i'm from miami,fl im 17...and i'm a beautiful african-american..ask me anything..i will answer you..you will Love me..HOLLA
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Sorry if this is long.
I dated a guy a few years ago. For me, it was fantastic. I loved him very much. I've dated alot of guys since him but I've never felt that connection with anyone else.
We broke up. It was just too serious, too fast and we were too young.
All of a sudden, he pops back into my life (we're both in college now) and everything is completely crazy! I feel as though nothing has changed inside me as far as my feelings for him go.
We hugged that first day for a long time (we hadn't talked for years). He put his face in my neck, rubbed my back. Later when we talked he told me I'd gotten really pretty and kind of played with my hair a bit.
***He knows I'm seeing someone. He was seeing someone then too.***
Anyway, now we keep in touch through letters as he's away right now. I just can't tell if he feels the same about me or if he doesn't.
He says he still thinks about me and wonders if I'm happy. He's said I'm still very special to him. After that first day we talked, he came back to tell me that he'd thought of me that entire day but didnt know if it was a good thing or a bad thing.
I know he's in a place right now where he can't have a relationship. I can't make a move because of that. He needs to be HERE for me to do that.
But I just don't know. I don't know if he still feels something for me or if I'm just imaging it all because I have feelings for him. I don't know if maybe he's holding off too for the same reasons that I am.
What do you think? (link)
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he still love you..he just playing hard to get..trust me...he probably scare to tell you..and if he came back in your life a few years later than that can be your soulmate..
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hey..i have this boyfriend and he's really cute but i don't really have feelings for him anymore. i mean he's very sweet but like he's moving too fast and it's making me like turned off. and now he's making me feel like he should be my brother. idk what to do anymore! please someone help me!
i'll give 5 for trying..thanx! (link)
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if you don't have feelings for him tell him..so he won't look stupid...tell him you not ready to move fast..if he don;t like that thats his damn problem..you will find somebody else..
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Ive been going out with Jon for almost a year weve had are ups and downs around six months of going out one night he told me he didnt think i really loved him we had plans that night to go to a christmas party i was all ready to go but he just left me at home all night and hung out with his friends instead i was so upset i called my two bestfriends crying he just left me hanging they told me to break up with him or they wouldnt be my friend anyore so i dumped him the next morning my friends were always jealous that i didnt always hang out with them anymore but i made sure i hung out with them alot.My friends promised them would be there for me during the break up but they werent they became best friends and ditched me.jon is one of those guys most would call a player hes had alot of girlfriends done alot of things but this year everyone has told me hes so differant with me.He use to dump his girlfriends all the time but he hasnt dumped me yet.anyways onto my piont.One day we had gotten into a fight he told me i only think about myself that everything has to be about me.that i dont show him i love him i just say it.he said he didnt mean to get mad and that he loves me and doesnt know what he would do without me thats hes never felt this way about any girl before.Today was Patty Murphy Day(senior skip day)he skipped hes not a senior he said he had plans i said i didnt want to talk to him if he skipped ,my friend ashley brought me to a store today to pick up food before my game he happened to be outside i said hi walked away he got out of his car and said i told you youd talk to me i kissed him he said i love you tree times i didnt say anything back he drove off..It hurt to hear he doesnt think i care about him if i didnt i wouldnt be with him for a year how do i show him i care more what do i do?and as for the i love you thing i think i just shouldnt say it if he doesnt think i love him what about you?thanks so much (link)
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if you love him and he love you...go for it....talk to him...work it out...take a chance...
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ok so im 13/f and i like this guy, steven. we talk like kinda a lot. he always looks me in the eye. when he laughs he looks at me and i smile back. he's funny and makes me laugh. is he flirting with me? what our other signs of flirting or getting trying to get my attention? ill rate high!!! (link)
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if he flirting with you he will keep bothering you..keep stareing at you...or he will blush when he see you....
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hey my name is Rachel and iam 17 years old and my granny is 88 years old,but I don't think that is an exusce for her to tell me that iam to fat for my own good what should I do? (link)
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ignore your grandma...she's getting old...my grandma is the same way..its not her fault..she just talk for no reason...don't mind her girl..don't let that bother you...okay...
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i just asked a question about the guy i like but know that i think about it i feel its weird for a mixed girl (black and white) to go out with a white guy. is it weird? im afraid what people would say or how they would look at me. it worries me. im afraid people would talk about me and him. im getting very uncomfortable. is this weird? (link)
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girl im black....if thats how you feel go for o=it...you don;t go with boyfor other people..its how you feel towards the person....i love white boys...i ain't complaining..girl...don't them...go for it..
