I've made my mistakes, I have my faults, I've done my sins. I've been heart broken and have broken hearts as well. There's a lot I've seen, a lot I've heard, and a lot I've been through. I don't know everything but I have my opinions and if you ask me for adivce I will always try to help.
p.s. LOVE IS VILE!!
E-mail: vilelove@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
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Age: 15
Member Since: August 19, 2005
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Last Update: February 5, 2007
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13|f kae. as we all know Valentines Day is only a short way away me and my boyfriend have been going out since January 16. i want to know what i should get him | i dont even know even know if he is getting me anything . what should i do | get him ? (link)
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here are some suggestions:
chocolate (always a classic)
a big kiss (the giant hershey ones)
write him a poem
a mixed CD
a teddy bear
a pciture of the two of you ina pretty frame
bake him a cup cake in the shape of a heart
a rose (guys do lik getting flowers from girls)
p.s. i have a feeling he will get u something.
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I gained about 15-20 pounds over the past 3 or 4 months. Now, I am 140, 5'6". I feel so fat! I have tried to lose the weight but I just don't have the motivation. I exercise plenty, but I eat even more, and I still gain weight. How can I find the motivation to eat less? (link)
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To address you main question, motivation to EAT LESS, I strongly suggest watching Fast Food Nation (...if you eat fast food). It's a documentary about the fast-food process... how they make it.... it's.... eww. I'm never touching that stuff again. Also, take a hobbie. Whenever you are hungry just distract yourself with your new fun hobbie.
Here's a tip to loose weight and PREVENT GAINING WEIGHT: watch what you eat. The next time you go to the grocery store look for light food, fat free food, veggies to make salads, nonfatening food, and foods with lots of fiber (yum lol)
But you should try excercising. Also try the special K challamnge. I lost 7 pounds in two weeks. I started watching what I eat and not eatting too much junk food and I haven't gained them back =)
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I know all schools are different but what are the normal requirements for high school varsity cheerleading if you try out? (link)
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well it depends how good the cheer team is. at my school the try outs are simple.
generally though they want you to be flexible and strong arms/legs and you need to be able to do yur splits (usually just left and right but if you can do your middle pr chinesse splits that helps a lot). It also helps if you can do flips, backflips, cartwheels, handstands, etc.
Also, don't forget you're gong to have to pay hundreds of dollars (jn my school it's over one thousand) for the uniforms and accesories and you'll have to be willing to exercise and stretch and warm up and practice.
oh yes, another IMPORTANT requirement is a good GPA (my school is at least 2.5 Grade Point Avarage)
GOOD LUCK!!!
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I dont know if I believe in a God anymore. It just doesnt seem real. How do I figure this out and stop being confused about it all. Also, my friends believe in God.... should I talk to them about it? Do you think they would be upset with me if I didnt believe in a God? (link)
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Hey there. ...Maybe it's a phase. I went though one. I was questioning God and my religion. For the God part eventually I made my own spiritual connection... with time and meditating. I just figured not everything has to make sense... I felt that maybe our minds can't fully comprehend the concept and the knowledge of the secrets of the universe and existance and stuff but I was at peace with that. I could accept not knowing everything. so it depends why you don't believe in God. For the religion part well I decided I don't agree with every small thing the "Catholic church" says... but I'm still Catholic. The reason I am telling you this is in case your doubt in God comes from disagreements with your church or unanswered questions you have about God.
