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Question Posted Monday January 2 2006, 3:07 am

So i spent the night at my friends house.
Her brother and I were watching a movie.
He got up to get something to drink.
I put my feet on the sofa,then he came back he didnt move my feet instead he grabed a pillow and layed on me.
Then later on her grabed my hands.
Awhile after that,i was on him.
As in he was siting down,and my legs were over his.
He out his face on mine.
As if,he wanted me to kiss him.
But i just huged him.
Later after everyone fell alseep,he kissed my on my forehead.
We talked a bit,then he stole my pillow.
So i was forced to get up and sit on the floor and take my pillow back.
He didnt let me have it back,so instead i layed down with him.
He held my hand,kissed are hands.
And kissed me couple more times on my forehead.
Then fell alseep.
Next day,It was like nothing happened.
Im confused,i mean did he just want someone to lay on and hold hands?

Please,dont delete.

Im not sure,what to think.




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TinkerbellsHelp answered Wednesday January 4 2006, 7:40 pm:
I think he was just embaressed that next morning. And plus, his sister and parents (?) were around so he probably didn't want them to think that you two were an "item". Plus.. think about if you were in his position. It would be quite embarrasing if you liked your brothers friend and then your parents know about it. And maybe he thought that if they knew, they would think you guys did a little more (like.. sex or make out) last night. Or he could be embaressed around you because he opened himself up a little the night before.
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Gossip_Girl answered Tuesday January 3 2006, 7:19 pm:
I think that if your friend doesn't know or that his parents don't know then he is just hiding it from them. Or maybe he thought that you didn't like it and now he just is pretending that that stuff didn't happen. But i think he still likes you, I doubt that he just wanted someone to hold hands and lay on. Does your friend know? Is he older or younger than you. Just leave comment when you rate and please rate high i am just trying to help. Thanx

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ImGoingUnder answered Monday January 2 2006, 6:53 pm:
maybe he did just want someone to lay with and hold hands with. you should talk to him and see what he thinks. and ask him why he was doing that stuff with you. maybe he does like you and doesnt want it to show so other people know about it

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SWEETXLOVE answered Monday January 2 2006, 1:21 pm:
lol aw that sounds like a fun night ;) but i think he was kind of embarassed and confused..maybe he does have feelings for you but like since your friends with his sister..its sort of weird you know? one time my brothers friend and i madeout and then..like a couple days later we didnt talk so it was kind of weird. but thats a different story hah! umm i would talk to him about it and see what he was feeling and why he was flirting and doing all that stuff with you..obviously he has something for you tho! hope everything works out for the best hun! if you need anything else be sure to let me kno
&hearts; Kristen

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SoInToYoUx0x answered Monday January 2 2006, 1:13 pm:
this is a hard question to answer but i will try my best to answer it.

i think this guy likes you but is tryin to hide it. it mgiht have been that last night he was feelin a lil horny and wanted you to do someing wit him but didnt. my advice to you is to go talk to this guy in private and explain to him why did what happened that night happen.
*~Stephanie~*

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Beloved_x_Eyes answered Monday January 2 2006, 1:12 pm:
Wow, well it really seems like a lot of stuff happened that night. You have to realize how awkward that is. He acted like nothing ever happened because you were in front of everyone else. Plus, he was probably embarassed. He just didnt want people (ESPECIALLY his sister!) to find out. If you like him, I would talk to him about it. And figure out if he likes you or whatnot. BUT, if you think that this will ruin your relationship with your friend, then forget about it!

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naimee answered Monday January 2 2006, 10:21 am:
He might've just felt embarassed. Some guys are shy like that. He might just feel like a dumbass because he flirted with you so much. I'm sure that he likes you, otherwise he wouldn't have been touching/kissing you so much. I think your best bet is to talk to him about it. Just reassure him that you're happy about what happened that night, and you want to know why he's acting weird.

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KaebabeeXO answered Monday January 2 2006, 9:31 am:
dear, confused

this is kind a weird. maybe you should check with him, tlak with him to see what he was trying to do? hes your friends brother not your friend. Maybe this means something if it does YAY!!!! go for it . talk 2 him. if he said he just wanted to hold your hand, say fine, walk away and go from there. if that was all do you think he was worth it? i dont!! If you do maybe talk to him more and more so you can become friends and then do the move he did. watch a movie and cuddle up! it may work.


from you helperXOXO

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Imperialistic answered Monday January 2 2006, 6:31 am:
Wow, this is a difficult question. I don't have enough information to get a better answer for you (i.e. How long have you known him? Did he go through a hard time? What did you guys talk about?)
He probably has feelings about you. It was late at night so he was feeling pretty unguarded, got caught up in the moment and became really affectionate. Then he was ok in the morning because he's used to acting normal around you.
On the other hand, If this was last night, it was New Years and maybe he felt lonely and needed someone to be with who he felt close to.
I'm going with theory number one though, this isn't very platonic behavior. The important thing is for you to figure out how you feel about him having feelings for you.

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