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i used to like this guy right? but somehow he found out and now i dont like him anymore. he wont talk to me and everything is so uncomfortable. what should i do?

well i would either call him or IM him and be like look i kno i used to like you but i dont anymore and even though things have been akward lately i still wana be friends and see what he says ..

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One of my best friend's and I got busted for a drug thing. We know not to do it again, but we got busted by someone's paretns who turned it into ou school.

Now, we're not supposed to talk to each other. But she's one of my best friends ever and I don't know what to do.

So please help. How can I be sneaky and stay friends with her? Any other advice would be appreciated? Thanks so much.

well first of all I would have her tell her parents you kno im a teenager and im going to get in trouble a lot more and she didnt make me do anything I am responsible enough to admit i did it just like I am responsible enough to take the punishsment but you have to realize i am going to get introuble no matter who I am friends with.. and you can pick who im friends with. I mean id still talk to her and write her notes or w/e no one can stop you from talking to someone .. or maybe you could talk to her parents and say sorry?!

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whenever i'm meeting someone i don't know, i have the hardest time keeping a conversation! i'm really outgoing and friendly, but most of the time i just don't know what to talk about and we end up standing there in this awkward silence. any tips / suggestions?? thanks!!

omgahh i hate when that happens but when it does i usually talk abt my personal life and then ask about theres and then usually ill be like omg that reminds me of this one time .. and then you both laugh and it kinda flows from there

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So im a 15 year old sophomore and my dream has always been to be a competiton cheerleader. I am soo dedicated to cheerleading and would do anything to do this. I found a cheerleading place that im going to go to 2morrow to tryout and some people are telling me theres no way i can do it. People are really starting to make me feel down about this. So is competition cheerleading really hard to get into?
Do you have to be a really pretty skinny girl to get in? Im 15...5'6 and weigh 115...and i wanna be a flyer but do i weigh to much to do this or what? this means soo much to me!!

I am a competitive cheerleader and what most people dont know is they arent looking for the skinnest girls with the best jumps .. how you talk to the other girls, how you carry yourself and your attitude really effects a lot. and no matter how much you weigh a good flyer is usually around 5'3. but good luck at tryouts

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Am I missing something? Do most girls lose their virginities by the time they're 16? I'm just amazed, because when I was 12, NOBODY was having sex, or even kissing... and now I hear about 12 year olds having sex! I'm 18, so I'm not THAT old...

I'm just curious...

You are right that is so sad girls these days go that low as to do something like that when they are twelve .. but I have learned more than anything that my boyfriend (3yrs) respects me so much bc I am a virgin and I know when im ready to have sex it will be special .. so wait its like umm ... who wants the beat up last season prada bag when they can have the new colorful louis vuitton that only one in a million get?

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i need to loose weight on my thighs like badly i need so much help its disctuing. what exercizes can i do to slim my legs down by april ill rate 5's

The best way to work on your thighs is pillates .. and pillates is really hard like it is a serious workout but my sister had this same problem and it slimed her legs down like smaller than mine!!

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My friend told me that he fell in love with this girl that he has known for 8 years. He asked me to ask her out for him but she said no and i dont know how to tell him. Im 14/m by the way i really need your advice.

I would be like okay i dont want to tell you this but i am bc i care about you ... she doesnt feel the same way about you but that doesnt mean your not a great guy bc you are and any girl would be lucky to date you .. let him down easy

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i am only 14!! and i am having a baby!! and my ex broke up with me before he even found out! and he's still there for me and we're going back out now! but idk how to handle it!

okay well most ppl would tell you 14 is too young to have sex at and i mean dont get me wrong i think it is but there isnt much you can do to change that now .. id tell my parents .. and see what they say .. the sooner the better bc eventually they will find out and im guna be straight up with you its going to be hell either way .. so tell them and make him be there with you for support. if you need anything else feel free to ask

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sometimes i jsut dont want to talk, and people notice that im not talking. I dont know waht it is but I just dont wanna open my mouth and its depressing. People always think im sad but i just really would rather not talk, i feel like i dont want people to hear me( which is weird cause ive wanted peopel to hear what i say all my life)

please halp

Maybe you are just afraid people will reject what you have to say bc in middle school I was like that .. like a group of girls may be talking and id have something really good to say to add to the convo but i never did bc i was so scared ppl would be like umm yeah w/e and id feel so retarded .. but then oneday i was like omg w/e and i just said what i wanted and everyone loved me .. so if thats the case dont even worry what other people think .. lifes to short for that .. but i also get in moods where i just dont want to talk which is normal .. my doctor told me some people just need more alone time then others.