Well I can't tell you what to believe. And I wish I could hand you your faith back but I can't do that either. You are going to have to go through YOUR spiritual journey and/or evaluate your faith and beliefs and find the answers on your own. ...You know something though, sometimes it helps to believe in God. ...Even if there aren't explanations for everything and stuff... because faith makes you strong. It keeps you warm at night and it gives you something to hold on to. Becuase the truth is that there are no right or wrong answers... at least not for humanity as a whole. We as individuals have to look for our answers. I found my faith. I went though doubts because I was doubting myself... I felt lost and alone and forgotten... now I understand there are challanges in life... but that's OK. There are supposed to be. ...My aunt (who was very religious) forgot everything a few days before she dies. She couldn't remember anyone or even herself. Right before she died she remembered and said her goodbyes... she dies saying Virgin Mary's name... I don't think that's jsut some story... I don't think she saw it because she wanted to see it... I feel very strongly about that and what happened that day and what it meant... when you find what you are looking for you will feel jsut as strong about it and nothing will defy it. You'll see beyond the rules and the things and beliefs impoosed on you. Good luck... I'm sorry if I wasm't much help. Feel free to tell your friends but keep in mind their ideas may be biased since they believe in God (especially if they are very religious). Aslo if you DO tell your friends only tell the ones you really trust and know won't judge you and trust their logic as well =)
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there is these 2 boys in my class and they stare at me and my friend all the time but they look me in the eye they deny that they like me online.but they wont talk to me in person its like theyre scared too.one of the boys talks to the other one about where they live but the other boy already knows where he lives.they also talk about other girls like trying to get me jealous or something he says " i wanna go out with " so and so but i dont know what hes tyring to do ... do you think he likes me ? or my friend what other signs would a boy do if they liked me ? my friend and i pass notes back and fourth and they try to look do they like me ?also one of them did a nod thing i dont know what it means and i asked him on here why he dosent talk to me in school he said i dont know on here and in art class he pulls up his shirt and his friends are at my table and he talks to them alot and stares at me he looks me in the eye but he has a gf theyve been together since june 05
he gets up at lunch time and looks over at my table do you think he likes me ? i dont know what he is trying to do he nods at me ... he told me on here that he nodded to me in school and i turned my head .. if i knew that i wouldnt have also he seems to follow me around school. i dont know whats up with him my bestfriend thinks that he likes me but no1 knows he will only talk to me online not in person it seems like he is scared . (link)
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Hey. Well if either one of those two boys like you only one of them does. The other one knows about it and tells his friend stuff like "she's not looking" or "i think they are passing notes". You know how friends are. I'm sure you've done that when your friend likes someone and you stare at him too although you don't like him that way. You do it for her. Because if they both liked you they wouldn't talk about you together or tell each other they liked you or act funny together lol if you get what I mean.
But to tell you the truth it doesn't really seem like either one likes you. I'm not saying they DON'T like you but it's not enough info to tell if they DO. I mean... ok staring is a very good sign but they only talk 2 you online? That's not very good. Also just how much do they stare at you? Do they look away when you stare back? Because if they do then maybe because they're shy around you (or one of them will be) cause he likes you. If they don't then... that's weird cause they don't talk 2 you. Have you tried talking 2 them in person? Also the one who has his giflreind.... one theory is that he thinks you're hot but it's not like he wants to cheat on his girlfriend so he doesn't really want 2 talk 2 you in person so ppl won't think stuff. But... well ok when he denies liking you online does he say "i don't like you" or "i don't like anybody". And does he mention his girlfriend? If he says he doesn't like anybody and he doesnt mention his gf he may like you. Also, signs would be talking to you a lot (...even if it's online I guess). Like when you get online he strats talking to you or when you talk to him he responds maybe not super fast but it's not like he doesn't respond until the next day or anything. He responds within a reasonable time lenght like an avarage of at least 5 minutes. Also if he asks you who you like and sort of hints that he likes someone but doesn't know how to tell her or that he's scared of rejection or something (lol) ALSO very important it depends the kind of guys they are. Guys who are more open generally tell you that you're hot a lot and stuff but guys that are close and shy don't say anything unless you ask and if they do they don't exagarate and don't say much like they say "you looked pretty" but without being too exagarated or obvious or acting too obsessive. but usally all guys that like you shy or not tend to want to spend a lot of time with you and walk you to your class and stuff and they never say you bore or annoy them oh yes and they never tell you they like another girl (girls in general maybe but not a specific one with a specific name).
