ergh well my name is amanda, but everyone calls me mandy...im known to laugh alot, at almost any situation. i almost always have a smile on my face.Basically i rele like to have fun, and stuff. people think im a quiet chick, wel most of the time i am, but i can be rele crazy if ur a good friend of mine.im very perverted so ya, lol thats about it, and i love to read
E-mail: mandy_moo_moo_rocks@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: missouri
Occupation: student
Age: 13
AIM: BeMy1Hero
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I lovelovelove plaid bermuda shorts...
Where can I get them for less than $40?
(Hollister's a little too expensive for me...)
Thanks! (link)
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$15 at Target.
I have some, and I love them. =)
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Is is true that Christian Bale really lost all that weight for the movie The Machinist? If so how is it posible to do that?! (link)
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Yes he really did lose all that weight for The Machinist, heres what it says on Imdb:
"Dropped an amazing 63 pounds for his role as the emaciated insomniac Trevor Reznik in the film Maquinista, El (2004) with only a single vitamin consultation with a nutritionist to guide him. For the most part, he only ate salads and apples, chewed gum, smoked cigarettes, and drank nonfat lattes."
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Ok well to start off im what you call a prep. I wear abercrombie & fitch hollister aeropastale american eagle & sometimes shop at pac sun & shop at buncha other stores with preppy brands. But my question is what are some good brand of shoes that are nice & that preps usually wear ? & That are black ? Because I just got white nikes & I was gonna get black ones to but my mom told me to get another brand. But the problem is I dont know what brand I should get. I want a preppy type brand. Cause I use to wear the skater shoes like dc & etnies (SP). But now I just want to dress all preppy. Instead of wearing the skater shoes. So what are some good brands & nice shoes that are black ?? If you can send a link to a picture that would be great. But you dont have to. Just give me a brand & where to buy them. Thanks in advance !! (link)
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you could probably get black burkenstocks, i know one of my friends that has a pair. but, if you're looking for tennis shoes, try pumas, or adidas.
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okay, ive been thinking about what i am...straight, bi, lesbian. and i dont know.like i think i am bi but im not sure. i found out the other day that my ex is bi and that made me think alot about myself. like if i did anything wrong or something. but i dont know. i think i am bi. but i dont want to be, cuz if i am, then my friends and family would hate me. im only 13 an usually when kids are younge and say the arent straight, people usually dont take them seriously and say "oh your straight, your just saying that to get attention" well im not trying to get attention. im just confused. (link)
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hey, well im in the same boat as you, im 13, and have no idea what i am. but just give yourself some time to think about what you think you are, whether it be, bi, straight, or lesbian.. just give it time, and if you want, try experimenting with other girls to see if you like it. if you're not sure, about your sexuality, don't tell people, that you're bi, because in time you could realize that youre not bi, and everyone wouldnt believe if you were or werent bi..so give it some time, and just think about it..=]
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Okay so theres kid who i havent talked to in a while. & we started talking again today. for some reason whenever i talk to him i get like butterflys or something. i used to like him before but then i didnt like him. do you think i might like him again.? what do yah think? (link)
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ok, i know exactly how you feel, this happens to me all the time.. it could be possible that you like him again, or jsut that you knew you used to like him, thats giving you butterflies.. but if you think you like him, definatley try to persue it, and see what happens
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My boyfriend went with this best friend for his 18th birthday to a strip club..i feel kind of pisssed and disgusted..is this ok to feel this way or am i goin overboard? idk i just feel kind of uncomfortable to think that naked women are gunna be all over him.. (link)
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no, you're not going overboard, its totally normal to be disgusted and pissed at the thought of having naked women over him. just talk to him, and tell him that you didnt like it, and you'd appreciate it, if he didnt do it again.
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I am possibly thinking about going on an airplane in the near future and would like your advice/opinions about Airplanes. I would like to know who has been on one, How do you like flying, What do you love about Flying, what do you hate about flying and what advice you would give to me if I were to fly. Feel free to answer my question and really good advice in great detail will get a 5. (link)
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make sure you bring gum to chew when your taking off... flying is really fun, once you get up in the air its sort of a shock but then you get used to it. what i love about flying is when you travel over different types of lands, you see it all. you just get a real good view from up there. definetly bring some music, book or something to do, because it can get pretty boring. well theres nothing i really hate about flying, well maybe the noise the people can cause but other than that nothing really. the first time you take off and land, can be a bit frightning, but once you get used to it, it can be loads of fun!