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Iam 16 years old and I was wondering how old do I have to be to move out without a parent's permission in the state of georgia so I can move in with my boy friend?

Thanks in advice.

I live in GA and you must be 17. But let me just warn you my friend did that and they broke up and then she was out on her ass with no money .. no house .. no anything and her parents were like no you need to learn a lesson .. it was so hard for her. I mean im sure you and your boyfriend are great together but just consider the possible scenarios!!

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okay you know how some people say you're lighter when you weigh yourself in the morning?? is that true?? i was wondering what your real weight was..like in the morning er in the afternoon/day because i noticed when i weigh myself in the morning i weigh less than at night.

thanks!!

Yes that is so true. Since you have been asleep all night your body is well rested and at its tip top shape. And after you have been walking around all day and your tired everything is weighing down.

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my sister seems to hate me; she tells her friends that she does, and she hold no respect for me or anyone. she is difficult to live with, and I was wondering if anyone had any ideas as to how to make our relatinship better.

I would talk to her oneday and be like look i kno we dont see eye to eye but I want us to be friends and act mature about this. I know we dont get along that well but you could make an effort .. but be really nice about and if she still acts mean then she is immature and you can laugh in her face about being older and still acting younger

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Okay i have got stetch marks all over my upper thighs, hips and bottom. i have been using palmers coco butter everyday since january and still have seen no change/improvement

so does it really work?

or is there anything else i could use to help fade them a little?

i know you cant get rid of them completely

well all girls experience stretch marks but you will eventually grow into them and they wont be noticeable .. so until then continue with the cocoa butter

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In between haircuts I often cut my own split ends off. Like if I happen to see one I'll just grab a pair of scissors and cut it off. Is this bad? All my friends tell me I shouldn't do this, butI thought cutting them off was a good thing.

well it is such a myth the more you cut your hair the faster it grows. every six weeks a trim will keep your hair healthy. and if you are going to put heat on it then use some type of hair serum.

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I HATE my best friend. She just gets on my nerves. She NEVER listens to me and she crys alot and she says I make a big deal out of everything. But honestly its her.
What should I do?

Sounds to me like you need to tell her be like look i love you but your seriously annoying and sometimes you do things that drive me crazy .. if she doesnt stop drop her!~

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omgawsh!! your so pretty how do you do your make up!?

aww thank you!! i just wear mac powder cover girl blush loreal mascara and NYC lip gloss!!

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Hey I need advice asap! 18 female. I am currently about 2-4 days late on my period. Also i usually start my period before my best friend and she is already started. So here is the deal. My boyfriend and i fooled around, with him inside me...but he didn't cum inside me and he was inside me for about 2 mins at themost. What are my chances of being pregnant . i am so worried and paranoid.
Please help

oh love .. dont even sweat it .. i have been in MANY times.. get 2 tests to make sure the first one is accurate and my gyno told me that if your nervous the stress just postpones ur period longer so just breathe

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My boyfriend and I have been together for 9 months. We're really close and I trust him with my life. I think we're ready to take our relationship farther, on a physical scale. But whenever we talk about sex we're just kidding I guess. And he seems really timid to talk to me about it. He's not a virgin, so he's been in the "wanting to have sex" position before. But I'm wondering, am I doing the right thing by talking to him about it, or should I just leave it up to him or go for it in the heat of the moment?

well me and my boyfriend have been together 3 years and we just started having sex. its not about what he wants. you should wait until your comfortable. sex will either make or break a relationship and should be treated with a lot of thought. so talking to him about it and telling him you feel is for sure the way to go!

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