One last tip, the best way to know I always think is to look at it as though you weren't you. Be realistic and fair. Don't look at only what you want to see look at every hint the good AND bad. don't assume they like you because you want them to and don't assume they don't because you have low self esteem either. be REALISTIC. ...Or try.
good luck. sorry it's long. hope i helped. p.s. i think the one who dosnt have a gf likes you. but theres info lacking so i woudlnt be so sure...
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I'm in yearbook, and i'm working on a spread about band, and i'm having a hard time trying to think of what a story should include. Help? (link)
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hey. well make sure you include who teaches/sponsers it. Other stuff you may include are how long ago has it been around, who started it, what they do (marching band, right? they go to the football games, march with the drill team, compete, have concerts, etc.) and that kind of stuff. Like interesting facts about it if you know any or can figure out any. Maybe they won a competition or mention what place they were in this year's competition.
Example:
The Marching Band has been a part of Lincoln High since 1999. Mr. O'Brien teaches band and they practice almost every day of the week in the football field after school. The drum majar is Sarah Gibberd, a senior. She's done a great job!
Mr. O'Brien started the marching band along with the football coach so that students interested in music could feel like a part of Lincol H.S. and to give the football players encouragement. The Marching Band also competes every year in the Battle of The Marchign Bands and this year it won 3rd place in this competition thanks to its wonderful, talented members.
That's an example... something like that... I hope I understood your question right and I hope I could help. if I didn't get your question right please let me know so I can give you a different answer based on your actual question.
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I really have NO clue whatsoever to get him for his 16th birthday gift. He said that I didn't need to and if I insisted to get him money but I don't wanna get him any form of gift cards or money because I don't want there to be a little competition over who got him the most money and blah blah. These are things he's into:
-He's gay
-He loves photography--like LOVES
-He's into foreign things (Speaks Spanish and German, his sisters are adopted from China, his mom, although she is caucasian [sp?] was born and sorta raised in Japan)
-He is in a divorced family if that helps much
-We're going to movies and to a Japanese restaurant
-He blabs on and on about America's Next Top Model, Flavor of Love, Everyone Loves New York (or something with NEw YOrk in it...hte girl from Flavor of love)
-He hates his cell phone because it so out of date
-He's addicted to facebook
-He likes the band tATu, Evanescence, the song Fergalicious, and stuff like that. But he already has all the CDs so not much luck there
Hope my info was good enough? I just don't know what to get him. And as I said NO GIFT CARDS/MONEY!!! And around what price range should the gift be? I'm just a good friend. Not like bffl or anything and I'm only 14 with not much money left (link)
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hey. ...well what about some chocolate? =) I love chocolate. p.s. I agree on the money/gift card thing. It will be a competition, it's too impersonal, and it's not creative and it's like whatever. But anyway, here are other suggestions:
-a fan (a pretty, cultural one like the ones the geishas have)
-Memoirs of a Geisha (the dvd)
-a mixed CD (with your suggestions of what he may like, my suggestions would be some I Am The World Trade Center, Bjork, Jack Off Jill, etc.)
-a giant chocolate kiss
-a homemade cake
-something with a rainbow (if he's the gay-pride type... if he's not and he's ultra sensitive then no because he may find it offensive... although it shouldn't be) Like a wallet with a rainbow
-A wallet of his favorite band (like an Evanescence one)
-a disposable camera.... maybe a digital disposable camera
-scented candles
-if he has an ipod or a cellphone you can give him those thingies to put the ipods/cellphones in so they won't get scratched. but like a pretty one with poka dots or patterns of his favorite color
-one of those plushie monkeys you can hang around in your neck
-a T-Shirt of evanescence
-a funny birthday card (like from hallmark or something)
well good luck...
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i want a new screen name. im on colorguard. flag team. id liek it to reflect that. i love to toss. could yall please help me with an sn? thanks (link)
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let's see...
black_flag (or whatever your favorite color is)
colorpretty
toss_that_flag
i_toss_flags_u_shoould_2
breakhearts_tossflags
flags_r_us
team_black_flag (or whatever your favcorite color is)
#1flagtossers
Sorry if my suggestions are not very good but I don't really know what the colorguard is. I know it's something like Drill Team... well anyway I hope I could help.
