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i think my friend is a lesbian. what should i do without her getting mad at me?
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You think she's a lesbian.. She might not be...so don't go accusing her of being something. Just wait until she tells you. If not, then she's probably not a lesbian. If she is, you can't stop it. If you really want to know.. just randomly ask questions like.. would you ever kiss a girl? or go out with one? things like that.
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i think you should sit her down and tell her thatb you dont want her to be a lesbian and if she do stop,stop being her friend. An say sorry
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What should you do?
Nothing. Your friend is a lesbian, then let her be a lesbian. At least you wouldn't have to worry about her liking the same guy as you.
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Don't jump to conclusions - how embarassing would it be if you accused her of being a lesbian & you were wrong? instead, try to find out FOR SURE if she's a lesbian. after you know, and you're okay with it (you may be a little uncomfortable, but she's your friend, and just because she's a lesbian doesn't make her a different person.) talk to her & let her know that you ARE okay with it, and nothing will change between you guys. [if thats how you feel!] <333
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IF thats your friend except who she is....as long she don't touch you in any un-apporpriate way...talk to her...HOLLA
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Just ask her. If she is she will tell you and if she is not, after she yells not tell her you were just kidding about the question and you eill have your question anwered.
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Hi. Well I really liked the advice "Sherry" gave you and the "AlleyWalleyBobally" (something like that) advice was funny and might just work but anyways. Like I said, I agree with Sherry. I have friends (but they are guys) that never told me anything but in their MySpace they say they are bi and they have told a lot of their friends that they are bi. I hope you know where I am going with this... Anyway, if your friend IS a lesbian, as much as people can tell you that if she's a good friend you should just stay friends with her, I say that what you do is up to you. I am not against LGBT but if you are against them or if you don't feel comftrable around them or anything then you shouldn't be forced to be friends with someone who IS LGBT (lesbian, gay, bixesual, or transgender). I'm not saying it's ok to discriminate people, I'm just saying you have to work on accepting them on your own and you can't force yourself to be friends with someone who is LGBT because it can be a destructive or angry relationship so don't let anyone make you feel bad if you don't want to be friends with her anymore. However, since she WAS your frined at some point, and hopefully you will try to solve your issues (if you have any... maybe you don't, just in case) so you can be friends with her again in the future when you feel comtrable around her, you may want to keep her around as an aqcuaintance (not exactly a 'friend' you hang out with but a person you are in good temrs wiht and say hi to occassionally). If you DON'T feel comftrable around her remember that it's OK cause a lot of people don't when they have never met someone they knew was LGBT but keep in mind she is your friend and she is a person so even if you can't be friends she still deserves respect. But this advice pretty much only applies if she IS a lesbian and if you are not too comftrable with it.
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i dont know what u would get mad about if shes been a good friend to u, it shouldnt matter what her sexual preference is
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I don't think you should do anything. If she is a lesbian and wants to share it with you, she'd say something. If she is a lesbian, and hasint said anything...she wants to keep it to herself in fear that you and her other friends might reject her. If she isint, then she obviously wont say anything. Just leave it alone and be under the impression that she is NOT lesbian until you have rock solid proof...like she told you personally. But you can also observe at the way she reacts when comments are being made about girls or guys! Hopefully I helped =)
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jus be like ohh shes hott and see if her face gets like yours does to a guy lol.
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