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Hey. Well yeah, theres this boy and I liked him for a very, very long time now. He finally broke up with his girl friend, but he still doesn't like me. Every time one of my friends ask he says I don't know. Just today one of my ex boyfriends, my first love, told me that he liked me again. We were talking for a while. I don't know what to do. When he told me he liked me I had butterflys and felt like we were starting over again. I don't know if I should wait longer, because I already waited about 3 months for this first boy, or if I should go back out with my first love. Please help. (link)
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girl..never wait for some boy..if a boy likes you he would not make you wait...go back to your ex boyfriend...because that boy treating like dirt....trust me...it will come back to him..
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okay;; well i havea huge issue with trust
but its only with this one boy.
i really dont care about anyone else
well. anyways.
okay.
sometimes i dont belive he loves me
i mean theres a differnt bewteen
"thinking" you love someone
and "knowing" you love someone.
and i KNOW i love him.
and he said he KNOWS he loves me
but i dont believe him
and he asked me how can he prove it
but i dont know how?
so do you got any advice on what i should do with
telling him to prove it.
like any ideas. (link)
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wow...the same situation im in....my boyfriend tells me the same thing..when he said how can he show he love me...i tell him its a question he have to answer because if he love me he will know ways to show me that he love me...so tell him..that will get him thinking..
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Okay so sorry if this is long but if you repond I'll give you a five no matter what:]]
I had been going out with a boy and he was like, the best boyfriend possible except he just would suffocate me kind of, but not a lot. I started to like this other boy so I broke up with my boyfriend. My boyfriend was sad and stuff but then I started liking him again and not the other guy. Now I really want to get back with my ex but he is just like considering it. I am having my friend talk to him because I am soo shy. I have never loved someone so much in my life and I really want to get with him again. What should I do? (link)
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if thats how you feel go for it....but you dump your ex for someone else....let me give you a quote"you will never know when you have somthing special until you lose it"....talk to him..if he love you..he will take you back...if he don't..you will find sombody else..and you will learn from your mistake...
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So, as questions like these always begin...
There's this guy, who I very much like, and have liked for quite a while now. Quite a while being around a year or so. Well, at the time I was dating my ex boyfriend of two years, so of course I didn't break up with him like I should have. I'm so smart...
Well, this guy has been sending me mixed signals. I really, honestly think he might like me, but I'm not sure. I've had a major, major crush on him for the longest time, and I've always hoped he'd work up to asking me out. He'd been talking to me for the longest time, then he suddenly stopped. I wondered what was wrong, but then the bomb dropped.
Anyway, today I found out that he's moving.
Yeah, it really struck me. He's not moving too far away, only about an hour away, but still. Argh! So now, I teeter on the fence between telling him how I feel and not. Should I? I'm so confused.
A girl in my class is having a pool party on Saturday, but should I tell him tomorrow or should I tell him Saturday? Should I even tell him at all?
Any thoughtful answers would be appreciated. (link)
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yes girl tell him before you regret it....if you have a crush on him..go for it....take a chance...because if you don't...you will regert later in life...just tell him how you feel...don't hold your feelings in...just tell him...trust me...its worth it....
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i am a gay male 13 and i dont know what to do to keep my boyfriend or my new beyfriend? (link)
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who ever treat you better or you feel more comfortable with thats who you choose....