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I am 20, a little athletic but i could stand to lose 20 pounds (i'm just a shade under 6' tall, 221 lbs.). I show everyone respect, I'm always referred to as a 'great friend' or 'like a big brother', but no matter how much i try i cannot get past that image. i'm either not seen as a date-able person or everyone i try to get close to lies and leads me on instead of telling me the truth and letting me know why they're not interested or what i was doing wrong. Am i doomed to be forever in the hell that we guys call the "Friend-zone"?
Any and all suggestions are welcome, but I have had enough 'help' from other guys. please understand that i'm looking for the female's answer to my problem.
thank you,
Confused-&-Sad (link)
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Hey. I'm a girl! let's see... let's see... ok when was the last time you had a girlfriend? Cause sometimes the in-between take time. (They don't for those people that are too slutty or flirty or 'experienced' but we don't all always have that luck). Well either way. It may have to do with the kind of girls you get close to... are they the cheerleader kind that are sweet and flirty but most likely have like a ton of other guys after them? If they are then it's going to take time when you get with one of them (you sort of have to wait for your 'turn') I know cause it's rather the same with the boys in my school... the cutest ones flirt with you, lead you on, but it's just what they do. Not because they are mean or anything... because they can. Also you have to flirt with the girls YOU like. And then ask them out after a while. Once you've told them they are pretty and they are really flattered and you made their day (even if they didn't show it). There was this guy who (he was one of those 'cute' ones) would always tell me I'm pretty and flirted with me and at first I didn't really flirt with him and from all the time I've known him I only told him he was cute ONCE but I really really liked him... I just never showed it. I think it really helped that he was very sweet and my idea of perfect and made me feel perfect (he told me I was pretty and smart and made me feel fun and he laughed at the stupid things I said thsat were meant to be jokes). Also it helped (I don't want to seem shallow but it did) that he was cute (it's just a matter of having nice hair or cool shirts, i'm not saying plastic surgery or anything lol and it's not the msot important thing but it always helps. ALSO he skates and he was learning how to play guitar. DO THAT! like learn an instrument. DRUMS or guitar. AND FLIRT! about everything else... don't change. I mean it's cool that you respect people and stuff so don't change from that.
oh! I almost forgot.... if you can make a girl laugh then you can win her heart (yeah that guy I was talking about... he was so funny!)
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I'm in my first serious relationship with an amazing guy. My family & friends all like him, and of course I like him very much. The problem is, since him and I have been together, I've spent less time with friends. They have been trying to hangout with me, but for some reason I have more fun with my boyfriend. I feel like a horrible friend because these girls are great friends. Is it so wrong that I'd rather be with my boyfriend at this point in my life? (17/F) (link)
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well lucky you, you have cool friends and a great boyfriend. personally i don't think you have to choose between them... you just have to balance it out. it's not wise that you spend so much time with your boyfriend and none with your friends because if anything were to happen (such as you guys breaking up or him moving away or him wanting to spend more time with HIS friends) you wouldn't have much to talk about with your friends and they may even ressent you. I'm not saying to choose your friends completely cause both friends and boyfriends come and go, even the ones that are very important to us. I'm not saying they WILL go, just that you make sure your friends and boyfriend are balance so you'll never have to worry about a what-if (like what if you get into a horrible fight with your friends or they backstab you or what if you and your boyfriend break up or he moves away). Also, your frineds miss you and you need to spend time with them. AND believe it or not it is unhealthy for any relationship to spend too much time with each other and none apart. You need your own time and space every once in a while. Try to set like a girls' night out (no boyfriends or boys or anything). Don't choose one over the other but don't shut neither one out either. They both care about you and you need both of them(your friends AND your boyfriend).
