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Does he still have feelings for me?
Sorry if this is long.
I dated a guy a few years ago. For me, it was fantastic. I loved him very much. I've dated alot of guys since him but I've never felt that connection with anyone else.
We broke up. It was just too serious, too fast and we were too young.
All of a sudden, he pops back into my life (we're both in college now) and everything is completely crazy! I feel as though nothing has changed inside me as far as my feelings for him go.
We hugged that first day for a long time (we hadn't talked for years). He put his face in my neck, rubbed my back. Later when we talked he told me I'd gotten really pretty and kind of played with my hair a bit.
***He knows I'm seeing someone. He was seeing someone then too.***
Anyway, now we keep in touch through letters as he's away right now. I just can't tell if he feels the same about me or if he doesn't.
He says he still thinks about me and wonders if I'm happy. He's said I'm still very special to him. After that first day we talked, he came back to tell me that he'd thought of me that entire day but didnt know if it was a good thing or a bad thing.
I know he's in a place right now where he can't have a relationship. I can't make a move because of that. He needs to be HERE for me to do that.
But I just don't know. I don't know if he still feels something for me or if I'm just imaging it all because I have feelings for him. I don't know if maybe he's holding off too for the same reasons that I am.
What do you think?
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well i believe that he still likes you, but he also likes this other girl. he likes to flirt with you, but there is not enough information to determine whether or not he may like you. from the way i see it, other than the part about playing with your hair, he just really likes you as a friend. like the way someone would love a pet dog or something. im not positive. he may actually like you tho... as more than a dog =P. but you shouldnt make a move. he has a girlfriend and he appears rather content with his life, even if he likes you. whatever it is that keeps him happy it needs to stay that way, because you like him and you just want him to be happy. then again he still thinks about you and wonders if youre happy. i mean, basically your not gonna be happy at the maximum until he's there. and if you feel he digs you, then maybe include how much happier youd be if he was somewhere where you could talk in person, in one of your letters. hope i helped.
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he still love you..he just playing hard to get..trust me...he probably scare to tell you..and if he came back in your life a few years later than that can be your soulmate..
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