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sibling rivalry?
my sister seems to hate me; she tells her friends that she does, and she hold no respect for me or anyone. she is difficult to live with, and I was wondering if anyone had any ideas as to how to make our relatinship better.
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Sit down with her and ask her why she dislikes you. Ask her how you can make your relationship better with her. If she chooses not to cooperate, then ask some of her friends if she says why she hates you. If you really want to have a good relationship then you have to bend a bit.
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I would talk to her oneday and be like look i kno we dont see eye to eye but I want us to be friends and act mature about this. I know we dont get along that well but you could make an effort .. but be really nice about and if she still acts mean then she is immature and you can laugh in her face about being older and still acting younger <33
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Hey. I would suggest that you try doing nice things for her (the smallest thing will shape how she sees you). For instance, get her a chocolate candy bar one day. If you make yourself a sandwhich ask her if you wants one too. If you guys are watching TV together ask her who she thinks is the cutest guy on the show or movie you are watching. If you have some free time ask her how was school or if she needs help on her homework. Just be nice and polite and PATIENT. Don't be pushy. She'll see that you're nice and NOT AGAINST HER and she won't see you as a 'rival' but as a sister and a FRIEND. Good luck. I grew up as an only child and now I have a sister but she's 3, but I have cousins (they're a few years older) and I know that if I was anrgy at them or ressented them what would make me think of them as my friends again.
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