My friend told me that he fell in love with this girl that he has known for 8 years. He asked me to ask her out for him but she said no and i dont know how to tell him. Im 14/m by the way i really need your advice.
ImGoingUnder answered Tuesday March 14 2006, 6:34 pm: you should tell him immediatley that she said no because the longer you wait, the worse its going to end, and when you tell him, tell him in person, not over the phone, email, IM.. do it in person, it shows that you actually care about the situation. [ ImGoingUnder's advice column | Ask ImGoingUnder A Question ]
Kathryn answered Tuesday March 14 2006, 5:36 pm: "sorry, she said no" put simple and dont waste all your time warming him up with all his hopes.
hilda32 answered Tuesday March 14 2006, 12:58 am: hey
Well tell him that he needs to ask her out his self maybe the girl said no ebacuse sh wanted him to do it his self you never know well yeh tell him to ask her out his self adn if she rejects tell him he can do better and there is some one out there you just have to wait and tell the gir that she needs to get to nkow him better before saying no
orphans answered Monday March 13 2006, 3:45 pm: I'd just tell him
"she (or the girls name) said no, but maybe you should ask her out yourself"
she could be the type of girl (like me) who would rather him come up to her.
but if she really ment know, let your friend know that you still think he's a cool guy. [ orphans's advice column | Ask orphans A Question ]
thisismydance answered Monday March 13 2006, 2:56 pm: tell him that maybe he should ask for himself. that you cant have someone ask for you i mean is he going to have you kiss her for him too? maybe she just wants him to ask her..... girls do stuff like that trust me i know.. ive done it. tell him to ask her himself if he wants a chance. [ thisismydance's advice column | Ask thisismydance A Question ]
sizzlinmandolin answered Monday March 13 2006, 2:25 pm: Of course she said no. If your friend doesn't have the guts to ask her himself she's not going to want to date him! In the future don't do that for anybody. It really screws everything up and makes it much harder on everyone. There are a few things you can do. Talk to the girl and tell her that you're sorry that you asked her out for your friend. Make it sound like it was your idea because he's been talking about you so much and telling you how much he likes her. Then talk to your friend and tell him that the girl wanted him to ask her out himself. You didn't do anything wrong, but yeah, don't do that again no matter how much your friend begs. Girls HATE it and it can mess up any possibilities of a relationship forming. I hope that everything gets straightened out and good luck! [ sizzlinmandolin's advice column | Ask sizzlinmandolin A Question ]
xOViLLYxO answered Monday March 13 2006, 12:27 pm: Aw well maybe she just doesn't want to screw up a really good friend ship.What I would do if i was you go back and talk to the girl and ask why she said no.Then tell your friend the story but make sure you say it in a all around nice way and just be there for him because he might get sad or something. ♥ [ xOViLLYxO's advice column | Ask xOViLLYxO A Question ]
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