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i think my friend is a lesbian. what should i do without her getting mad at me? (link)
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Hi. Well I really liked the advice "Sherry" gave you and the "AlleyWalleyBobally" (something like that) advice was funny and might just work but anyways. Like I said, I agree with Sherry. I have friends (but they are guys) that never told me anything but in their MySpace they say they are bi and they have told a lot of their friends that they are bi. I hope you know where I am going with this... Anyway, if your friend IS a lesbian, as much as people can tell you that if she's a good friend you should just stay friends with her, I say that what you do is up to you. I am not against LGBT but if you are against them or if you don't feel comftrable around them or anything then you shouldn't be forced to be friends with someone who IS LGBT (lesbian, gay, bixesual, or transgender). I'm not saying it's ok to discriminate people, I'm just saying you have to work on accepting them on your own and you can't force yourself to be friends with someone who is LGBT because it can be a destructive or angry relationship so don't let anyone make you feel bad if you don't want to be friends with her anymore. However, since she WAS your frined at some point, and hopefully you will try to solve your issues (if you have any... maybe you don't, just in case) so you can be friends with her again in the future when you feel comtrable around her, you may want to keep her around as an aqcuaintance (not exactly a 'friend' you hang out with but a person you are in good temrs wiht and say hi to occassionally). If you DON'T feel comftrable around her remember that it's OK cause a lot of people don't when they have never met someone they knew was LGBT but keep in mind she is your friend and she is a person so even if you can't be friends she still deserves respect. But this advice pretty much only applies if she IS a lesbian and if you are not too comftrable with it.
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do i have to worry if my teen is emo--he quit swim team --does not like coach --"different"--don't "know him anymore"---artistic --freshman in large public high school--decent student --oldest child in family of 3 children, mom and dad (link)
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Hey. Personally I'm not a fan of labels but I'll go along for this one... I don't think you have to worry about your son being emo. Emo is emotional and being teenagers we have all these homrmones and live in our own little world... only some people show their 'emotionlness' more than others and they end up being 'emo'. But it's still nothing to worry about because my 'emo' friends just have their mood swings and things but I think it's just a 'colorful' way of expressing yourself. You should worry if your son is gothic and wearing all black and has morbid thoughts and is always depressed... emo people just have their mood swings and stuff but it's more petty and it's definitely as phase. It's nothing 'dark' or anything.
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There's a girl that I like. We go to different schools but live about 10 minutes away from each other. She has a boyfriend but we went out once and I found out that she likes me. She even told me. The time we went out was 2 weeks ago (last weekend she was busy and this weekend I am), and I don't know if I'm wasting my time because I think she won't break up with her boyfriend. They've been going out for 9 months, and she told me that he makes her cry almost every night but she just won't break up with him. What do I do..? (link)
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Aww, and she likes you back? Aww! ...sorry. Well I think you should be there for her. Keep going out when you guys aren't busy and hang out and talk on the phone whenever you can and stuff. I think she may really care for her boyfriend and/or doesn't want to be alone and she thinks if she breaks up with him she will be alone. But she's having problems with her boyfriend so even if you do stop talking to her eventually she and her boyfriend will break up, and the fact that she likes you means that subconsciously she does want to break up with him and isn't with him just because she really likes him because if that were the reason she would only like him). She'll see that you're there and you really care about her and see how much happier she can be with you and how breaking up with her boyfriend doesn't mean she'll be alone (it may also be scary for her if it's the longest relationship she's had). Of course, I do advice you to keep your options open... don't get your hopes up too high and don't be closed minded about meeting a girl from your school or somewhere else. Just in case for some reason nothing happens between you and the girl you like.
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i was rapped--twice.and i was telling my cousin about it (online) and her sn is sord of like this perverted (but we were cool) kids sn..and i ACCIDENTALY IMed him insted of my cousin..so he knows all about my rape. he now hates me..and i tried talkin to him but hes being rude and wont talk to me and if he does its an insult. then he IMed me and was like,"im ganna tell everyone" and went on his away message and it said " (my name) GOT RAPED!"im soo upset..my friend offered for her bf to beat him up..but hes not answering his phone or anything.. (2 people know about the rape)..WHAT SHOULD I DO??!!
anything will help at this point
love always and forever
sam (link)
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hey. taht guy realy sucks. first stop apologizing to him. you don't have anything to be sorry about. then tell him that he's messed up and you would never do that to him (even if u would... it'll get to him more if you say you wouldn't) and that you can't be his friend anymore and you'll never forgive him and that you thought he was cool but you were wrong. then stop talking to hi and ignore him and if anyone asks tell them he is making things up about you and that is why you stopped talking to him.
i'm sorry you had to go through something like that and i'm sorry there's people like that guy.
