hair frizzy...and makes it straighter...
please and thank you!!! (link)
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you may wanna try Friz ease by navalene. my hair use to be crazed but now its just pretty and i get compliments all the time. it makes it silky and strate and if you have curly hair just put it on and it will make it not frizzy with a silkier touch
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hey guys... im looking for a good deoderant that will accualy work for me.. like ive tried secret platinum protection but it doesnt stop me sweating.. theres like no odor but i just sweat and id like to get a new one before school starts... well pleaase help and thank you! (link)
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Ok...Your deoderant cant stop you from sweating but it can protect your smelly oder. Bam sweet surender smells really good and it does make me less sweaty. i think it has like a sheild for sweat. I use secret that smells good. It doesnt stop the seating but it does make you sweat not go through your shirt
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Hey. I like the whole preppy look. So anyone know some stores that aren't expensive. Thanks! Rate 5's. (link)
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Rue 21
forever 21
Aeropostale
hollister( hit the sale racks)
AMerican Eagle
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OK so my hair is wayyyyyyyy thick and frizzy, like totally thick. If i get it cut to about shoulder length, and get 2 layers taken off, will i see a big difference? Will other people? I alwayssss wear my hair up, so can yu still see the difference? and will it be easier to straighten, cus with the way my hair is now, it takes about 2 hours. Lots of questions, i know, but i'll rate high for any help (link)
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Ok...my hair is reeally frizzy and thick..I know what you mean about it takes to hours to straighten..I know..!! DONT CUT YOUR HAIR OFF!! when you do that it frizzes out like bozo the clown and it looks BAD!! i did it when i was younger and i looked bad .it was so crazy! thick and frizzy.my hair is now longer and its taming down as i get older maybe yours will to. I use Pumaid on my hair that you can get at like Fantastic Sams. It makes it slick and pretty! Maybe you should try it just dont cut you hair off. maybe you can trim the layers but dont cut it to short. good luck!
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