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Anyone know any good slow songs that you can just sit back to and cry? Thanks!
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mkay
my heart will go on- celine dion
because you loved me- celine dion
my immortal-evanescence
listen to your heart-DHT.. the non techno version
only one- yellowcard
...ummm yeah those are songs, that i cry to alot, so they may work for you!
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Well recently my best freind told me that she no longer wanted to be my friend just because i wasnt pretty enough and all most everyone has to disagree with that she also told me i didnt have enough money because i could never go out to the mall movies ect.. very often cuz i never had the money. Then she wrote me a note in class today and said you dont have a good enough body to be my friend im only friends with people that weigh less than 103pounds! SO what should i do to prove to her i am a good person even though i dont have as much money to spend as she does? Should i start skipping meals to loose weight? Should i duble my gumnastics classes i mean i go once a week for 3.5 hours and its really expencive so how do i prove it to her? Please help!!!!!
Alyssa/13/f (link)
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Ok, well if shes saying all this stuff to you, you shouldn't do anything to prove yourself, because you are already better than her. Who ever has standards for thier friends is just really lame. Sorry to say, but she was never really your friend, she was just there for the fun of having someone. So I think that you should just forget about this girl, because, shes just being a retard. You can't help it that, you don't have enough money, have the right body, or what ever. If she was a TRUE friend, she wouldnt care. So forget about her, shes gonna do nothing, but bring you down about your self.
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ok im 13/f, turning 14 this year and i really want to get a second hole in my ear. the problem is, my mom wont let me. how can i convince her to let me get one? and another thing, does it hurt? becuase i got my first hole when i was a baby and dont really remember it...thankss ♥dAnieLLe (link)
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well maybe you could make a deal with your mom, like if you get good grades on your report card, and keep the house clean, then you can get a second hole. and no it doesnt hurt, its just stings for a couple minutes.
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My bf broke up with me, he gave me an excuse pretty much he said well if we fight this much now how are we going to have a future and we're going to ruin our friendship. Ok it's an excuse bc I was willingly to do anything for us to not fight but he wasn't. I really love him, when he broke up with me I had to have one of my friends stop me from not starving myself or cutting myself. I can't stop crying, it just can't be over I need to talk to him. What do I say is this over u heartbreaker? lol It's weird bc we only had a few fights and stuff and we were doing good a few days ago..please what do I do I'd do anything for this boy and anything to get him back ik thats desperate..but I LOVE HIM!!!!! (link)
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well missy, I know exactly the situation you're in, and I felt exactly like you. Except, i did do "it" and it sucks, so dont do it, it leaves scars, and i wish i never would have done it. so please dont do it, its a mistake. and well you know im here for you so email, IM me, what ever. and i know what you mean it can't be over, who knows maybe its not, maybe he will come back to you. you know how blake is, he always changes his mind, just dont let him get to you. And it was the same exact way with me, we were fine a couple days before, and then WHAM he did the worst thing possible. i'd do anything for him too, and we are very desperate.. haha.. well we cant help it, we really truly deeply love him. And we believed it when he said he loved us. And it could be true, you know, he could stil love you, he could still love me, or not, but you know wat we will get over him, just not any time soon. And hopefully his new g/f will realize wat an ass he is, and dump him. all you can do really is just let time go by and maybe one day he will come bcak, just have faith. if its really meant to be, love will find a way, trust me. and if not, then im sorry, but you will find another person and be like "wtf, blake was just a first love, and he wil not be forgotten,but i love bob now"..well hope everything works out.. dont let him get to you.
-amanda-
lylas, much
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i like that bob character too!! lol..only if he would hurry up and come!!!!, lol
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ok so i love my boyfriend. he doesn't know this.. ok so i wanna hint to him that i do cuz im scared to just say it and ddont say just come out and say it. .. so what are some good hints. (link)
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well, you could be like:
You: lets play a game.
Him: like wat...
You: guess who I love.
Him: i don't know.. your family
You: yeah true. but keep guessing..
Him: uhh
You: come on its easy..
Him: me
You: yay you got it
..something like that.. i did it w/ my b/f and he thought it was cute, so maybe it will work for you..and if it doesnt, then, just come out and say it.