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I'm a Christian. Lately, I've been worried about something. I've been thinking things like "What if Christianity isn't the true religion and Islam/Buddhism is?" Basically I'm scared that Christianity may not be the true religion. I believe in Jesus, but what if Islam is the true religion? Then I would go to Hell forever because of one decision, you know? It makes me scared =(. What do you think..? (link)
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hey. I have never had those thoughts but I have wondered about other religions and how in the end WHO GOES TO HELL FOR BEING IN THE WRONG RELIGION? Well when I went through this phase of considering to change religion my mom told me something which I felt was very important (at least for me). She said that if your religion teaches you to respect other people and respect yourself and be a good person then you shouldn't change it. OK, my mom didn't say this but it is wirtten somehwere that actually people that change religions go to hell because they are 'traitors'. Im not syaing it's true or not but I kept it in mind although I don't know if I believe it or not but I don't have to worry about it because I decided not to change religions for my own purposes. Anyway, what she said makes sense. See, religion itself isn't perfect... God doesn't tell us what to do or not to do... the Church and the Priests or Reverends tell us but that's only what THEY think we should do. There are some religions who have bd leaders or just want to collect money. Christinaity is not one of those religions. I am Catholic and I aknowledge the Catholic Church has made many mistakes but I am still Catholic. But if tomorrow the Pope tells us that we should kill other people I still won't do it because I don't think it's right. We, as individuals, should have our own sense of right and wrong. And I don't believe there is a right or wrong religion. No matter what religion you are born into, as long as you are a good person you wil go to Heaven (my beleifs) and no matter what religion you are born into, if you're a bad person you won't go to Heaven. Even if you do go to chruhc every Sunday. I hope sharing my perspective can help you figure out your own. Good luck!
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Here is the deal.. Lately I've been thinking alot about if god is real or not.. I don't know if I should believe it.. I mostly think that life was created by mostly scientific reasons.. The bible could really be made up from along long time ago..Nobody really knows right? Has anybody ever been touched by god? If I do not believe in god what would I be? (link)
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Hi. I understand what you are going through, I went through a phase like that myself. Regardless on whether God exists or not (personaly I am over that phase and consider myself Catholic) the Bible was written a long time ago and can easily be misinterpreted. Nobody really does know what it means... at least not in the kind of way that they are `100% right and can confirm that with an answer sheet. That's why a lot of people try to follow in what they think is right based on the Bible. ...Touched by God physically? Personally I don't think so. There are people that may think they have been but they probably were in an unconscious state of mind and I don't know. If you don't believe in God (or a God) at all then you are Atheist. If you believe there is some sort of Creator or God but it's not exactly Jesus or the Father or you just don't know who it is then you are Agnostic (those are the people that 'doubt'... atheist are sure there is no god at all).
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whats caring and supportive means? i really know what that means and whats the difference between caring and supportive? (link)
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well a person that is caring and supportive of others is there for them and listens to them and reacts to them (actually cares) and also tries to help them in any way he or she can. The difference between caring and supportive is that being caring means that it DOES make a difference to you or you do feel sympahty towards someone for what they are going through and you are there for them in some ways like by listening. Being supportive means being there in other/more ways, like doing things to help someone and encouraging them in what they want to do (you can be caring but disencourage someone in what they want to do) and be there in most ways. Usually when you have one of the qualities you also have the other one. I hope I helped.
