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jacob
ive asked before but i like this guy and well the end of the year dance is coming and i wnat to ask him but alot has happened and...im scared im 13 and i cant stop thinking about him.he said that he hated me because im mean to him by the way i do my makeup!!!i kicked his bag and fealt like i was ganna start crying but not infront of him.how do i ask him???????and about the make up it took him like 5 mins just to think of a reason?i dont know why.sam said its because he likes me and dint want to hurt my fealings.
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well i think that you should tell him that you r really really sorry and you didnt mean it and that you wish he wouldnt say anything about your makup and then you should ask him to hang out somtime and get with some friends get to no him and then maybe you will be ready to ask him
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Hey. I am very sorry for misreading your question and I apologize for not re-answering sooner. OK, so he said he hates you... because supposebly you are mean to him? Well that's a strong word... yet you know how they say there's a thin line between love and hate... lol. Maybe he is insecure and feels not only that you don't like him but that you dislike him and if he's one of those childish boys he might say that he hates you because he likes you but he thinks you dislike him. ...Maybe I'm way off since I don't know what kind of person he is. What I would do in your situation is talk 2 him and ask 'did u mean what u said when u said u hate me?' Make sure you play out all the posibilities before you talk 2 him so you'll be strong enough not to cry when u do talk 2 him. If he says ask him why and calmly explain why you DON'T hate him and how his reasons are misunderstanding and tell him that if anything you think he's really cool and you'd like to get to know him more. Then wait a little while to ask him to the dance so he won't think you're just asking him to prove your point that u don't hate him and so that you guys will be closer and stuff. Be nice to him so he CAN'T hate you and then, once he says hi to you first and smiles when he sees you (or in a week or two or whenever you feel ready) tell him that you know you guys have had 'issues' but you really do like him and you think he's a cool guy and if he isn't doing anything maybe he would like to go to the dance with you. OK, tell me if I didn't get your question or didn't answer right again and sorry about the last time. GOOD LUCK!
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