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last summer i met a boy in a chatroom ... yes i know chatroom. I use to go in them all the time when i was bored and whatever play around i guess anyways i started talking to this kid, and over time i actuallu started to like him. I never seena picture of him at first so i know i liked him for him and not what he looks like. We kinda dated ... ughhh sounds gay i know i know. Its not like i cant get a guy in real life, i can and i do but i always end up thinking about him. I've seen his picture only a month ago and hes alright! not cute or anything but i still love him. His personality is wonderful and i cant get enough of him, but the whole idea of meeting him from online makes me feel like a geek! i dunt noe. I had a boyfriend before i met him and i was in love or at least i thought i was. i already knew what i wanted but now i want him!! is that weird??? And i know hes not a fake!!! he has a myspace and has ALOT of friends on it from his school and we talk on the phone?? do you guys think its weird .... do you think its possible to be in love with someone you hardly know but in a way you do!! (link)
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people will always love someone in wierd ways...but if thats how you feel go for it..but be careful cause they be putting fake pictures..and you probabl might be mad...so go for it...okay
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i think my friend is a lesbian. what should i do without her getting mad at me? (link)
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IF thats your friend except who she is....as long she don't touch you in any un-apporpriate way...talk to her...HOLLA
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16/f i have been going out with this guy for a month now. but im starting not to like him very much any more and i like other guys too. but yesterday we went to a dance and he said i mean so much to him. i think i should break up with him but im afraid i will hurt him so much. what should i do? (link)
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if thats how your feel..you have to break up with him...but think it over before you do it...you never know what you had until you lose it...remember this quote..it will help you out...HOLLA
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I told my "Best friend" that i might be gay only because she said if i told her that nothing would change and that we would still be friends nomatter what but after i told her everythin was cool after the frist 4 day but after she didnt even wanna talk to me i told her that after i tolder she had changed and she said that she hadnt i really want to still be friends with her but i kno we may never be the same now she just dosent say nuthin to me she dosent even sit next to me what can i do to make her just lissen to what i have to say about it???? (link)
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girl..if that was your best friend she wouldn't betray you like that...cause i have a friend who is bi-sexual..and i don't treat her diffrent..as long she don't put her hands on me or make a move....but if that was really your bestfriend she would except who you were...cause every friend would be like oh..they will talk to you even if you gay..than when you tell them..they back off of you slowly..well sweetie,if she don't except who is...find new friends..that will....trust me...she is not the only friend you will ever have.....
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A guy asked me to go to the movies with him this Friday and I said yes. Well we were talking and he asked me if I was going to bring anything with me. I was thinking, "Hm...I thought this was a date?" So I told him that I wasn't planning to but I will if he brings someone. So we decided that we both were bringing someone. Then, about 10 min. later he said that he'd really like it if we went alone. So at that point I was just like, "Uh, wtf? Does this guy not know what he wants?"
Well, I've talked to him for at least an hour and half each day since Monday and now I don't think that I really like him. Like, at all. Not even as someone I'd hang out with as friends.
So my question is, do you think it's too late to cancel? Or would it be rude of me to cancel the day before? I was also thinking about saying that I want to bring a friend after all. What do you guys think?
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YES, it would be rude to cancel the that...first make him pay for everything...than after the date...the next day ignore him and say that you have to go home to watch your grandma or say any lie...trust me it work for me....HOLLA...
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I am a teenage girl with a boyfriend. What do I do if I see him with another girl? (link)
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girl,if you see your boyfriend talk to another girl...make sure he see you..don't go to him and ask question..just pass by him so he can notice you..cause that be happening to me all the time...and if he act like he don't see you...when you see him by himself than you ask question...oKay...HOLLA...
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I'm having a really big problem with a certain advicenator that gives horrible advice, puts people down, and makes fun of the questions that people can't answer... I know it's not my place to say something but this person is VERY rude and makes people feel like crud, I would know. I really want to say something.. This one girl said "Im 150 lbs and I need help losing weight" and the advicenator said "Who cares you're the f**king fat a** not me im only 112 and taller than u, fat a**" thats just rude so help me please... thanks alot (link)
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don't listen to them girl....people like them just want to be jokers...ignore them....they ain't nothing...just ask anither people advice....like me..i will answer your probelm..with respect...okey..god bless...HOLLA..
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well ok theres a guy in my vocal class and we have become somewhat of a couple just not going out and what not, because i am moving in 3 months but i asked him out anyway i just figured i would just ask just to see...and he's thinking about it...was it a smart idea or should i have not of bothered at all? (link)
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its not a smart idea.....you leaving in 3 months..why you want to ask him out..if you know you leaving..what if over those three months he started to fall in love with you or you start to fall in love with him..than both of ya will get ya'll hearts broking...just admit you liked him..but ya'll can't go out because you leaving soon...okay...HOLLA....
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Me and this guy were kind of dating then he stopped liking me cause he met some other girl. Now, he is coming back to me and wants to have what we had before. I don't like him, the only reason why I would get back with him was to kiss him cause I have never been kissed before. What should I do? Go along with it and get kissed... how could I do that? Or just totally forget about him? (link)
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no don't do that...your time will come to kiss someone you will treat you right and won't leave you for someone else...do not go back out with him...cause he might end up hurting you...that happen to me once...and tell your ex this ''NEVER LEAVE THE ONE YOU LOVE FOR THE ONE YOU LIKE BECAUSE THE ONE YOU LIKE WILL LEAVE YOU FOR THE ONE THEY LOVE''...Okay...HOLLA
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