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theres this girl, lets call her...ariella. shes beautiful, funny, nice...almost seems perfect. but i'm not friends with her at all. she's in my classes but we never talk. she's not in my range at all, and i would never dream of asking her out. how do i be just friends with her...13/m (link)
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well just start a conversation with her. Since shes in your class maybe you could start a convo with her about the assignment, or ask to borrow a pencil. Or if she seen a certain show that you both watch. Just be friendly,and eventually you guys will become friends.
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Alright. So for about three years i had the same best friend. We were really close and nothing ever got in between us. After three years though, i met another girl who kinda took her place. We were best friends for about a year and a half, but then i met ANOTHER girl who also took the place of my other best friend. After a very short time, me and that girl got too much of each other. I really dont know what to do. It's like i can't have a best friend but i always have at least 5 really great ones. Can anyone relate or give advice on how to get used to my best friend's flaws? (link)
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I can relate totally, its a really hard situation to be in when having more than one best friend, because eventually they will all feel left out somehow. So what i suggest trying to do is just spread your time evenly amongst them and everything should be ok.
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Ok, so I like this guy. Alot. Like, he's all I think about, and my heart skips a beat every time I hear his name/voice and I kinda semi stalk him (wich I'm trying to not do, cuz I know it's wrong...and kinda creepy)
Anywho, I'm not sure if I should tell him I like him/ask him out because not telling him and pining away in silence is killing me, but being rejected would only kill me faster.
I think he's kinda hung up on/hurting from these other girls, but he might be over it, I dunno and so now I don't know if I should make a move or not... (link)
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if you really want him, but you think hes still hung up on these girls, become his friend first and just have a good time talking about random. Maybe he will get over those other girls and see something in you. But if you don't feel like waiting that long, then just make a move and see how he reacts, or leave him a note in his locker.. something that will catch his attention and think "wow i already like this girl, shes doesnt do stuff the normal way"
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Okay, I got most of my fathers genes in me. I have extremely hairy arms, I do shave them though. As a girl, it embarrasses me very badly. I've been to doctors and they've given me pills to see less hair growth, but the hair that was already there will just keep growing. (Which is a lot) I'm in my first year of highschool, and I'm VERY self conscious about my arms. I wear long sleeves/jackets until I can't take it anymore. (And I live in Texas, so it is already sooo hot right now) What do you suggest I do? Keep shaving them? It's time consuming, every other day I have to do it cause my hair grows back so fast, and it's just now fair other girls have basically no hair on their arms & they do nothing to them. Ahh, what to do, I have to start wearing short sleeves, the heats too much. (link)
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hey, i have the same problem, im a girl and i have some of the hairiest arms I've ever seen. There really nothing you can do about it, because shaving them will just make it grow back harrier and thicker, so the best thing to do is stop shaving. And I'm self conscious about my arms to, but if you are hot enough, you wont care what people think about your arms.
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I would like teenagers to answer this one,
My daughter is 13. But the clothes she wears are not...happy. She always is sarcastic. She listens to strange, loud music. Is this the fashion these days? Should I let her be? (link)
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ok we need a little bit more info about your daughter, like what do you mean "not happy". like are they all black and really big or are they small and tight fitting?, loud strange music i assume would be heavy metal, its heavy metal if its like really loud guitars and drums and they are screaming,or it sounds like a growling.
well from the info you've given and from the info I assumed, yeah its some of the fashion today, and just let her be, because if you try to change her she won't like and she'll most likely end up hating you for changing her. Its normal alot of teens are the same way as your daughter, and its okay. You don't want your daughter to be something shes not. let her be herself, you will regert it if you change her.
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Ok I have a great bf and love him but my ex bf who is also my best friend got a new gf and idk why but it hurts..i mean it shouldnt but it does cause i keep imaging she's so much prettier and better IDK WHY!! is this normal? thanks (link)
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hey, dont compare yourself to her. thats not good. Just relax maybe you are hurting because this was once your b/f and you don't like to see him in any other relationship, because you could stll have a little bit of feelings for him..not that you do. just saying its possible, and yeah its normal, so just chill and forget all about this other girl.
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My friend told me that he fell in love with this girl that he has known for 8 years. He asked me to ask her out for him but she said no and i dont know how to tell him. Im 14/m by the way i really need your advice. (link)
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you should tell him immediatley that she said no because the longer you wait, the worse its going to end, and when you tell him, tell him in person, not over the phone, email, IM.. do it in person, it shows that you actually care about the situation.
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you know the sweatpants at victorias secret ... that say pink or whatever ... around how much do they cost ? like a lot ? thx, i rate high (link)
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they are $35-$75, but they are really comfy..
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