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i like this guy and we're friends, but i dont know if he likes me. i dont really want to tell him how i feel because im still a little confused about it. so does playing hard to get work? that way i pretend he doesnt mean anything to me and maybe i can see if he misses me, or notices that we dont see eachother. what else can i do??? (link)
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Hi. Playing hard to get can show you that he really likes you... but there's a risk that he'll just think you really don't like him and it's pointless and go away. However, no matter what happens, the good thing about playing hard to get is you get to keep your dignaty NO MATTER WHAT. Personally playing hard to get has never worked for me. It makes the guys sad and then if they see me talking to other guys jealous and... IDK, they seem to 'move on'. And playing hard to get has only worked for me with the guys I didn't want to get. Only with this one guy I played hard to get (sort of... really I was just mad at him) but he did 'chase' me but he really cared about me so I know he would have done that no matter what. Caring and attraction aren't necessarily the same thing so I would suggest you do is stick to the 'highschool' ways of knowing if he likes you... get a friend to ask him, ir flirt with him and see if he flirts back or seems weireded out, etc. I don't know what kind of guy he is so I can't say for sure that playing hard to get will work with him. It does work with SOME guys, I have seen it. But it depends on the guy.
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this is gonna sound very weird..and im sorry.. well im 14/f and i come from a family that is very hairy..yah so far i bet your thinking EW. ok well moving on i have like really bad issues with myself like im very self consious..and like since i come from a hair family my body is like yah..so my toes are ew and my knuckles and armsand tummy are yah u get it..so i was wonding what does anyone recomend..thanks ill rate! (link)
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Hi. I would suggest waxing. It may hurt a little but if you do it right and stuff you'll be okay. And if you keep doing it (don't go back to shaving ever again) then your hair will grow slower and thinner until it's not much of an issue anymore. There are medical treatments for that type of thing but those are more expensive and hard to find because it has to be someone who specializes and if you don't want to make it that much of a deal then I strongly recommend waxing. You can buys those waxing kits (they're not so expensive, at pick n save/big lots they are really cheap) and do it yourself at home. If you think it hurts too much or don't want to wax or don't know how or whatever you can always try the other things they sell like (what I use) this Sally Hanson cream thingie that you leave on from 7 to 15 minutes and then just wipe the hair away. Yeah, it lasts longer than shaving and your hair grows thinner but I think waxing may work better because it tears parts of the roots of the hair until eventually there is none or very little. Good luck!
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ive asked before but i like this guy and well the end of the year dance is coming and i wnat to ask him but alot has happened and...im scared im 13 and i cant stop thinking about him.he said that he hated me because im mean to him by the way i do my makeup!!!i kicked his bag and fealt like i was ganna start crying but not infront of him.how do i ask him???????and about the make up it took him like 5 mins just to think of a reason?i dont know why.sam said its because he likes me and dint want to hurt my fealings. (link)
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Hey. I am very sorry for misreading your question and I apologize for not re-answering sooner. OK, so he said he hates you... because supposebly you are mean to him? Well that's a strong word... yet you know how they say there's a thin line between love and hate... lol. Maybe he is insecure and feels not only that you don't like him but that you dislike him and if he's one of those childish boys he might say that he hates you because he likes you but he thinks you dislike him. ...Maybe I'm way off since I don't know what kind of person he is. What I would do in your situation is talk 2 him and ask 'did u mean what u said when u said u hate me?' Make sure you play out all the posibilities before you talk 2 him so you'll be strong enough not to cry when u do talk 2 him. If he says ask him why and calmly explain why you DON'T hate him and how his reasons are misunderstanding and tell him that if anything you think he's really cool and you'd like to get to know him more. Then wait a little while to ask him to the dance so he won't think you're just asking him to prove your point that u don't hate him and so that you guys will be closer and stuff. Be nice to him so he CAN'T hate you and then, once he says hi to you first and smiles when he sees you (or in a week or two or whenever you feel ready) tell him that you know you guys have had 'issues' but you really do like him and you think he's a cool guy and if he isn't doing anything maybe he would like to go to the dance with you. OK, tell me if I didn't get your question or didn't answer right again and sorry about the last time. GOOD LUCK!
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